Jen R. Anotaura Pamusoro peEki Mipiro, Kubva Mukusarudza Kuita
Kana uri kutarisa mazai evha senzira yekuvaka mhuri yako , ungangodaro unetseka kuti zvichave sei. Iwe unosarudza sei muwani weii ? Iwe uchanzwa sei pamusoro peiiii maii ako anopa pamuviri mwana?
Jen R. akazvipira kuti agovere nyaya yake nevanodzidza Family Wellwell. Anotaura pamusoro pokuti nei akasarudza mazai evha, kuti chii chakanga chakaita, uye kuti anonzwa sei kune vose vana vake uye mupi weii.
Iyi ndiyo nyaya yake.
Chii Chaunofunga Nhoroondo?
Ndakaongororwa ndine kukanganisa kusati kwapera (POF) pandakanga ndine makore 29, mwedzi mitatu mushure mokubereka mwana wangu. Zvakanditora gore rinenge gore kuti ndive nepamuviri nemwanakomana wangu, sezvo ndakanga ndisina nguva uye ndisingakwanisi kuziva kuti sei.
Ndakanga ndine kunzwa kwakasimba kuti chimwe chinhu chakanga chisina kunaka uye chaizvoizvo chaiva nekanguva apo ndaiziva kuti ndakanga ndisingachave nevana zvakare. Itai kuti ive chirevo, njere, chigadziko-asi ndaiziva.
Wakazvisarudzira Sei paEgg Donation?
Pashure pemwedzi yekupa mazano , kuchema , uye kuchema kurasika kwandinokwanisa kuva nevana, ini nemurume wangu takataura pamusoro pezvatinogona kuita.
Tinofanira kuva nevana vakawanda here? Yaiva chirongwa chaMwari kwatiri kuti tive nemumwe here?
Baba vangu mwana mumwe chete, uye ndinofunga kuti akazoita zvakanaka, saka zvichida tinogona kunge takanaka nemwana mumwe chete. Asi ndakabva ndarangarira apo vabereki vake vakafa, uye akanga asina munhu wokutendeukira. Hapana munhu anogona kugovera zvaanoyeuka nazvo.
Izvi, nokuda kwechikonzero chipi nechipi, chakabaya mwoyo neni uye nomurume wangu, uye ini ndakakandirwa pamusoro pevhisi vanoita nevana.
Takafunga sezvo takanga tatova nemwana wezvisikwa, mupi weizi angave akakodzera kuedza, nokuti ndaiziva kuti kutakura mwana kwakanga kusiri nyaya yangu. Kwaiva kusava kwangu kwamazai .
Chii Chakanga chiri Chokusarudzwa Kwekutsvaga Sakaita?
Takatarisa mukati mavo vanopa mazai, uye wow! Ndiani aiziva kuti ndaizova nemanzwiro aya ekutanga kwerwendo urwu.
Kuburikidza nemapurogiramu evabatsiri nemifananidzo yavo yakadaro inoshamisa. Kufunga kuti iwe unogona "kutora" amai vako vezvakaberekwa zvakanyanya.
Kwandiri, chikamu chakaoma kwazvo chakanga chiri kudzidza kuti ini ndakanga ndisingawani "mupiro" wakapa. (Mhando yakafanana yekuwana munhu akakwana!)
Ndine 5'10 ", blonde, yebhuruu ziso. Ichokwadi kuti pakanga pasina vapegi vakawanda vanofananidza izvozvo.
Saka ndakasarudza kuenderera mberi kwangu. Pane imwe nguva ndakanga ndakanaka nazvo, ndakawana mubatsiri wangu pakarepo.
Maminitsi ndamuzarura tafura, ndaiziva. Pakarepo. Mumazuva iwayo, ndaingoziva kuti ndiye iye, uye handina kukwanisa kutsanangura chikonzero. Ndakaverenga nhoroondo yake kuti ave nechokwadi chokuti zvakanga zvakanaka, uye zvaive. Aiva mudzidzi wekoroji. Smart, yakanaka, kutaura, uye mutambo, zvakare.
Pane imwe nguva ndakaita chisarudzo changu, ndakanga ndisingatendi kuti zvose zvakawira munzvimbo. Akanga aripo kuti atange matanho acho pakarepo .
Nokudaro kuburikidza negweta redu, chipatara chekushaya vana uye kliniki yevana, tinoronga zvinhu zvose uye takafambira mberi.
Icho chaive chikamu chakaoma. Ndaive kuhofisi yechiremba katatu pavhiki. Ndaive kuedza kuongororwa ropa, kutarisa uterine yangu yerineni, kutora mishonga yangu, kana chimwe chinhu. Ndinofunga kuti mwanakomana wangu anofunga kuti iyi yaiva imba yake yechipiri!
Chii chinonzi IVF ine Egg Donation Process?
Panyama, ichi chaive chakaoma.
Ndakanga ndine nhare nhatu dzinoenda mumuviri wangu zuva nezuva. Chimwe chaiva chestrogen, imwe yeprogesterone, uye handikwanise kurangarira izvo chechitatu chaive!
Sezvo ndakanga ndisina nguva yekuenda kumwedzi , chiremba wangu aifanira "kuumba" mumwe nemishonga. Ndaifanira kunge ndakabvumirana nemupi wangu. Imwe nguva iyo yakarongeka, ndaifanira kunge ndakagadzirira apo yaibvisa , uye shure kwemazuva mashanu gare gare kutengeswa . Icho chaiva chigumu chakaoma.
Ndakaramba ndichitarisira uye ndichinyengetera kuti aizotora mazai akakwana ekuti aite basa. Akazviita. Akabudisa mazai 18! Ndaifara.
