Samples ye Joint Custody Schedules

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50/50 Joint Physical Custody Options
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"Tine kodzero yekubatana." Vakaroorana uye vabereki vakaparadzaniswa vakakanda mazwi aya kumativi ose, asi hapana rimwe chete purogiramu yekutaura kwezwi. A

Mutero unogona kuva muviri, mutemo kana zvose. Apo vabereki vanowirirana kuchengetedzwa kwepamutemo, vose vari vaviri vanoti pane zvisarudzo zvikuru pamusoro pehupenyu hwomwana, zvakadai sezvedzidzo, kurera mune zvechitendero, uye kurapwa. Vabereki pavanenge vachichengetedza muviri, vana vavo vanopedza nguva yakaenzana nguva yakaenzana yekugara mune imwe neimwe yemisha yavo, kunyange zvazvo hazvirevi kuti ive yakakwana 50/50 split. A

Zvirongwa izvi zvitanhatu zvekuchengetedza zvigadziro zvinopa nguva inenge yakaenzana yevana vane vabereki vose. Iwe unogona kuisa tweek uye kugadzirisa zvirongwa izvi kuti usangane nemhuri yako inoda zvakasiyana. Zvakakosha kugadzirisa purogiramu inoshanda kune munhu wose uye inotora zvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana zvichifungisisa, zvakadai sezvirongwa zvebasa revabereki vose, mapurogiramu echikoro chevana vako, mabasa avo epamberi, uye kunyange kutyaira maonero kana iwe uchirarama makiromita anopfuura makumi matatu . Zvose izvi zvirongwa zvinofanira kukupa mavambo akanaka.

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Chokutanga # 1: Mavhiki mashoma
Jennifer Wolf

Vana vanogara kumba kwamai vhiki imwe chete, vobva vashandura kumba kwebaba vhiki inotevera neyi purogiramu. Mhuri dzakawanda dzinosarudza kuita shanduko musi weChishanu, asi iwe unogona kusarudza chero zuva revhiki rinoshanda zvakanaka kwauri.

Sezvo nehurukuro dzakawanda dzekuchengetedza muviri, izvi zvinoda kuti vana vako vave nemakamuri ehombe uye zvizere munzvimbo imwe neimwe yedzimba dzenyu: Chengetedza makapfekete, mapikicha, uye magetsi anowanikwa munzvimbo imwe neimwe kusvika pakukwanisika. Iwe haudi kuti vana vako vachinzwe sevadzimai, vachikwevera zvinhu zvavo zvavanofarira zvakare uye zvichienda pakati pemisha yenyu vhiki rese.

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Chokutanga # 2: Kushanyirwa kweMidweek
Jennifer Wolf

Mhuri dzakawanda dzinowedzera kushanya kwemasikati machena pane purogiramu yevhiki yavo yokufambisa, saka vana havambofi vhiki yakazara vasina kuona kana mubereki. Muenzaniso wepurogiramu yakaratidzwa pano ine kuti pakati pevhiki inoshanyira kuitika musi weChishanu, asi iwe unogona kusarudza chero zuva rakashanda zvakanakisisa kumhuri yako.

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Chinhu # 3: A Midweek Overnight
Jennifer Wolf

Neyi purogiramu, vana vanowanzogaramo zuva rimwe chete pavhiki (kazhinji musi weChishanu), asi vanofarira imwe pakati pevhiki neusiku humwe nemumwe mubereki. Zuva rokutanga rokushanyira husiku hunoitika musi weChipiri pamakorani akaratidzwa pano, asi izvi hazvina kuvezwa mumabwe kana rimwe husiku huchishanda zviri nani nevana vako 'dzimwe nguva uye sarudzo dzebasa rako.

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Mhando # 4: Kuchinja kwe 2-2-3
Jennifer Wolf

Nehurongwa uhwu hwekuchengetedza, vana vanogara naBabereki A kwemazuva maviri, uye pamwe neBabereki B kwemazuva maviri, vozopedza vhiki yemazuva matatu kwemazuva neParent A. Vhiki inotevera, chiitiko chinowanzoitika uye vana vanogara naBabereki B mazuva maviri, ipapo Mubereki A kwemazuva maviri, usati watora vhiki yezuva remazuva matatu neParent B. Izvi zvinobvumira vabereki kuti vawane dzimwe nguva yekupera kwevhiki nevana.

Iko kunokonzera kushungurudzika kunogona kuisa pavana vako, kunyanya kana vaduku vavo kana iwe uye wako wekare usingararami nehukama hwepedyo. Kuenda kumusha wemumwe mubereki mazuva ose mashomanana kunogona kuvhiringidza. Zvinogona kuonekwa nevana vako kuti inguva yekubva zvakare mushure mokunge vagaremo. Uye iwe wose uchange uchitora nguva yakawanda mumugwagwa kana iwe neyekare uri kurarama kure kure.

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Chokutanga # 5: A 3-3-4-4 Kuchinja
Jennifer Wolf

Vana vanopedza mazuva matatu nemubereki A, mazuva matatu neBabereki B, uye mazuva mana neParent A ane purogiramu iyi, inotevera nemamwe mazuva mana neParent B. Zvakanakisisa ndezvokuti vana vanogara vari pane imwe imba paSvondo kusvikira paChipiri, uye kune imwe nzvimbo yeChitatu kusvika kuChishanu. Zuva roga roga rinoshanduka kubva vhiki kusvika vhiki ndiMugovera, kupa zuva revhiki revhiki kumubereki mumwe nomumwe. Nguva yakareba yeimba yemubereki mumwe nomumwe inogona kunge isina kuvhiringidza vana.

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Chokutanga # 6: A 2-2-5-5 kuchinjwa
3-3-4-4 kuchinja kwevabereki vachigovana pamwe chete. Jennifer Wolf

Ichi chiitiko chakafanana ne3-3-4-4 purogiramu, asi vana vanogara naParent A kwemazuva maviri, ipapo Parent B kwemazuva maviri, kuteverwa nemazuva mashanu neParent A uye mazuva mashanu neParent B. Sezvakaita 3 -4-4-4 zuva rokutenderera, purogiramu ino inobvumira vana kuti vapedze Svondo neMuvhuro mune imwe imba yekugara, uye Chipiri neChitatu kune imwe. Mazuva mashoma anochinja kubva vhiki nevhiki ndiChishanu, Chishanu, neMugovera.

Pasinei nekuchengetedzwa kwemaitiro ako akasarudzwa, yeuka kupa mumwe nomumwe mumhuri yako nguva yekugadzirisa asati agadzirisa. Kuita hurongwa huripo nekunyora iyo muurongwa hwekuberekwa kwevabereki hunogona kubatsira munhu wese kuomerera pane purogiramu uye kuyeuka zvakakosha zvayo zvakare. Funga nezvekudzokorora chirongwa chacho kamwe chete munguva imwechete kuti uone kuti inoramba ichingosangana nezvose zvaunoda. Pamusoro pezvose, rega vana vako vanzwe inzwi mukugadzirira nekukurukurirana kana vakwegura zvakakwana.