Apo vanhu vazhinji vanofunga nezvehutsinye hunokanganisa, vanowanzofungidzira kusurukirwa kunoshungurudza kunze kwekusazviremekedza. Kana kuti zvichida vanofananidzira mwana mukuru, ane hanya anoshandisa simba remuviri, anotyisidzira kana kudana vanhu kuti vawane mazita kuti vawane nzira yake. Kunyange zvazvo kutsanangurwa uku kwakarurama, vanopeta mufananidzo usina kukwana wevadzidzi vekusekonderedza chikoro.
Ichokwadi, kutsvakurudza kunoratidza kuti vana vanozivikanwa zvikuru uye vane simba vanotambudzawo vamwe.
Mumakore ekutanga ekuyaruka, kudzvinyirira inzira yehupfumi. Vana vari pakati pekuchikoro vanodheerera vamwe kuti vadzivirire chimiro chavo nekuvandudza mararamiro avo evanhu. Semugumisiro, vanowanzotora ruzivo rwevezera ravo vari munharaunda yakanyanya kunetseka kuitira kuti vanzwe vachigamuchirwa.
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Kunyangwe kudzvinyirira kunogona kutanga pakutanga kwepachikoro, nenguva iyo vana vachienda kuchikoro chesekondari, inowanzova chikamu chinogamuchirwa chikoro. Kutaura zvazviri, kudzvinyirira kunowedzera munharaunda yechishanu nechechitanhatu uye inoenderera mberi kuwedzera kukura kusvikira kusvika yepfumbamwe.
Kuvhiringidzika kunoitika kakawanda mukati mekondari uye makore ekutanga ekuyaruka nekuti vana vari kuchinja kubva pakuva mwana kumwana wechidiki. Vane chido chakasimba chokugamuchirwa, kuita shamwari uye kuva chikamu cheboka. Somugumisiro, vanonzwa kufanana nevezera ravo uye vanoda kutarisa nekuita sevezera ravo.
Ichi chido chokugamuchirwa chinotungamirira kudzvinyiriri nokuti vana vanonyatsoziva zvazvinotarisirwa kuti zvikwanise kupinda. Sekuguma, vanoona nyore nyore vamwe vasingakodzeri zvakagamuchirwa uye zero mukati mazvo. Vana vanowanzoshungurudza vamwe vanotarisa, vanoita, vachitaura kana kupfeka zvakasiyana .
Kuvhiringidzawo inzira inofanirwa kupinda mucheka kana boka rakanaka.
Vana vasingazivikanwi kana vasina hukama hwepamusoro hwevanhu hunogona kuvhiringidza vamwe senzira yekuwana simba uye kugamuchirwa kwevanhu. Vanokwanisawo kukuvadza vamwe kuti vadzivirire kudzvinyirirwa kunotungamirirwa kwavari.
Somugumisiro, inenge 30% yevana mumakadhi matanhatu kusvika ku10 muUnited States inofungidzirwa kuti inodheererwa kana seanotambudzwa, anodheerera kana vose. Kunyange zvakadaro, chiyero ichi chingave chisiri kuratidza mufananidzo wakazara. Vatsvakurudzi vakaona kuti inenge hafu yezviitiko zvose zvinodheerera hazvitauri.
Migumisiro
Kuvhiringidzika vanowanzosangana nedzidzo. Makirasi avo angadonha uye vangasuwa chikoro nematambudziko ehutano akadai semusoro, masimba, uye kunetseka kurara. Apo kushungurudzwa kunowanzoitika kwenguva yakareba, izvi zvinotadzisa kuzvideredza, kuzvidya mwoyo, kuora mwoyo, kusurukirwa uye kunyange kuzviuraya. Zvakare, kuora mwoyo uye kuzvidzora kwezvinhu zvinokonzerwa nekudheererwa zvinogona kuramba zvichikura.
Panguva iyi, vana vanoona kupesana vachirwa nekutya uye vanogona kutya kuti vachava chinangwa chinotevera. Vanonzwawo vane mhosva nekuda kwekusapindira nekubatsira munhu anotambudzwa. Somugumisiro, manzwiro aya anodzivhiringidza kubva kubasa rechikoro uye anotungamirira kuvarombo vasina kudzidza.
Kunyange vanyunyuti vanobatwa.
Vanonyanya kuratidza unhu husina kufanana nevamwe uye hutsinye hupenyu huri mberi. Vanowanzoswedzerwa kunwa doro uye kushandisa zvinodhaka. Uye kutsvakurudza kunoratidza kuti vanyengeri vanowanzoita mabasa ezvakaipa. Kutaura zvazviri, kutsvakurudza kunoratidza kuti vanyengeri vanowanzokwanisa kuve nemhosva yezvemhosva nemakore makumi maviri nemashanu. Uye, 60 muzana yevanyunyuti vachave nehana imwechete yekutongwa kwemhosva muupenyu hwavo.
Mhinduro
Kana zvasvika pakutaurira kushungurudza chikoro chepakatikati, vabereki nevadzidzisi vanofanira kufunga kwenguva refu. Mhinduro dzenguva pfupi dzakadai sechirango, kugadzirisa kusawirirana nekupa mazano hakugoni kupedza dambudziko racho.
Pane kudaro, vadzidzisi vanofanira kusimbisa chikoro chechikoro chinoodza mwoyo kudzvinyirira. Vanodawo kupa vadzidzi nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana kuti vataure kushushikana. Mapurogiramu akadzivirira ekudzivirira udzvinyiriri ndiyo nzvimbo yakanakisisa yokutanga.
Kana kushungurudzwa kuchiitika, vatungamiri vekuchikoro vanofanira kuverenga nokukurumidza, nguva dzose uye zvakasimba. Pfungwa iyi ndeyokudzivisa kudheerera kuburikidza nekuva nemigumisiro yakaipa yezviito. Vadzidzi vacharamba vachidzvinyirira vamwe kana hapana chinokosha chinoitika. Uyezve, kudheerera kunowedzera nekufamba kwenguva kana isina kutaurirwa. Iva nechokwadi kuti iwe unotarisana nechiitiko choga choga chinodheerera. Paunotanga kusava nehanya nekudzvinyirira kana kubvarura maitiro pasi pegumbo nokuti haudi kutarisana naro, iwe uri kusika nzvimbo iyo vadzidzi vose vanotenda kuti hapana chinhu chinokosha chichaitika kana kudzvinyirira kuchiitika.
Munguva iyi, vabereki vevanyengeri vanoda kuisa pfungwa pakushandisa nguva yakanaka nevana vavo. Vanofanirawo kuisa miganhu yakasimba, kuisa migumisiro uye kutsigira chikoro chirango kana kudzvinyirira kuchiitika. Uye vabereki vekudheererwa vanotambudzwa vanofanira kubatsira vana vavo vanorondedzera zviitiko uye vanovimbisa kuti nyaya yacho yakagadziriswa. Kupa mazano kunogonawo kudiwa kubatsira mubatsiri kuti awedzere kuzvidzora.
Yeuka, vana havagoni kubata nechisimba ivo pachavo. Vanoda rubatsiro kubva kuvashandi vekuchikoro, vabereki vavo uye dzimwe nguva kunyange munharaunda. Iva nechokwadi kuti unonzwisisa nyaya uye uri kuita chikamu chako.