Nzira uye sei kuti uite rini kana mbeu dzako dzichifanira kuva nemakamuri avo.
Ko mazana ako anofanira kugovera mukamuri here?
Kubva kune vavakaroorana navo kune vavanogara navo, vabereki vazhinji vevakawanda vanoona zviri nyore kwazvo kugadzirisa imwe nursery yevana vavo mapatya, katatu kana kupfuura. Imba imwe yeimba yeimba yekamuri yose mapuranga; imwe kambani ine mazamu akawanda akanaka macheche emucheche. Iyoyo mhinduro yakanaka kune vacheche; Zvisinei, sezvo vana vachikura, vabereki vakawanda vanotanga kuongorora dzimwe nzira.
Mamwe mapatya emadzimai kazhinji anowanzoita zvekugovera muimba yekurara kupfuura dzakawanda zvehama dzevarume vakasiyana. Vakawanda vanobatana nemhuri nevakoma vakwegura vangagovana nzvimbo nehanzvadzi kana hanzvadzi yakwegura.
Kusarudza kuti sei kana nguva yekugadzirisa zvivako zvakatsaurwa ndeipi nyaya iyo vabereki vakawanda vanotarisana pane imwe nguva. Mhuri imwe neimwe yakasiyana, uye sarudzo dzose dzezvipembenene dzinoshandisa chisungo chakasiyana, saka hapana nguva yekujekesa yekuita shanduko. Imba yemiganhu inogona kugadzirisa mhinduro yekupedzisira, kana kuti mazvipeta pachavo angaratidza chisarudzo chinokurudzira kuchinja. Apo mhuri imwe neimwe ichine nguva yavo pachayo, pane zvikamu zvakasiyana kana zvichiwanzoita kuendesa kumakamuri akaparadzaniswa.
Mumakore mashomanana, chivako chakagoverwa chinogona kunge chichivhiringidza panguva yekurara, kunyanya kana vana vachifuratira kubva mumakanda vachienda mumibhedha kubva kwavanogona kukwira mukati nekunze. Nhamba yepamende inova nguva yekutamba kana pane shamwari muimba!
Saka, vabereki vanogona kukurudzirwa kuparadzanisa zvizhinji zvavo kuitira kukurudzira hukama hune rugare.
Zvisinei, vana vaduku vanogona kunge vakanyatsoteerera kuparadzana; inogona kunzwa sechirango panzvimbo yekodzero. Kuvapo kwevanobatana navo kunogona kuva nyaradzo, uye kuparadzana kunogona kuumba kukanganiswa kukuru.
Kana ukasarudza kugadzirisa dzimba dzakasiyana dzemapatya ako, nguva yekufamba zvakanyatsonaka kuti usapesana nemamwe mararamiro ehupenyu, zvakadai semvura yekudzidzira kana kutanga kutanga.
Sezvo vazhinji vachikura, vanokwanisa kutaurirana manzwiro avo uye zvido zvavo. Ndiko apo vabereki vanogona kukumbira rubatsiro, vachibvumira kuwanda kwavo kuti vataure zvavanoda uye kugadzikana nezvikumbiro zvavo sezvavanoona zvakakodzera. Kutanga chikoro kunowanzowanzokosha pakuwanda; vanogona kunge vari mumapoka akasiyana kwekutanga uye vanotanga kukura ivo pachavo.
Chikoro chemakore nguva inowanzoita kuti shanduko iparadzanise makamuri, kunyanya sezvo vadzidzi vachida nzvimbo yega yega yekudzidza uye yekupedzisa basa rechikoro. Kana zvivako zvakatsaurwa zvisingabviri, vabereki vanofanira kunyanya kufunga nezvekugadzirisa imwe nzvimbo yedheski nzvimbo yemwana mumwe nomumwe kukurudzira maitiro akanaka ekudzidza.
Kugadzira manzwiro edzimhosva uye kuzvidavirira kweumwe munhu chimwe chinhu chinokurudzira kumakamuri akasiyana. Kutaura zvazviri, ndicho ndicho chikonzero nei takasarudza kutamisa mapatya angu mudzimba dzavo. Takaona zvichiwedzera zvakaoma kukurudzira kushandiswa kwebasa pamwe chete kwekugara kwavo kwekuvata; dambudziko racho raive nguva dzose "mhosva yehanzvadzi" uye pakanga pasina kupesana kusingaperi pamusoro pezvinhu.
Pane imwe nguva ivo vaibvumirwa mumakamuri avo, vakawana zviri nyore kuchengetedza "zvinhu" zvavo. Takazviwana zviri nyore kuti tiite kuti mumwe nomumwe azvidavirire kuitira kuti vachengete imba yavo.
Kunyange zvazvo vakave nemakamuri avo kwemakore anoda kusvika ikozvino, vari kusarudza kurara pamwechete nguva nenguva. Vanofarira ushamwari, uye handifungi, chero bedzi vachienda kunorara nenguva. Mhemberero dzavo nevevevezeve vanondiyeuchidza nezvemazuva ekare apo pavakagovana hurukuro yevana uye vakakandira mhuka dzavo dzakaputika kubva pachigunha kusvika pakucheka.