Izvo zvose zviri nani uye zvinononoka kuva nesimba "kubvumirana".
Kubvumirana ndeimwe yezvinhu zvishanu zvinokosha, kana zviito, zvehupenyu maererano ne "Big Five" nyanzvi yeunhu. Zvimwe zvinhu zvina zvinosanganisira:
- Kuwedzererwa: Vanhu vakadzingwa vane simba guru, vanobatana navo, uye vakanaka pakukurukurirana.
- Agreeableness: Vanhu vanofarirwa vane unhu hwakadai somutsa , kuvimba, uye kusada.
- Kuteerera: Unhu hwehana hunosanganisira kutonga kwakasimba , kutarisa zvinangwa, kuvimbika, uye nguva.
- Neuroticism: Neurotic vanhu vane manzwiro, kunetseka, kutya, uye kutsamwa.
- Kuvhura: Kufungidzira , njere, uye zvakawanda zvinofadza ndezvimwe chikamu cheunhu hunhu.
Munhu ane chivimbo chakasimba pakufarirwa ndechevanhu-vanotungamirirwa. Iye achava nehutano hwakanaka hwemagariro evanhu, anofarira kushamwaridzana kweboka, anoratidza rudo nyore, uye anoona zviri nyore kushamwaridzana nevamwe . Vanhu ivavo vanoratidzika pasi pehutano uhwu vanowana zvakaoma kuwirirana zvakanaka nevamwe, vanorega kushamwaridzana mumapoka, vanoita kuti vasavimba nevamwe, uye vane hutano hwakanaka hwemagariro evanhu . Vanhu vazhinji vanowira pane imwe nzvimbo pakati pezvinhu zviviri zvakanyanyisa.
Kubvumirana kunowedzera kuwedzera zvishoma nezvishoma kusvikira munhu mukuru. Zviripo kuti vana nevechiri kuyaruka vatarise nguva dzekubvumirana, zvakadai sekupera. Kunyange zvakadaro, kunyange zvakadaro, vamwe gumi nevaviri vachava vanofarirwa kupfuura vamwe pavanenge vachitarisana nekuchinja mumitumbi yavo uye matambudziko mumamiriro avo ezvinhu.
Zvakanaka Here Kuti Usakanganise?
Zvechokwadi, nguva dzose inowedzera kuva nekwanisi yekubatana, kufambidzana, uye kuvaka hukama hwakanaka nevamwe. Uye "vanhu vanobvumirana" vanogona kuita zvakanaka muminda umo unyanzvi hunokosha. Mimwe yakadaro minda inosanganisira:
- Kutengesa uye hukama hwevanhu
- Human resources
- Fundraising
- Mamwe marudzi ekutengesa
- Zvematongerwo enyika
- Event Management
- Kudzidzisa
Kubvumirana, zvisinei, kunogona kuva nezvipingamupinyi zvayo. Vanhu vanofarirwa, somuenzaniso, vangawana zvakaoma kwazvo kushanda vari voga, kuongorora kubvumirana kwemashoko, kuita zvisarudzo zvakaoma, kana kupa mashoko akaipa. Somugumisiro, hutsika hwakaderera hwekubvumirana hunogona kuita kuti zvive nyore kubudirira mune zvakadai se:
- Medicine
- Masoja
- Sayenzi
- Nhandare kana Mutsara Wemafirimu
- Upper Management
- Entrepreneurship
Vanhu Vangave Vakawanda Here Kana Kuti Vashoma Vasingabvumirwi?
Chiyero icho munhu anoratidza humwe hutano hunoenderana neunhu husina hanya, asi hunofanirwawo zvakanyanya pamamiriro ezvinhu. Kunyange munhu anonyanya kufarirwa angave asingatenderwi paanotarisana nekukwikwidza kwakananga kwezvinhu zvinokosha kana mikana inokosha. Kune rumwe rutivi, tsvakurudzo inoratidza kuti zvinobvira kuwedzera kubvumirana kuburikidza ne:
- Kuzviratidza kune vakanaka
- Kucherechedza (munhu ari kutariswa anowanzove akanaka)
- Kuwana nyore mikana yekuzvibata nenzira isingaiti
Izvo zvakare chinhu chinoshamisa kuti vana vaduku chaizvo,, kazhinji, vanozvifunga kupfuura vanhu vakuru. Zvichida kuti ruzivo rwevanhu vakuru nehupamusoro nehupenyu hwehupenyu hunoita kuti vanzwe tsitsi kune vamwe.
Zvinogona zvakare kuti dzidzo yepamutemo kana yechitendero inobatsira zvikuru pakubvumirana. Tsanangudzo yechitatu ingangodaro kuti tinodzidza, nekufamba kwemazuva, kuti vanhu vazhinji vanowanzowedzera kune zvatinokumbira kana tikatanga kuvaka ukama hwekuvimba.
> Kwakabva:
Rathus, PhD, Spencer. Psychology: Concepts uye Connections, Brief Version. 8th edition. 2007. Belmont, CA: Thomson, Wadsworth.