Basa Riri Pamba Pamba Mubereki Anonyatsoda Kuchengetwa Kwevana Here?

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Zvaunofanira Kufunga uye Kwokuwana Kuchengetwa Kwevana Kana Paunoshanda Kubva Pamba
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Kana uri kushanda kubva kumusha kuitira kuti upedze nguva yakawanda nemhuri yako, pfungwa yekubhadhara mumwe munhu kutarisira vana vako inogona kuoneka se-counter-intuitive. Kunyange zvakadaro vabereki vakawanda vanoshanda-pamba vabereki vanosarudza kubhadhara mari yekunze vana. Vamwe vangashandisa mari yekudhura kana kusununguka kwevana.

Hapana mhuri mbiri dzinotora ichi chiyero nenzira imwechete. Mumwe nomumwe anofanira kuronga nzira iyo inogadzirisa zvinodiwa zvevana uye mamiriro ekudzidzira uye mune zvemari yemubereki. Chimwe chinhu, zvisinei, kuti mhuri dzose dzakafanana ndezvavanoda izvo zvakanakisisa kuvana vavo.

Kana iwe uchishanda kumba (kana uri kuifunga), zvinogona kupindura kuti kana iwe uchida kuchengetwa kwevana ndewe "hongu." Kuverengera kwevana zvakadini uye zvinopa mupi zvinoda kusiyana kubva kumhuri kusvika kumhuri. Uye pamusoro peizvi, izvi zvose zvichachinja sezvo vana vachikura.

Verenga pamusoro kuti uone kuti ndezvipi uye rudzi rwekuchengetedza vana kwaunofanira kufunga nezvemhuri yako.

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Nguva Yakazara, Chikamu Chikamu Kana Kusina Mwana Kuchengeta?

Vabereki avo vanozvimirira makontraketeni, vashandi vemabhizimisi epamba, uye vaterevhizheni vakashanda vachava nevanoda zvakasiyana mukuchengetwa kwevana sezvinoita mhuri dzinotungamirirwa nemubereki mumwechete kana kuti mune imwe mubereki umwe anoshanda chikamu chekanguva kana kwete zvachose. Vabereki vecheche nevana vaduku vanopesana neavo vezera rechikoro vana vachawanawo kuchengetwa kwavo kwevana kunoda zvakasiyana.

Chikamu Chekuchengetedza Vana Nguva

Kana iwe ukangoshanda pachese-nguva, zvakajeka iwe unoda chete kutora nguva yenguva yekuchengeta vana. Zvisinei, vamwe vanoshanda nguva yakazara asi vane shanduro dzinogadziriswa vanogonawo kutora nehurongwa hwenguva pfupi chete. Urongwa uhwu hunoita zvakanyatsonaka kune vadzidzisi vemabhizimisi epamba uye makambani ehurumende. Vabereki vanozvimiririra vanowanzokwanisa kuderedza maawa avo (uye ,zve, mari yavo) kuitira kuti ivo vanongoda kubata nguva yenguva.

Nguva yezuva raunoshanda nayo inoitawo kusiyana. Vabereki vekushanda-kumba vanobata mumaawa emanheru apo vana vari kurara vanogona kuderedza kuvimba kwavo nekunze kwevana. Vamwe vakaroorana vanoita basa rekuchengeta vana, kana mumwe kana vose vane purogiramu yakajeka kana kuita basa rekushandura, zvichiita kuti zvikwanise kushandisa rubatsiro rwechikamu chega.

Chikoro-vana vanogara vanowanzoenda maawa masere pazuva, vachisiya nguva shomanana chete iyo vana vanoda kubata. Vabereki vane vana kuchikoro vanogona kuwana kuti vanongoda chete shure kwekuchikoro .

Vabereki vakawanda vanoshanda-kumba-avo vanoshandisa chikamu chenguva-kana kana vasina vana vachabata basa panguva imwe chete vachitarisira mwana. Izvi zvinoshanda zvakanakisisa kune mukuru mwana. Nechecheche kana mwana, vabereki vanogona kungoshanda mufupfupi kana kana mwana ari pasi. Chikoro-vana vezera vanofanira kunge vachigona kutamba vachizvimiririra. Zvisinei, ramba uchiyeuka kuti rudzi urwu rwekudzidzira zvakawanda pamubereki hunogona kuderedza kunaka kwemubereki nemwana nguva.

Child-Full Childcare

Kana iwe uri kutengesa telefoni panzvimbo yebasa nguva yakazara, iwe unogona kunge uchida kuchengetwa kwevana nguva yakazara. Vashandi vari kubhadhara nguva yenyu. Iyo haisi nyaya yekuti iwe unogona kukwanisa zvido zvemwana wako asiwo zvakare kana iwe unogona zvakare kuzadzisa zvinotarisirwa nemushandi wako.

Chimwe chikonzero icho vamwe vanoshanda-kumba-vabereki vanosarudza kutarisira nguva yakazara ndeyekuti havawanzoshanda kubva kumba. Kana basa rako richida kuti iwe uende muhofisi dzimwe nguva kana kufamba, kuva nehutano hwekuchengeta vana kunowedzera huwandu hwekushandura, zvichiita kuti zvive nyore nyore.

