Kana mwana wako wekare akadzidzira tsika yekutamba nemurume wake, iwe unogona kunge uine hanya kana izvi zvikaitika. Unofanira kuita chero chii pamusoro pazvo? Kuvhara matambudziko ose ezvehutano, zvisinei, izvi ndezvekuita zviito zvachose uye haufaniri kunetseka pamusoro pazvo. Dzidza kuti chii chaunofanira kutarisa uye chaungaita.
Maitiro Anowanzoitirwa Vakomana
Kugunzva, kusvetura kana kukwira mukati memubhedha kunowanzoita basa rinowanzoitwa nevakomana vane makore 2 kusvika ku6.
Vanofanira kugadzirisa maitiro avo ezvinyaradzo kuti vanyaradze kana kuti vadzivirire tsvina. Mukati yekuita izvi, vaduku vanogona kutora nguva uye vanoziva kuti inonzwa inonakidza. Vanogonawo kuva vakawanda vanoziva zvavanoda. Havana iyo firati munzvimbo iyo inovaudza kuti hazvina kukodzera kugunzva penisi yako chero nguva iyo inokurudzira. Sevana vaduku kana vane makore maviri, mwana achiri muduku zvishoma kuti atange kusimbisa izvo zvakadaro.
Mwanakomana wako angangodaro akashandidzirwa kumira. Paunosunungura kusununguka kweesesie / jumper rudzi rwekufuka kune mamwe makuru mukomana wemucheka wenguvo, waistbands anowedzera kana kuti anowanikwa zvishoma pasi pezvinhu zvevana. Izvozvo zvinogona kutungamirira kune kumwe kuongorora pamwe nekudiwa kwekugadzirisa.
Kutonga Zvoutano Matambudziko
Chokutanga, taura kunze kwehupi hupi hwehutano hwakadai sehutachiona hwehutachiona, hutachiona hwehutachiona, kana humwe hutano. Tsvaga zviratidzo zvekunze zvakadai sekurwadziwa, zvinetso zvekukandira, ganda rinopisa munzvimbo, kubwinya, kuzvimba, kubuda ropa, kana kuputika kweganda kusati kwambovapo.
Kana chimwe chezviratidzo izvi chiripo zvino ona mutarisiri wako wehutano pakarepo.
Kuvhiringidza uye kushungurudza kunowanzojairika kuvakomana, kunyanya kana vakapfeka mazai mumamiriro okunze anonaya. Iwe unogona kuda kushandisa mazano aya:
- Tsvaga hutano hwakanaka hwechirasi. Dhiaper dzakaoma zvakanyanya dzinovhiringidza asi diapers dzisina kusimba dzinogona kunge dzakashata sezvo izvo zvinobvumira kusagadzikana nguva dzose mumusikana anoshanda, achiita kuti aite.
- Shandura diaper yake kakawanda kuitira kuti mazamu ake arege kuomerera kune vashandi vake.
- Kana ukaona kuomerera kumubhedha kana chironga chake uye penis akabatana pamwe chete, shandisa chigadzirwa chakadai seMonistat Chafing Relief Powder-Gel kudzivirira izvi zvitsva. Isa iri pachinoshanduko chechidimbu chimwe nechimwe, kunyanya mumamiriro okunze ekudziya.
- Regai iye amhanyire akapoteredza asina kupfeka kwezuva. Kana iwe uchicherechedza kuderera kwepenisi, zvinogona kunge kuti varairi vake kana zvipfeko zviri kupa muitiro wake.
- Iva nechokwadi chokuti mazamu ake akasununguka kunyaradzwa.
- Funga kutanga kutanga kudzidzira kana mwana wako akagadzirira.
Chii Chaungaita?
Kana iye achizviita nguva dzose kana iwe uchida kuti arege kuzviita pachena, iwe ungaitei? Usafunge zvakanyanya kunyanya kwazviri. Shandisa redirection, uchimupa chimwe chinhu chingaita nemaoko ake (seyidhoni kana bhuku). Kumubvunze kuti aite chimwe chinhu nemaoko ake nemibvunzo yakafanana, "Iwe wakareba sei?" "Ndiratidze kuti yakakura sei kitty cat," "Taura kune chiratidzo chekumira," kana "Ndipei kumusoro kwechishanu."
Pane imwe nguva iye ari kunze kwemashira kana iwe uchiona achizviita seanozvinyaradza, unogona kutanga kutanga kuchinja maitiro ake. Tanga kutaura nezve nguva dzakakodzera uye nzvimbo dzekubata chikamu ichocho chemuviri wako. Vanenge vose vakomana vanoda chirevo ichocho pane imwe nguva.
Vanofanira kudzidza kudzigadzirisa pasina munhu anoona uye vanofanira kudzidza nguva yakakodzera uye nzvimbo yekuita bonhora.
Vamwe vabereki vakati vakataurirwa kuti kutamba nepenisheni kunogona kuita chiratidzo che autism. Iva nechokwadi chokuti haisi mazita akadaro nevanodzidza. Chero hupi humwe humwe hutano hutorwa huripo kana mwana wako asiri kukura kazhinji haafaniri kukanganisa autism.
> Kwakabva:
> Kuita zvepabonde mune zvevechidiki Vana, Ndezvipi zvakasikwa, Ndezvipi? American Academy of Pediatrics. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/preschool/Pages/Sexual-Behaviors-Young-Children.aspx