Chii Chisiri Chakanaka uye Chine Utano-uye Chisiri Chaicho
Kana iwe uine mwana ari kuyaruka mumba, unogona kana usingazivi kuti ari kuita bonhora. Mushure mezvose, basa iri rinowanzogadzirwa kwechimiro chekutsvakurudza kwemuviri wake. Asi zvakadaro, unogona kushamisika kana nguva yako mwana ari kuyaruka inopinda musuo wakavharwa weimba yake yekugezera kana munguva yakareba mvura inenge iine utano. Zvinokwanisika here kuita bonhora zvakanyanya, somuenzaniso, kana kuti mwana angakuvadza maitiro ake here?
Heano dzimwe mhinduro dzinokurudzira pamusoro pekuyaruka nekuita bonhora.
Vechiduku uye Kuongorora Zvepabonde
Iwe unenge uchiziva izvi, asi kuti ujekese: Kuita bonhora ndiko kukurudzirwa kwemainitalia nekuda kwekunakidzwa kwepabonde. Uye inowanzoitwa uye inowanzoitwa pakati pevechiri kuyaruka. Ongororo yakaitwa muna 2011 yakabudiswa muChitupi chePediatric Adolescent Medicine yakawana kuti vana pakati pe14 ne17 vainyanya kuita zvepabonde kunze kwekuita zvepabonde nemumwe munhu.
Sezvo vechidiki vachiri kuyaruka, vanowedzera kuziva nezvemiviri yavo inobudirira. Mahomoni ekurara anoratidza kutanga kwekuyaruka anogonawo kukurudzira mwana wechidiki kuti aongorore muviri wake uye kuti unoshanda sei.
Apo iwe uchitaura pamusoro pepabonde nemwana wako, usanyara kurera kuita bonhora. Kunyange kana asingabvumirwi kubvuma kuti anozviita (uye zvirokwazvo haamukumbire kana kumumanikidza kuti akuudze) zvingave zvichibatsira kuti azive kuti zvakajairika kuongorora muviri wake, kuti haisi kunyadzisa basa, uye kuti rakakodzera chero bedzi zvaitwa muchivande.
Kunyange zvazvo zvingaitika pasina kutaura, zvinobatsirawo kuti mwana wako aziva kuti kuita bonhora ndeyega yega.
Nguva Yekutambudzika
Kune dzimwe nyaya shomanana dzisingabatanidzi panyaya yekuita bonhora. Dzimwe nguva nzvimbo inokurudzirwa inogona kuora mwoyo, saka gorosi rinogona kubatsira nemagazini iyoyo. Kuti urege kunyadzisa mwana wako, tarisa uchisiya bhodhoro re lube mumishonga yemhuri yemabhadharo paanokwanisa kuiona pasina iyo inoratidzwa.
Zvinogoneka kuti kana chimwe chinhu chinoshandiswa pakuita bonhora kuti pangave nekuvhiringidza kwehutachiona hwemuviri wechipfu. Uyezve, chimwe chinhu chinogona kubatanidzwa munguva yevakadzi kana kuti yekukurudzira. Izvi ndezviitiko zvisingawanzoitiki, asi kana mwana wako achibvumira kuti ari kurwadziwa kana kushungurudzika munharaunda yepabonde, kuti anoti anofunga kuti azvikuvadza pachake paanoita bonhora, aita musangano kuti aone chiremba wevana, pasina mibvunzo yakabvunzwa.
Kuita bonhora pamusana pepabonde kana kunyanya kushaya bonhora zvinetso. Vechidiki vane FASD (Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder) dzimwe nguva vanozvibata pachavo zvepabonde mune zvevanhu kana kuita zvimwe zvisina kukodzera nekuda kwechirwere. Vana vakamboshungurudzwa zvepabonde dzimwe nguva vanoita bonyanyisa zvakanyanya. Kana ukaona chimwe chezviito izvi, taura nevana vako.
Kuita bonhora chinhu chinowanzoitika uye chinoraramira chero bedzi chinenge chaitwa muchivande uye hachipindirani nehupenyu hwezuva nezuva. Icho chikamu chinokosha chekukurudzira zvepabonde uye kwete chekuita. Munenge mune imwe nhoroondo yevakadzi vatana pamusoro payo ndeye nhema-saka chinhu chimwe chiduku kuti iwe unetseke pamusoro.
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