Hapana Kuchengeta Vana

Vabereki vakawanda vane telecommunication vanogona kupedza basa ravo pasina kuchengetwa kwevana, asi nzira iyi inewo mari. Inogona kupfeka mubereki pasi kuti nguva dzose igare yakawanda nekutarisira vana uye kushanda panguva imwe chete. Inogona kuderedza mari yako. Inogona kureva nzvimbo yakaderera inokurudzira vana. Vabereki vanofanira kuenzanisa zvose zvezvinetso izvi.

Ramba uchiona kuti rudzi rwekuchengeta vana rungashanda zvakanakisisa sei kumhuri yako.

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Ndechipi Chakuchengeta Vana Chakanaka Kwauri?
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Mamiriro ose evanhu akasiyana zvakasiyana. Heano mamwe mazano ekutarisira vana okufungisisa:

Chikamu-Nguva Mubereki

Kuva netter mumba mako kunogona kuva yakagadzirisa uye yekugadzirisa sarudzo, uchifunga kuti unogona kuwana munhu akakodzera iyo purogiramu inokodzera yako. Nemhaka yokuti vana vechidiki venguva yakazara vane mamwe mabasa kana zvido zvamungada kuti mushande pabasa ravo pamwe chete.

Amai vaHelp

Vabatsiri vaamai vane ruzivo rudiki kudarika vana vabati uye vanoshanda chete kana munhu mukuru aripo mumba. Vanogona kuchenesa chiedza, kugadzirira kudya kana mamwe mabasa sezvaanoda. Kakawanda kechidiki kana chepakati kudzidza kune vana, vabatsiri vamai vanodikanwa kupfuura vatariri asi vanowanzobhadhara vashoma.

Full-Time Nanny

Kana wakatsunga kuti unoda kutarisira vana nguva yakazara, mutarisiri mumba mako (kubva ipapo ndipo paunenge uri) ndiyo ndiyo yakanakisisa kana vana vako vasiri kuchikoro. Imwe nyanzvi ichachengetedza vana vaduku kubva pakuvhiringidza basa rako uye, mumamiriro mazhinji, rinogona kutungamirira vana kuita mabasa kana kuitora kubva kuchikoro. Kushandira muchengeti wevana wenguva yakazara kunopedza kukosha kwekutsvaga kwekuchengetedza vana munguva dzezororo dzechikoro uye kana mwana wako ari kurwara. Kazhinji nannies haararami nemhuri asi nhengo inorarama-in-in kana mukati yevashandi isarudzo kana iwe ukatora bhizimisi nguva zhinji kana kuti unoshanda kunze kweimba usiku.

Shamwari kana Shamwari

Kuva nembuya nababa kana dzimwe hama sekupa mwana wako muchengeti wevana kunogona kuva kukunda-kukunda mamiriro ezvinhu, chero bedzi zvinotarisirwa, mazano ekuberekera vana, uye zvirongwa zvinokurukurwa mberi. Pakati pemitsara imwecheteyo, "kutengesa mwana" neshamwari dzakafanana-siyana (iwe unobata vana vavo zuva rimwe chete, ipapo vanodzokazve) inogona kuva sarudzo yakawanda-yenguva, kupa mwana wako mukana wekutamba matamba mukati nekunze kweimba yako .

Daycare Center / Preschool

Inoratidzika kumashure kuti vana vabve pamba zuva rimwe nerimwe vabereki pavanogara kumba. Uye kune vakawanda vanoshanda-pamba vabereki vanochengetedza zuva chete hazvirevi pfungwa. Zvisinei, zvikoro zvekuchikoro uye zuvacare zvinopa chimwe chinhu vabereki vasingakwanisi - kushamwaridzana kwevanhu nevezera ravo. Uyewo, zuvacare ingave yakadhura yakazara-nguva yakasarudzwa pane imwe nanny. Vana vacheche, vaduku, uye vaduku vanogona kutarisirwa zvakanyanya kupfuura zvaunokwanisa kupa kana basa rako rinosanganisira nguva dzakarenda kana nguva dzese dzefoni. Kuvatumira kune zuvacare, kwavanozoita shamwari uye kuita zvinhu zvinokurudzira, inogona kuva chinhu chakanaka kune vose.

Shure-Chikoro Chikoro

Kana uchida kuchengetwa kwevana venguva yakazara uye vana vako vari kuchikoro-zera, kutarisira-shure kwekuchikoro kungave kuri nyore (uye zvichida kunodhura) sarudzo pane kurongeka nemubereki. Zvechokwadi, chimwe chikonzero chekushanda kubva kumba ndiko kupedza nguva yakawanda nevana vako. Zvisinei, kubviswa kwekutora kwako kunogona kuwedzera nguva yemhuri munguva yako.

Summer Camp

Kana iwe uchivimba nechikoro semwana wako wekuchengeta vana, iwe uchada hurongwa hwakasiyana muzhizha. Zuva rezhizha rinogona kunge rakagadzirisa mari yacho.