Nebhadharo yakakwirira yeVIV , vazhinji vakaroorana vanoda rubatsiro rwekubhadhara chikwereti. Kukwereta zvimwe zvemari kubva kune vehama yako ndiyo imwe nzira yaungada kufunga ... asi chenjerera.
Kukwereta kubva kumhuri kunogona kushanda zvinoshamisa kune vamwe uye kuva nengozi kune vamwe. Hezvino zvinhu zvishanu zvokufungisisa usati watora chikwereti kubva kuBhange raMama nababa.
Mhuri Yako Inokwereta Shamwari Here?
Izvi zvinofanirwa kutaridzirwa zvose kubva paukama hwehukama uye mune zvemari.
Ukama-huchenjeri, iyi inogona kuva nharaunda inonyengera. Pano mubvunzo wekuti hama yako ndiyo iyo inogona kukukwereta mari pasina "kubhadhara" mune mhosva, zviyeuchidzo zvisingagumi, kana zvido zvisina musoro.
Semuenzaniso, kana vakabatsira kubhadhara IVF, vachazofunga here kuti vane kodzero yekuraira maitiro enyu ekusarudzwa? Ndeipi uye kana iwe unogona kumira kurapwa? Nzira yekugara yakasimba sei pakuberekwa? Uye, gare gare, iwe unofanirwa sei mubereki?
(Nenzira, kana vabereki vako vachikukwereta mari, uye vanoedza kukurudzira mazano avo pamusoro pako, rangarira iwe uchiri kutarisira kurapwa kwako, muviri wako, uye sarudzo dzemhuri yako Mari haibvumi kodzero.)
Imwe ukama hukama ndeyekuti iwe nemumwe wako munonzwa sei pamusoro pokukumbira. Semuenzaniso, kana vabereki VAKE VANA mari vachigona kupa, uye SHE anofunga kuti vanofanira kubvunza, asi HE haasi kusununguka kukumbira ... zvakanaka, unogona kuona kuti izvi zvingave zvakaoma sei.
Iwe hausi kuda kungokumbira chete nekuda kwokudada? Kana kuti iyo nyaya yekusada ukama hukama here? Kupa kuzvikudza zvishomanana kungave kwakakosha, asi kuwedzera kukakavara kune ukama hungave kusina kukodzera mari.
Chinhu chakakosha iwe iwe sevakaroorana vanofanira kubvumirana. Kana iwe usingakwanisi kubvumirana, usaitevera. Infertility inomanikidzira kune vakaroorana, uye iwe haudi izvi zvinowedzera kushungurudzika.
Mumwe mubvunzo mukuru ndewokuti mhuri yako inokwanisa kukubatsira.
Unogona kufunga kuti kana vasina mari, havazoiti, asi kune vabereki vanozotora zvikwereti ivo vasingakwanisi kubatsira vana vavo.
Iwe haudi izvi zvakare. Kana, somuenzaniso, vanotora chikwereti chekukwereta kumusha kuti vakweretese mari, uye ipapo haugoni kuvabhadhara zvakare sezvakarongwa, uye ipapo vabereki vako havagone kutenga chikwereti, vabereki vako vangarasikirwa neimba yavo. Izvozvo zvinonyanya kukosha here?
Vanonzwisisa Kurapa Haisi Kuvimbiswa Here?
Iva nechokwadi kuti vanonzwisisa kuti mishonga inobereka haisimbiswi . Usavavimbisa muzukuru, muzukuru, kana muzukuru.
Handisi kureva kusava netariro. Unofanira kuva netariro. Asi iwe unoda kuti vanzwisise kuti kuva nemukana kwaive kwakakosha, uye kwete nezvose zvinotarisa pamwana anogona.
Simbisa izvi kakawanda. Kana vakakukweretesa mari, iva nechokwadi chekutenda nekukupa mukana . Vimba neni, izvi zvichabvisa kana kuti zvishoma kuderedza kushungurudzika mune ramangwana kana mishonga ikakundikana.
Kune Chekugona Kushandura Mutoro Here?
Kana iwe uine boka rinopfuura rimwe revabereki kana vana vomunin'ina vako kubvunza, iwe unogona kubvunza kana vose vangafunga kubvisa mutoro.
