Icho Kuzvidzivirira Kunoreva Tweens

Chiratidzo chinonyanya kukosha kwako

Kuzvifunga kunoreva nzira iyo munhu anofunga pamusoro pezvaanogona muzvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana zvehupenyu, kusanganisira zvidzidzo , mitambo, uye kushamwaridzana kwevanhu .

Self-Concept vs. Self-Esteem

Kuenzaniswa nevepakutanga muhuduku, gumi nevaviri vane pfuma yakajeka. Pamusana pezviitiko zvinowedzera nekuvandudza unyanzvi hwekuziva, pfungwa yega inoramba ichikura sezvo vana vachienda kuchikoro chesekondari.

Kuzvifunga kunobatana nekuzviremekedza , asi mazwi aya haana kufanana. Pfungwa yemunhu pachake inobata kuzvikudza. Mune mamwe mazwi, pfungwa yekuti pachake inoreva kunzwisisa kwakakwana kwezvako pane kuzvikudza. Mukuwedzera, kuzvidzora kunobva pakuongororwa kwezvakakwanisa kuita, nepo pfungwa yega pachayo isingatongoruramisisi muzvisikwa.

Self-Concept uye Inowanikwa Kuzvipira

Sezvo gumi nembiri zvichikura kusvika mukukura, vanova vazhinji vanoziva kuti chii chinoparadzanisa. Maonero avo pamusoro pehupenyu hwavo hwakasiyana-siyana kusanganisira unhu hwavo uye unhu hunova mukuyaruka. Ichi ndicho chivakwa chinokosha chekuzvifunga. Pasina kuzvitsaura iwe pachako zvakaparadzana uye kunze kwevamwe, vatatu havagoni kuona humwe hwakanaka hunobva kune ivo voga. Sezvo vana vashoma vemazuva ekutanga vatanga kunzwisisa ivo pachavo semunhu mumwe nomumwe, asi vatatu vanotanga kukura zvakadzika uye kuzviona ivo uye kuti vanobatanidzwa sei munyika.

Self-Concept uye Categorical Self

Sezvo gumi nevaviri vachikudziridza uye vanoziva kuti ivo pachavo varipo, vanokwanisa kukwanisa kuenzanisa uye kuzvienzanisa nevamwe. Zvisarudzo zvakadai sezera, zvepabonde, uye hukuru ndezvokutanga kwevana vaduku sevana vaduku 4. Mukuyaruka, zvisinei, izvo zvinongoratidzika-kuzviratidza pachavo kuburikidza nemagariro ehutano hwepfungwa zvakadai semafambiro emuitiro, mafungiro, uye manzwiro.

Tweens vanoshandisa izvi kuzvienzanisa nevamwe. Pane vanhu vakawanda vanozivikanwa venguva refu vanofunga kuti havasi kuzvirongedza pachavo maererano nemiganhu yevakadzi. Miley Cyrus naKeKe Palmer vose vakataura kuva pansexual, zvinoreva kuti havakwanisi kuronga hutano hwavo. Nharaunda yako inogona kunge ichizivikanwa nehurukuro iyi, asi mafungiro avo haafaniri kutyisidzirwa zvisina kunaka kunyange kana vasingatsvaki zvimwe zvinhu zvavari.

Image, Self-Esteem, uye Ideal Self

Kufungidzirwa kwevepo existential uye nekugadzirisa kuzvitenderera kwekugadzirisa kuita kuti iwe pachako uzviremekedze uye kuzviremekedza. Kana mukati mako maine maonero akanaka maavo avo uye ivo pachavo, vane unhu hwepamusoro hwekuzvida. Manzwiro asina kunaka pamusoro pezvinonzi nevamwe vanofunga nezvavo, kusava netariro, kana kuda kuva semumwe munhu zvose zviratidzo zvekuzvitarisira. Taura nemukati wako pamusoro pekukosha kwekubvuma ivo sezvavari, uye vachiedza kuva ivo vanozvida. Vabatsire kugadzirisa zvinangwa zvekuvandudza zvinhu zvavanofunga kuti vanofanira kuchinja kuitira kuti vagone kushanda kuti vawane kuzvikudza kwakanaka uye kusimbisa zvinhu zvakanaka zvavari ivo vanozvifarira.

Kunobva:

Manning, Maureen A. Self-Concept, uye Self-Esteem Muvecheche. Student Services. February 2007.