Murume wangu akapinda uye akatarisira chikamu chake, uye mazuva mashanu gare gare ndakawana kukokwa kuti ndipinde.
Kutaurirwa hutano hwema embryos kune mutambo wekunakidza. Vanokuudza "yevheji yepamusoro" uye iyo yavari kuisa.
Vakaisa muviri, uye ndakaenda kumba ndokuudzwa kuti ndizorore kwemazuva maviri. Ndakaita, uye ndinoonga Mwari nokuda kweshamwari dzangu dzakandibatsira munguva ino . Vakabatsira nemwanakomana wangu neimba yangu, saka ndaigona kusununguka.
Ndainzwa sokuti mazai akatora, uye ivo vakaita. Ndakatora muedzo wokutanga uye ndakaona kuti ndaive nepamuviri. WOW- twins!
Ndakanga ndine rombo rakanyanya kuti zvose zvakashanda, uye ndakanga ndine utano, vasikana vakanaka mwedzi 8 gare gare. (Vakaberekwa vhiki dzemavhiki manomwe).
Iwe Unonzwa Sei Nezvekupa Kwaunoita Vana Vana?
Kamwe pavakaberekwa, handina kunzwa zvakasiyana pamusoro pavo. Ndinowanzoona mufananidzo wemupi uye ndinoedza kuona kana vachiita saiye. Mumwe wevasikana anotarisa zvakafanana naye. Mapatya ake anotarisa semurume wangu.
Mhuri yangu neshamwari vanoziva kuti ivo [mugumisiro we] mupi, uye hapana anovaitira zvakasiyana.
Ndinonzwa sokuti ivo vana vangu, nokuti ndinoziva kuti ivo. Vanoziva zvakare kuti vaiva chipo kubva kune mumwe mukadzi akandibatsira kuti ndive nazvo. Ichi hachisi chakavanzika kwavari, sezvandinoda kuti vazive nguva dzose.
Iwe Unonzwa Sei Nezvaunopa?
Pose pandinotarisa mifananidzo yemupepi, ndinofunga zvakawanda pamusoro pake. Ndinogara ndichinyemwerera pandinofunga nezvechipo chaakapa mhuri yangu. Ndinoziva kuti ndakabhadharira izvi , asi zvakadaro chipo chevanasikana vangu vaviri chinokosha. Ndinofara kuti mupi wedu akazvisarudzira kupa.
Iniwo ndinofunga nezvehutakadzi hwaakatora kuti apiwe mazai ake uye kuti ingangokuvadza sei mikana yake yokuva nevana. Ini ndinonyengetera hazviiti uye inoshuva hutano hwakanaka.
Dzimwe nguva ndinowana chido chokumuwana uye kumubvunza mibvunzo. (Mipiro yedu yakavharwa). Ndinoda kuenda uye kumucherechedza kuti aone maitiro ake, kuti anotaura sei, kuti anofamba sei. Ndingada kuona kana mumwe wevanasikana vangu achimutevera.
Chikumbiro hachisi chakasimba zvakakwana-zvichida zvimwe zvekufungidzira kwangu kana kuziva. Ndinoziva kuti ava ndivo vasikana vangu uye vangu.
Wakabhadhara Mupi Wakawanda Kwayo Egg Donor IVF Purogiramu?
Kana chiyeuchidzo chinoshanda zvakanaka, mari yekupa mazai yaiva $ 10,000 uye IVF yaiva $ 18,000 .
Ndezvipi Mazano Aungaita Kuvakadzi Kukurukura neVIV neEgg Donation?
Kana uri kufunga nezvekupa mazai, ita nechokwadi kuti wakatsvaga nzira dzose. Izvi zvakanaka here iwe nemumwe wako? Zvakadini nechitendero chako ?
Iva nechokwadi chekupa mazano ekukubatsira iwe nekuita. Unogona kufunga kuti haufaniri kupiwa mazano, asi ini ndinokupikira, iwe uchadaro. Shamwari dzako nemhuri yako zvichavepo kuti zvive zvinobatsira, asi havanganyatsonzwisisi.
Manzwiro ako achave ari pamusoro pebhodhi kubva kune mufaro nekusahadzika, uye chokwadi chokuti mahomoni achaita kuti uve mapenzi. Penguva iyo yose, bvunza mibvunzo yakawanda.
Iva nechokwadi chekuti unoziva zvose zvauri kupinda uye unova nechokwadi kuti uri zana muzana zvakanaka nehanho rega rega.
Shoko Rinobva Kunyanya
Nzira yekugadzirisa kushandiswa uye kusarudza mupa mazai yakasiyana uye yega kune mumwe nomumwe. Nyaya yaJen iri kumusoro ndeye imwe nzira. Sezvaunotsvaga chisarudzo ichi chekuvaka mhuri, zvidzidzise zvakanyanya sezvinobvira pakugadzirisa. Taura nevamwe varume nevakadzi vakasarudza kushandisa mazai evha kuti vave nevana, uye edza kudzidza kubva pane zvakaitika kwavari.
Iwe hauna-uye haufaniri! -va kuita izvi iwe pachako. Tsvaga boka rekutsigira runharaunda kana kuti taurirana nevanhu vari paIndaneti. Vabereki neEgg Chipo kune nzvimbo inoshamisa. Makiriniki akawanda ekuberekera anoda kuti iwe utsvake mazano asati utanga mazai eve IVF , asi kana zviitiko zvisingaiti, tsvaga mupi wezano rekubereka iwe pachako. Kunyanya iwe uchiziva, iwe unowedzera simba raunofunga kuti uite zvisarudzo zvakakunakira iwe.