Zvaunotarisira Panguva Ino
Kungofanana nezvikamu zvakawanda zvekukura kwevana, nguva yekutakura kwemakore matanhatu inozivikanwa nekupesana. Mwana ane makore matanhatu acharamba ane rutsoka rwake zvakasimba mumakore makuru-maduku kupfuura zvaakaita sechirembai; panguva imwechete, acharamba achiona kusachengeteka kunobva pakuwedzera kupinda munyika yakazara pasina kunyaradzwa nguva dzose nababa nababa.
Sezvaanowedzera achiwana chikoro, mazuva ekupemberera, masangano ekuberekwa, uye mamwe mabasa asina mubereki, angave achida uye anoda kutarisirwa nekunyaradzwa kumba.
Kuziva Emotional
Vana vane makore matanhatu vachava vanoziva zvakanyanya manzwiro-zvose zvavo uye zvevamwe. Vanogona kunzwisisa pfungwa dzakanyanyisa dzakadai sekuti ungwarire sei pakusakuvadza manzwiro eumwe munhu, kutaura, kutaura chimwe chinhu chakakosha pamusoro pavo zvakananga kumunhu iyeye.
Kutenda uye Kusachengeteka
Kune vakawanda vane makore matanhatu , nzvimbo yepasi rose ichave, nokuda kwezvinangwa zvose uye zvinangwa, zvichiri kuva ivo. Vana vane makore matanhatu vachabvumira vamwe vane nhau pamusoro pavo pachavo, uye pachavo vanotarisira kuti vamwe vave nehanya navo sezvavari. Vachave vanozvikudza pamusoro pezvavakaita uye matarenda uye vachada kugovana maitiro avo, mano edzimba, uye zvimwe zvinhu pamusoro pavo ivo vanofunga kuti vanoita kuti vave vakamira uye vanova vakakosha.
Zvichava kuvabereki kutungamirira vana uye kuvadzidzisa pamusoro pechirevo chakanaka pakati pekuvimba uye kuzvikudza.
Panguva imwecheteyo, vachanzwa vasina kuchengeteka uye vachada kurumbidzwa kubva kune vamwe. Vabereki vane makore matanhatu vangada kuita zvinhu zvakakwana uye vangave vakaoma ivo pachavo kana basa ravo risina kunaka sezvavanoda kuti rive (kana vakarasikirwa pamutambo kana kuti vangaita sekuti vawane mifananidzo kuti vaonekwe nenzira yavakaida, somuenzaniso).
Vachada kubatana uye vachada shamwari dzavo kuchikoro kuvabvumira zvinhu zvavanoita. Vana vane makore matanhatu vanogona kunge vakaomerwa nokubvuma kutsoropodzwa kana kurairwa uye vangave vane hanya nekuraira.
Zvizhinji zvekusachengeteka kuchabva kumunhu wemakore matanhatu wekusununguka kunzvimbo yekuzvimirira. Vabereki vanogona kubatsira kuburikidza nekuziva izvi kusundira nekukwevera uye vanogona kubatsira mwana wavo kunzwa zviri nani pamusoro pekusimudzira mberi ivo pachavo nekupa nyaradzo mumusha umo vana vanogona kunzwa vakachengeteka mumitambo yezuva nezuva uye kuvimbiswa kworudo uye kunzwisisa.
Inflexibility and Preferences
Vabereki vane makore matanhatu vanowanzoona zvinhu zvakasviba uye zvichena uye vacharatidza pfungwa dzakasimba pamusoro pezvinhu. Vanogona kuenda kubva kune chimwe chinhu pamusoro pechinhu chisingafadzi zvachose kana chimwe chinhu chisingaendi. Vanogona kuona chimwe chinhu chakanaka uye chimwe chinhu chakaipa sechinhu chakashata uye chichava nechinetso chekuona nzvimbo yapakati.
Rudzi urwu rwekufungidzira runowanzove rwevana vemakore matanhatu, avo vari kuedza kuronga uye kugovera nyika yakavapoteredza. Pigeon-holing chimwe chinhu muchikamu chinogona kubatsira vane makore matanhatu vanoziva, uye inogona kuvabatsira kunzwa sokuti vanogona kuziva zvisingagoni kuzivikanwa uye zvitsva. Vabereki vanogona kubatsira nekunyatsotungamira vana kutarisa mafungiro asina kunaka, nekuratidza kuti vanoona zvinhu kubva kune dzimwe pfungwa dzepamusoro-unyanzvi ivo pachavo vachawana sezvavanokura.
Privacy
Vabereki vane makore matanhatu vangatanga kuratidza chido chokuvanza kana vachipfekedza kana kusunungura (kunyange vazhinji vachiri kunakidzwa nenguva yekugeza nemubereki pedyo uye vachakumbira amai kana baba kushambidza bvudzi ravo). Vana vechizvarwa ichi vanogona kutanga kuziva nezvemiviri yavo, zvepabonde, uye zvepabonde, uye iwe unogona kutarisira mibvunzo pamusoro pekuti vana vanobva kupi.
Kuzvimirira
Vana vane makore matanhatu vari kuramba vachiita mabasa kunze kwevabereki vavo. Asi sezvavanenge vachienda kune kuwedzera kuzvimiririra, vachavimba zvakawanda pamusoro pekuchengetedzwa kwemusha, tsika, vabereki, neshamwari. Zvirongwa zvisingatarisirwi zvakadai semitambo yeusiku, mabasa emushure-chikoro uye nguva dzekutamba neshamwari dzichava dzakakosha kune vane makore 6; nokuda kwavo, mabasa aya anogara uye hukama huchapa huviriro hwavanoda apo pavanosangana nezvinetso zvisina kujairika uye zvakaitika.
Vana vezera iri vanogonawo kuratidza chido chokusarudza zvipfeko zvavo, kuzvishambidza, nekuzora vhudzi ravo. Vabereki vanogona kubatsira kukurudzira kuzvimiririra kuzvimirira uye kupa mazano nekubatsira (nekurega vana vachizvichenesa uye "vachibatsira" pamagumo kana kuti kuratidza jira nematombo kana kuchitonhora kwazvo kuenda kuchikoro mune imwe svondo yepamusoro inofarira, muenzaniso).
Kuparadzanisa kunetseka kunogona kuva nyaya yevamwe vane makore matanhatu, asi inenge isinganyanyi kukoshesa sezvo vana vaine chimiro chekusimbisa kushamwaridzana neshamwari nevadzidzisi kuchikoro uye vanojaira kushandisa nguva yakawanda kubva kumba.