Ups uye Downs of Middle School Ushamwari

Ukama hwenyu hwepakati hunogona kunge husingafadzi panguva yechikoro chepakatikati

Nenguva iyo mwana anosvika kuchikoro chepakati, ushamwari hwave hwakakosha pakuvandudza sehupenyu hwemhuri. Vechikoro vepakati chechikoro vanotarisira kubvuma kubva kune vezera ravo uye vanotarisa kune shamwari kuti vabatsire kufamba nenzira yekuyaruka nezvose zvinouya nazvo. Ushamwari hunoita kuti zvinhu zvose zvive zvinonakidza uye zvinogona kuita kuti kunyange mazuva akaipa ave nani zvikuru.

Asi ushamwari panguva ino mukukura kwevana inogonawo kuva yakaoma.

Pasi apa mazano ekukubatsira kugadzirira pakati pako nekuda kwekukwirira uye pasi kwehukama pakati pemakore ekuchikoro. Kuziva kuti ushamwari hunogona kuchinja sei, hunopera kana kusimbisa kunogona kubatsira mukati mako kuburikidza nehukama hwehukama hwaachazoona.

Zvakanaka Nevakaipa veChikoro Chikoro Ushamwari

Zvakanaka

Zvakangoitika kuti vanhu gumi nevaviri vave neshamwari dzavo sekutanga uye, panguva ino mukukurira kwavo, vangasarudza kambani neshamwari dzavo pamusoro pekambani yevabereki vavo nevamwe vemhuri. Izvi hazvifaniri kunge zvine hanya newe, asi pane chimwe chinhu chaunofarira. Iva nechokwadi kuti hausi kuita kuti mwana wako anzwe aine mhaka nekuisa kukoshesa kwakadaro pahukama hwake, chikamu chechigarire chekuvandudza uye zvinoreva kuti mwana wako ari kuwedzera rutivi rwake rwekutendwa kunosanganisira vamwe kunze kwemhuri. Vana vanoda ruzivo rwakasimba rwemashamwari panguva ino kuti vabatsire kubata nehupenyu uye kuti vafare kana vachikura.

Shamwari dzakawanda dzenguva refu dzinogona kunge dzisingagoni kupona chikoro chesekondari, asi dzinogona kukura zvakasimba sezvakaitika pamwe uye zvinowanzodiwa zvinowanikwa. Kunyange shamwari dzinopinda chikoro chakasiyana kana kuti chikamu chakasiyana chikoro chingave chiine zvimwe zvakakwana pakufambidzana nevamwe. Ushamwari hwakasimba pazera hunogona kuva nemigumisiro yakanaka muupenyu hwako hwepakati.

Zvakanakira zvinogona kusanganisira:

The Bad

Sezvo zvakakosha sehukama huri pakati pekuchikoro, izvo hazvirevi kuti zvichagara zviri nyore. Vazhinji vekuchikoro chepakati vanoona kuti ushamwari hwavo hunogona kuchinja mukati memakore epakati chesekondari sevamwe shamwari dzinoparadzana kana kuumba humwe ushamwari. Vana vekuchikoro vepachikoro vangave vasisati vaona shamwari dzekare sezvavanenge vachiita zvinhu zvakasiyana kana zvido, kana kana vadzidzi vakapinda zvikoro zvakasiyana-siyana vangave vasisina mukana wekubatana neshamwari dzekare.

Asi matambudziko haagumi ipapo. Kunyange ushamwari hwakasimba hunogona kuiswa mukutongwa munguva yepachikoro chemakore. Shamwari dzinogona kurasikirwa nehasha dzadzo, dzinokanganirana, kana kuti dzinorwadzisa manzwiro emumwe. Hapana ushamwari hwakakwana, asi vazhinji vanogona kurwisana nguva nenguva uye vanodzidza kubva kwavari. Kurudzirai mukati mako kuti mushande mukukakavadzana. Kutaura, "Ndine urombo" kunogona kureva zvakawanda panguva ino, uye kunobatsira vana kunzwisisa kuti ndivo vane basa rekubata kwavanoita nevamwe.

Ushamwari hwakasimba hunogona kuderera nguva nenguva, asi kana kuedza kushandiswa kugadzirisa kuburikidza nekupesana, ushamwari huno huchapona.

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