Somuenzaniso, kana iwe ukakwanisa kubvunza vabereki vako kumativi maviri, uye imwe imwe hama pachidimbu kuti ubatsire, zvino kusanganisira mupiro wako, $ 25,000 kupatsanura nzira shanu ndeye $ 5,000 pamhuri.
Kana uine mhuri huru, vabereki vanogona kupa zvipo zvakakura, uye vakoma nevanin'ina vanogona kuita zviduku.
Iyi ihukama hwakanyanyisa huchenjeri, kubva zvino hausi kungoita chete hama yako isina kufara newe, asi boka rehama, ndiani anogona kukanganisa pamusoro payo pamwe chete, izvo zvingagona kuwedzera zvese zvinosanganiswa zvinobatanidzwa.
Rambai nemusoro uyu nekuchenjerera.
Kugadzirisa Chikonzero Chakanaka Chokubhadhara
Pasinei nokuti iwe unokweretesa kubva kune imwe nhengo yemhuri kana huwandu, kuva nepurogiramu yakanaka yekubhadhara kubva pakutanga kunokosha.
Kunyangwe kana nhengo yemhuri inotaura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Tichazviona izvi gare gare, usanetseka pamusoro pacho," usamirira kusvikira gare kuti uzvione. Hazvifaniri kutora nguva inopfuura hafu yeawa kuti iuye nechirongwa.
Kushaya kwechirongwa kunogona kutungamirira kukanganisa nekusawirirana munguva pfupi.
Zvinhu zvokufungisisa zvinosanganisira:
- Pane chikamu chechikwereti ichi chipo here? Kana ivo vakati, "Iwe haufaniri kuripa zvose," tsanangura mberi kuti chipo chii uye mari yakawanda sei.
- Unotanga kuvabhadhara rini? Pakarepo pavanokukweretesa mari? Pane imwe mwedzi? Sarudza pazuva.
- Chii chichabhadhara pamwedzi? Chimwe chinhu chakanaka kune bhajheji yako. Zvechokwadi, kana iwe uchida kuigadzirisa gare gare, unogona kuitaurirana nemhuri yako. Asi kunyange kana uchifanira kutanga pasi-kufanana ne $ 50 pamwedzi - kusvikira wati wapfuura mari yakawanda yekurapa, tanga nechimwe chinhu.
- Ko pachava nechido here? Kana hongu, pamwero wei, uye ichagadziriswa sei?
- Ko kana iwe usingakwanisi kuripa mwedzi umwe? Kana kuti iyo yakagamuchirwa kubhadhara mari yakakwira kuti iwe uwane?
- Nenguva ipi unobvumirana kubhadhara chikwereti? Iva nechokwadi kuti zuva raunogona kuisa kune rako rose zvimwe zvinodhura uye zvikwereti.
- Kana mari yakakweretwa kubva kumhuri dzakawanda, ndiani achabhadharwa kutanga? Ndezvipi zvakarongeka zvichabhadharwa?
- Ko kana iwe ukawana mari zvakare kuburikidza nepurogiramu yekudzorera yeVIV? Vabereki vako vanotarisira kubhadhara chikwereti chavo chekutanga, kana kuti iwe unogona kubhadhara mamwe madhora ako kutanga?
Chero mhinduro dzemibvunzo iri pamusoro apa, nyora pasi rose, uye email tsamba yezvibvumirano kune mumwe nemumwe.
Kuchengeta Chii Chakweretwa uye Kubhadhara Kare
Kupa vabereki vako mapeti ekubhadhara chikwereti kunogona kutinha sekunaka, asi hazvisi. Nebhadharo rimwe nerimwe, iva nechokwadi chokuti uchatumira invoice yakanyorerwa inosanganisira:
- Iwe uribhadhare zvakadini chekoche kana kubhadhara kwebhangi
- Zvakadini iwe wakabhadhara kusvika ikozvino
- Iwe unorema zvakadini iwe
Kana iwe uine chikwereti chemhuri dzakawanda mari, inogona kubatsira kugadza mumwe wemumhuri anovimba naye (kwete iwe pachako) kuti uchengetedze zvikwereti uye ndiani anotevera mumutsara kuti adzoserwe zvakare.
Iwe unogonawo kuongorora kutora Chikwereti, iyo iyo webhusaiti inobatsira kutora chikwereti pakati pehama neshamwari.