Nzira Yokubudirira SeC-Parenting Baba

Vabereki vakaroorana vanowanzotora nyaya yekubatana kwevabereki semumwe wezvinyorwa zvachose muhukama hwavo hutsva uye husina unhu. Munenge munyaya dzose, vana vanotambura semugumisiro wokurambana. Vanonzwa vakabvamburwa pakati pevabereki vaviri uye vabereki 'iko zvino vakaparadzana upenyu. Amai nababa vanowanzorwisana nemanzwiro ekukwikwidzana, kuora mwoyo, uye kusanzwisisa.

Uyezve, kubatana-mubereki mumhuri miviri yakasiyana-siyana kwakanga kusiri izvo zvavakasayina apo pavakasarudza kuva nevana. Chimwe chinhu pamusoro pehukama hwekuberekisana chakazara nechinetso.

Uye zvakadaro, muzviitiko zvizhinji, vabereki nevana vanofananidza nekushanduka uye vanowana nzira yekubudirira mubereki-mushure mushure mekurambana. Pasinei nokuti vabereki vane gwaro rekuchengetedza, kana kuti mumwe mubereki wekuchengetedza uye imwe haisi, vamwe kuronga nokungwarira uye kuedza kuisa zvakanaka zvevana pakutanga kunogona kubatsira kugadzira ruzivo rwakanakisisa uye runobatsira kuburikidza nekuberekisana.

Vanababa vanowanzova nenguva yakaoma zvikuru nokuti inowanzova mubereki asina kuchengetedza uye vanoita zvisingabatsiri zvichienderana neurongwa hwekuchengetedzwa hunoitwa nematare. Vanowanzova nevana vaduku maawa mashomanana muvhiki kupfuura amai vanoita, uye saka vanonzwa kuti vanotofanira kushandisa nguva yavanenge vaine vana.

Kushingairira kuchengetedza vana vanobatana navo pavanenge vachitambura kubva panguva yakasara kunogona kuva yakakura.

Kubudirira kubatana kweukama hune hukama kunogona kuitika kana vabereki vose vachitevera mitemo shoma shoma.

Kurukura Zvakanaka

Vanababa vakawanda vanovabatsira kubvuma kuti iyi ndiyo mitemo inonyanya kukosha. Imba yakawanda inoparara nekuda kwekutaura kwakashata, kakawanda vabereki vanorambana vanomanikidzwa nekuva vatauriri vekutaura zvakanaka.

Nokuda kwevana, vabereki-vabatsiri vanofanira kuumba huzhinji hunovhura uye hunobudirira unyanzvi hwekutaurirana uye maitiro. Vanoda kutaura kune mumwe nemumwe uye kushandisa nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzekukurukurirana kusanganisira kutaura pafoni, kuwirirana chiso nechiso, kutaurirana ne email nekunyora mameseji. Izvo zvinonyanya kukosha ndekukurukurirana zvakananga kune umwe neumwe uye kwete nevana. "Udza amai vako kuti ..." inofanira kurambidzwa kubva pamashoko ose ekurera baba.

Nyora Zvose

Kazhinji, dambudziko rekubatana kwevabereki rinogona kutungamirira kune mamwe matongerwo emutemo. Vanababa vanoda kunyora kushamwaridzana kwega neamai vanobatana nevabereki nemusi, nguva, zvayakanyora uye urongwa hweumwe munhu akaona kubatana. Kuchengeta zvinyorwa zvakanyatsojeka nenzira yakakodzera kunobatsira kuti munhu wose ave akatendeseka uye azvidavirire.

Ramba Uchigara Uchienderana uye Wakaenderana

Vana vanobudirira mukugadzikana uye vanozviwana vachizvidya mwoyo kana zvinhu zvisingaendi maererano neurongwa. Co-vabereki vanofanira kushanda zvakaoma zvikuru kuchengetedza sarudzo chaiyo uye isingagumi. Kana baba vane vana paMuvhuro manheru uye mamwe mavhiki ekupedzisira, isa purogiramu yevana pakutanga. Kana pane zvipingamupinyi zvisingadziviriki, edza kuzvitaurira nekufambisa nguva yakareba sezvinobvira kuitira kuti vana naamai vagone kuronga mberi.

Kuwedzera kwevabereki vose vanoramba vachiita purogiramu yakatarwa, vashoma vanofunganya vana vachava.

