Kuita Zvechisimba Mitambo Yemavhidhiyo Inogona "Kudzidzisa" Aggressiveness
Kana iwe uri mubereki ane vana pamba, mikana iwe unoziva mubvunzo we "kubvumira kana kusabvumira": dambudziko guru vabereki vanotarisana naro pavanosarudza kana vachifanira kurega vana vavo vachitamba mitambo yevhidhiyo ine utsinye.
Pane nharo dzakawanda pamusoro penyaya yekutsvaga mumitambo yemavhidhiyo ane chisimba nezvimwe zvinhu zvechisimba zvemashumo, zvakadai mumabhaisikopo nemitambo yeTV, zvinokanganisa vana.
Kutsvakurudza kwakawanda kunoratidza kuti chisimba mumasvikiro chinogona kuva chikonzero chekukudziridza, mune vamwe vana, chekutsamwa, kuderedzwa kutarisira pamusoro pevamwe, kuwedzera kukurwisana uye kusavhiringidza maitiro , uye dzimwe tsika dzisina kufanira.
Vazhinji vatsvakurudzi vanoti hazvishamisi kuti kutamba mitambo yemavhidhiyo ane chisimba kuchaita kuti mwana asave nedzimwe njodzi dzekuita zvechisimba kuti ave munhu ane chisimba zvikuru uye anokuvadza vamwe. Kunyange zvakadaro, imwe yenharo dzakanakisisa dzekudzivirira vana vose kusununguka kune zvinyorwa zvechisimba zvehurumende, pasinei nehupenyu hwavo, zvinobva pakutsvakurudzwa kwechangobva kubudiswa muJAMA Pediatrics .
Migumisiro yemitambo yemavhidhiyo ine utsinye: Zvakadzidzwa neChidzidzo chei
Chidzidzo chacho chaitungamirirwa naDouglas Gentile, PhD, purofesa wehupano wezvepfungwa paI Iowa State University uye nyanzvi inozivikanwa pamusoro pemigumisiro yevhidhiyo pamusoro pevana nevakuru. Yakaratidza kuti vana vanogara vachitamba mitambo yemavhidhiyo echisimba vanodzidza kufungidzira nenzira ine utsinye iyo inogona kuguma yakachinja maitiro avo.
Nokuda kwekudzidza, vatsvakurudzi vakatevera vana vanopfuura 3 000 mu 3, 4, 7, uye 8th grade kwemakore matatu. Vakaona kuti, nokufamba kwenguva, kutamba mitambo yevhidhiyo ine chisimba kwakaita kuti vana vafunge zvakanyanya uye vaite zvakanyanya kukuvadza.
"Vana vari kuchinja nzira yavanofunga" mushure mekunge vaine nguva yakareba yekutamba mitambo yemavhidhiyo ane utsinye, anodaro Dr. Gentile.
Anotsanangura kuti izvi zvinogona kukonzera kuchinja mune zvose kufunga uye mufambiro: "Vanopedza nguva yakawanda vachitsvaga vavengi uye vachikurumidza kuita zvechisimba."
Semuenzaniso, mwana anogara achiita zvekuita zvechisimba mumutambo wemavhidhiyo yenyika angave akakanganisa kufunga, kutaura, kana kuita chimwe chinhu chinorwadza kana chisina tsitsi kana akabatwa netsaona nemunhu ari panzira kuchikoro.
"Mutumbi unohubata sehondo chaiyo," anodaro Dr. Gentile.
Kuita "Kuita" Kushungurudzika Nemitambo yemavhidhiyo Kunodzidzisa Ichokwadi-Upenyu Hwakanaka
Pasinei nokuti chiridzwa chemimhanzi, tsika yekutamba, kana Taekwondo inofamba, vana vanoita mabasa nguva nenguva saka vanogona kuzviita zviri nani uye zviri nani. Vanokudziridza chiyeuchidzo chemuviri chezviitiko uye vanova vane unyanzvi kune avo vose mumuviri uye nekuziva.
Saizvozvowo, anodaro Dr. Gentile, achidzokorora kakawanda kune zvechisimba kana zvisina kukodzera anogona kupa mamiriro ekuita "kuita" zvechisimba kusvikira mwana achidzidza kuti aite sei zvakanaka.
"Zvatiri kutaura nezvekudzidza," anodaro Dr. Gentile. "Izvozvo ndezvomushumo ane utsinye kana kuti kwete."
Ko Zvakadini Nekutaura Kune Zvisiri Zvechisimba Zvinowanikwa? Mukutsvakurudza kwakapfuura, Dr. Gentile akawana kuti mitambo yemavhidhiyo, maTV, mafirimu, nezvimwe zvinyorwa zvinoratidzira vanyori sekubatsira, mutsa , nekushandira pamwe zvine simba rakanaka pamararamiro evana.
(Yeuka zvose zvidzidzo zvakanaka zvatakadzidza sevana vachiona Sesame Street?)
Mune mamwe mazwi, kutarisira uye kugovana, kufanana nechisimba uye chisimba, zvinogona kuitwa uye kudzidziswa, zvakare.
"Ndingaitei, semubereki, ndinoita?"
Zvinopfuura 90 kubva muzana zvevana vanofungidzirwa kutamba mitambo yemavhidhiyo, saka haugoni kutarisira kudzokera shure. Zvaunogona kuita ndezvokuwedzererwa mune izvo mwana wako ari kuona nekuita. Iwe chinangwa: kuderedza kusvibiswa kune zvinyorwa zvechisimba uye kuita kuti mabasa ako emwana ave nehumwe hunoita hune simba hwakakwana sezvaungagona.
Kunobva:
DA DzeveMamwe Marudzi, Li D, Khoo A, et al. "Dzidzira, funga, uye chiito: vamiririri uye vamiririri vezvenguva refu vane zvechisimba vhidhiyo mitambo pamusana pekuita utsinye. JAMAPediatrics. 2014; 168 (5): 450-457.