Paunenge uchifunga nezvekusarudzwa kwevanhu vemhirizhonga
Kubvuma kunze kwehupenyu hwako ndiko chisarudzo chikuru. Izvo zvinokakavadzana. Mibvunzo inoramba ichitaura nezvekuti mhuri yakachena ingagadzirira sei mwana wekunyama kuti aite nechisarura. Kuonga Multi-Ethnic Placement Act ya1994 uye kuvhenekerwa kwakaitwa muna 1996, zvinopesana nomurairo kurambidza kubvumwa kana kunonoka kugamuchirwa zvichienderana nekukwikwidza kwevabereki vanorera kana mwana.
Iye zvino chisarudzo chinonyanya kusanganisira mhuri, vashandi vomunharaunda, uye masangano anobatanidzwa. Ndezvipi nyaya dzaunofanira kufungisisa usati waita chisarudzo chokupedzisira chekutora mutsauko? Heano mimwe mibvunzo yaunofanira kuzvibvunza.
Iwe Unobata Sei Kusarura Kwevamwe?
Pasinei nekuchinja kukuru munyika yedu, rusarura ruchiri kunze uko. Wakagadzirira kubata mibvunzo kubva kuvanhu, dzimwe nguva vanhu vasingazivi, nezvemhaka yemwana wako kana vabereki? Zvakadini nemafungiro emhuri yako yakareba? Kusiyana nevasingazivi apo mazwi achave ari matsva, mumwe kazhinji anoziva chatinofanira kutarisira kubva kumhuri. Izvozvo zvinokutambudza iwe here kuti sarume anoshandisa racial slurs? Unoona kakawanda sei munhu uyu? Kamwe pagore? Izvozvo zvinowanzokwanisika here kuti uite chisarudzo chako nenzira imwe neimwe kana imwe? Iva nechokwadi chekuti iwe unogona kusarudza kupedza kushamwaridzana nemamwe nhengo dzemhuri yako kudzivirira mwana wako.
Mibvunzo Pamunharaunda Yako
Zvakakosha kuti mwana wako anokwanisa kushamwaridzana nevamwe vedzinza rimwechete, saka unogona kufunga nezvekutevera:
- Ndeupi kuparadzaniswa kwemadzinza emunharaunda yako?
- Ndizvo zvikoro zvakasiyana here?
- Une shamwari dzemarudzi akasiyana here?
- Pane marudzi akasiyana-siyana muchechi yako here?
- Unoziva here vanhu vakagamuchira kana kuroorwa kunze kwerudzi rwavo?
Mwana Wechikoro
Vamwe vakataura kuti kana iwe ukatora munyika yose uri kutora mwana pamwe chete netsika yake.
Iwe haufaniri kushandura hupenyu hwako hwose kuti uite izvi. Kuchinja kuduku kunogona kuita kuti zvive nechinetso chikuru. Iwe unogona kubatsira kudzidzisa mumwana pfungwa yekuzvikudza mune tsika yake uye nhaka?
Utano, Ganda uye Bvudzi Kutarisira
Rudzi rumwe nerumwe rune simba raro pachavo kune matambudziko ehutano akasiyana. Wakazvidzidzisa pane zvakasiyana-siyana zvechiremba uye zveganda izvo vana vemavara vanogona kukura? Iwe unonzwisisa zvakasiyana-siyana zveganda nemavhudzi kutarisirwa kwevanhu vane mavara ane ganda rakasviba uye mavara emvere?
Kupemberera Misiyano uye Zvakafanana
Vana vanotanga kuona kuti munhu mumwe nomumwe ane maitiro akasiyana akasiyana-siyana akaenzana nemakore matatu kana mana. Chimwe chezvinhu zvekutanga vanocherechedza chivara cheganda. Zvakakosha kuti vana vaone vanhu vakavapoteredza avo vanoita sevakangofanana navo.