Usanyanyisa

Kazhinji kazhinji, vanababa vanowanzodzvinyirira kune mamiriro ezvinhu anoshamisa kwavari. Ramba uine hunyoro, kunyange kana amai vakaita chinhu chinokutsamwisa. Nyika haichazoperi kwauri kana kuti nevana kana mama akanganwa kukukoka kune chimwe chiitiko kana kuti nguva shomanana yekuchinjana kwevana. Kurukura kuora mwoyo kwako - kwete pamberi pevana.

Hazvibvumirwi muZvamwe

Amai nababa vanowanzova nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzevabereki, uye dzimwe nguva (kana kazhinji) iwe unogona kusawirirana nezvinoitwa nevamwe vana.

Kana iwe uine kusawirirana kwakadaro, shandisa nayo iri yoga uye kwete pamberi pevana. Kana vana vachiona Amai nababa vachivada uye vachivatsigira (uye mumwe nomumwe), ivo vachaona vakachengeteka zvikuru. Usaisa vana pakati pekusabvumirana kwako kana kuparadza mumwe mubereki nevana.

Gadzirira Kukurumidza uye Shamwari Kuchinja

Apo amai nababa vanosangana kuti vauye kana kuti vatore vana, ita kuti zvive zvakajeka uye zvinyorwa zvinokwanisika. Dzivisa mutambo chero ipi zvayo panguva yekuchinjana. Somuenzaniso, usaunza musikana wako mutsva newe kuti atore kana kuregera vana. Usaedza kutaura kuna Amai pamusoro pehutano husinganzwisisiki - ichengetedze iyo gare gare.

Verengana Nemaonero Pamusoro Penguva Yako Nevana Nevana Vavo

Paunenge uchiita chimwe chinhu chinonakidza nevana, kana kana pane imwe nguva inonakidza, tora chinyorwa uye uchinyorere iyo yekare. Kazhinji anonyanya kukanganwa vana panguva yaunenge uine navo, uye tsamba inokurumidza, mufananidzo kana vhidhiyo inogona kubatsira iye kuzvidya mwoyo pamusoro pevana paunenge uine ivo. Kana iwe ukaita izvozvo, iye achave achida kudzokerazve apo iwe uchida iwe zvikuru.

Ita uye Tevera Purogiramu Yako Rubereki

Vabereki vakawanda vane zvirongwa zvekuchengetedzwa kwegadziriro vane chirongwa chekubereka chinogamuchirwa nematare. Kana uine chirongwa chakadaro, chiitevera chitendero. Kana iwe usingaiti, ita iwe pachako mushure mekunyatsogadzirira uye kubatanidza kuitira kuti iwe nemumwe wako wawakaroorana naye muzive zvaunotarisira pane urongwa hwekurera vana. Kutaura pamusoro pezvinhu zvakaoma zvisati zvaitika zvinogona kuita musiyano mukuru pane kuti zvinhu zvinopinda sei muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva hwekugadzirisa kubatana kwevabereki.

Shandisai paIndaneti Calendar

Mhuri dzakawanda dzekurera vana dzinotambudzika kana kuronga kupera. Kusarudza pane imwe chete yepaInternet kalendari inobvumirana neyakarenda yako pachayo inogona kudzivisa zvakawanda zvekupesana. Kana iwe uchigovera tsanangudzo pamusoro pezviitiko zvinokosha zvakadai sekudzoka, zvikwata zvekuchikoro, kutamba, uye mapato, unogona kudzivisa kuora mwoyo nekurasikirwa kwechivimbo. Isa zvinhu zvako zvose pahurukuro yakagoverwa, uye iye nevana vanogona kuziva nguva isati yasvika yekugadzirisa nyaya.

Dzivisa Kuva Wakavanzika Baba

Chimwe chekunyunyuta kunowanzobatanidzwa kwevabereki vanobatana navo ndeyekuti baba vose vanoita apo vane vana vari kufara. Anofanira kutakura mutoro wesarudzo dzekuchikoro, chikoro chekuchikoro, mabasa epamba uye mabasa echechi. Iva nechokwadi chekuti iwe une vana vane hukama hwakanaka hwezviitiko uye nguva dzinokuvadza, kunakidza uye mabasa epamba, mabasa ekupera kwevhiki uye zvimwe zvinhu zvakawanda. Kuchengetedza ruregerero nekubatsira kudzivisa godo nekukwikwidzana, uye hazvina kunaka kune vana kana kubatana-vabereki.

Yeuka - izvi zvose pamusoro pevana uye kwete pamusoro pako uye yako yekare. Sezvo iwe mose makaisa vana vaduku, itai neruremekedzo uye ruremekedzo, uye muve noukama hutsva hwokuvimbwa, ruzivo rwekubereka pamwe runogona kuva rakanaka kune iwe nevana vako.