Kuziva uye Kusimudzira Pakati Pano An Introvert
Kana mukati mako uchida kupedza nguva yakawanda iwe woga, ungangodaro unetseka kana chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka. Chero bedzi mwana wako ane shamwari yepedyo kana maviri, mikana yese yakanaka. Pakati pako zvichida kungova introvertvert.
Chii Chinonzi Introvert?
Chimwe chinhu chinonyanya kukosha kwehuhu unhu hutsva / kuwedzera. Iwe unogona kufunga nezvechikamu ichi semutsara unotambanudza kubva pakuzara kwakakwana kune rumwe rutivi kusvika pakuzadzisa kwakazara kune rumwe rutivi.
Vazhinji gumi nevaviri vanowira kune imwe nzvimbo pedyo nepakati pemitambo, asi vetepa imwe nzira kana imwe. Inenge 75% yeAmerica tweens inonamatira kune kuwedzera. Kuparara uku kunoita kuti sangano redu rifunge nezvekuwedzererwa se "chimiro" uye chekutaura se "chinetso." Kusiyana nemafungiro anozivikanwa, kunyange zvakadaro, kuisa mukutaura hakurevi kuti munhu "akasurukirwa," "haasi kushamwaridzana" kana kuti nenzira ipi zvayo isiri iyo. Introversion hainawo kufanana nekunyara. Muzvokwadi, zvinyorwa zvinenge zvakafanana nehukama hwevanhu sezvinodiwa nevamwe vezera ravo. Vanongova nenzira dzakasiyana dzekusarudza kuyanana nenyika inenge yakapoteredza.
Kusiyanisa Pakati Pezvinyorwa uye Zvinyorwa
Pane mitatu yakasiyana-siyana pakati pekutangira uye extroverts. Yokutanga inosangana nekuti pakati pekuwana kana kubudisa simba. Zvinyorwa zvinowanzofunga kuti zvakagadziriswa nekuve mumapoka evanhu uye kunzwa kuneta nokuwedzerwa nguva dzakapedza uri oga. Kusiyana neizvi, an introvert anodzosera nguva yega yoga uye anoshaya simba munzvimbo dzakawanda dzevanhu.
Imwe misiyano yakakura ndeyekurongeka kwekutaura nekufunga: kuwedzera kunowanzofunga sezvavanenge vachikutaura kana vauriri vagara vachifunga vasati vataura. Izvi zvinoita kuti vatsva vati sevanonyanya kushevedzera kupfuura zvinyorwa zvekuwedzera nokuti vari kushanda mhinduro dzavo kumibvunzo vasati vataura. Pakupedzisira, kana vakapiwa sarudzo yavo yekushamwaridzana kwevanhu, an introver anofarira kuva nehurukuro dzakadzika neyevanhu vaviri kana vaviri panguva imwe apo kuwedzerwa kunoda kukurukurirana kusingasunungurwi nemapoka makuru evanhu.
Maitiro Aungatsigira Zvaunenge Uchitaura Zvokutenderera
Sezvatakamboona, kutangisa kunenge kune hutano hwakanaka sekuwedzera. Zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kuva mutauriri munharaunda yakasununguka-inotungamirirwa, zvisinei, kunyanya panguva yepakati pemakore. Tweens inonyanya kuvimba nekuenzanisa kwevanhu kana vachikudziridza pfungwa yavo yekuzviremekedza , izvo zvingakanganisa hupenyu hwavo hwose. Kunzwa kwakasiyana panguva yepakati pemakore kunogona kukonzera kutambudzika kukuru. Chinhu chimwe chete chaunogona kuita kuti utsigire mutauriri wako wekuvhura unobatsira kuti vanzwisise kuti chirevo chinyi. Nokugovana paIndaneti masayiti uye / kana mabhuku pamusoro pekuvhura, unogona kuvabatsira kunzwisisa kuti hupenyu hwavo hunhu hwakanaka uye hwakanaka. Sezvo vamwe vanhu vane maziso erima apo vamwe vane maziso akajeka, kuenzana nenyika munyika nenzira dzakasiyana hakuiti kuti munhu mumwe ave nani pane imwe. Chero chipi nechipi chaunoita, usaedza kumanikidzira mukati mako kuti "uve chekuwedzera" nokumuita kuti apinde kuungana kukuru kwevanhu kana kumukurudzira kutaura nguva yose. Kana pane chimwe chinhu, izvi zvinongoita kuti anzwe semamwe asinganzwisisiki nokuti maitiro ake okusamanikidzwa haaenzani nezvaanonzwa. Kutsigira zvinodiwa nemwana wako zvepanyama kuchaita kuti anzwe akasununguka pamusoro pake.
Zviratidzo Zvinonyevera
Kunyange zvazvo kufungidzira kwakazara zvachose, pane zviratidzo zvinonyevera zvinogona kuratidzira nyaya iyo inopfuura kudarika kwechisikiro muhutano hwemunhu. Kana mukati mako usina shamwari dzepedyo pasinei nokuti wakambopinda kuchikoro chakafanana kwemwedzi, angave ari nechinetso nehutano hwemagariro evanhu kana mamwe mhando yehutano hwepfungwa. Muchiitiko ichi, kukurukura nemudzidzisi wevana vako uye chiremba zvingave zvakarongeka. Kana maitiro ako achiita seanovhiringidzika, anotanga kubvisa kushamwaridzana kwevanhu vose, uye / kana kuti anotaura nezvekuda kuzvikuvadza iye pachake kana vamwe, angave ari kutarisana nechimwe chinhu chakanyanya kuoma, sechirwere chepfungwa .
Bvunza chiremba wemwana wako pakarepo.
Zvose mune zvose, kusiyana kwehutano hwemhando kunogona kuva kwakaoma kune gumi nevaviri vari vari vashomanana sevatenzi. Nekutsigirwa uye kunzwisisa, zvisinei, vanogona kusvika pakukoshesa uye kunyange kutonakidza unhu hwavo hwakasimba.
Kunobva:
Rathus, PhD, Spencer. Psychology: Concepts uye Connections, Brief Version. 8th edition. 2007. Belmont, CA: Thomson, Wadsworth.