Chisimba chinotsanangurwa neAmerica Psychological Association sechisimba chakanyanya. Mienzaniso yehupombwe hwevechidiki munharaunda yanhasi inosanganisira kubata chibharo, kuuraya vanhu, kuputira kuchikoro nekurwa. Sevabereki vevechiri kuyaruka, tinoziva kuti aya maitiro echisimba ane maitiro akawanda kupfuura zvaanofanira kuva. Asi, iwe wakanga uchiziva kuuraya ndewechipiri chinotungamirira chikonzero chekufa pakati pevechidiki vane makore gumi kusvika kune makumi maviri nemaviri muUnited States maererano neCDC? Tinofanira kutora chikamu chakasimba mukudzivirira hutambudzi hwevehupenyu hupenyu hwevechiri kuyaruka.
Kuti vabereki vadzivise chisimba muhupenyu hwavo hwevechidiki, vanoda kunzwisisa kuti chii chinokonzerwa nehutano hwevechiduku. Pano ndakanyora zvikonzero zvinowanzokonzera zvechisimba pakati pevechiri kuyaruka:
Media Influence
Chisimba chiri munhau chinogona kukanganisa mwana wako uye chinogona kuita kuti vaite zvechisimba. Chidzidzo chakaitwa nemayunivhesiti akawanda, Chirwere cheMedia Violence on Youth , rinoti, "Kutsvakurudza pamusoro pehuterevhizheni nemavhidhiyo, mitambo yemavhidhiyo, nemimhanzi zvinoratidza uchapupu husina chokwadi hwokuti mhirizhonga yevhidhiyo inowedzera mukana wekurwisana uye unhu hwemhirizhonga mune zvose zviri mberi uye kwenguva refu- mamiriro ezvinhu echirevo. " Izvo zvinotarisirwa pano zvinotsanangurwa sechinhu chipi zvacho chinotaridzirwa nemwana wako, chinonzwa kana chinopindirana nacho chinogona kuwanikwa paInternet, paTV, mumashamba, mumafirimu, mumitambo yemavhidhiyo, mukushambadzira, nezvimwe. nhau dzinogona kuva nemashoko ane utsinye. Zvimwe pamusoro pevhidhiyo uye vechidiki:
- Dzidzisai Mucheche Wenyu Kuva Mharidzo Nyora
- Indaneti Haisi Kutora Pamitambo Yemutambo Pakati Pechiri Kuyaruka
- Kuberekera Zvakanaka MuMedia Age: Kuchengeta Vana Vedu Vana
Muvakidzani Wemwana Wako
Kwamunogara, vavakidzani vako vanogona kuita kuti mwana wako aite zvechisimba. Dare reCCDC rinotaura nezvezviitiko zvakasiyana-siyana zvehutachiona hwehutambudzi hwevechidiki dzinosanganisira mikana yehupfumi inopera, huwandu hwoupombwe uye nzvimbo dzisina kukonzerwa nevanhu. Nokudaro, kana iwe uchigara mune imwe nzvimbo iyo vechidiki vanomanikidzwa kupinda muchikwata kuti vararame uye kurwisana ndiyo inowanzoita, mwana wenyu ari kuyaruka anokwanisa kuita zvechisimba uye kupinda muzviito zvechisimba.
Dzimba uye Vana Vanoshatiswa
Vana vanogara nechisimba mumusha vanogona kuva vanhu vane chisimba. Kana mwana wenyu achiri kuyaruka ari kurarama nechisimba mumba mavo, vari kudzidza kudzidza zvisina kunaka. Sezvo kushungurudzwa kwevana kunoonekwa semhepo, vana vanoshungurudzwa vanogona kuva vechisimba. Izvi zvinotyisa zvinowanzotanga muvechiri kuyaruka.
Kanopfuura kamwe ndagamuchira ma-e-mail kubva kumadzimai avo vari kuyaruka vari kuita zvechisimba kwavari. Vanoenderera mberi kuti vataure kuti murume wavo anovabata zvisina kunaka, kushevedzera kwavari kunonetsa kuvana vavo uye inonyanya kuvenga mumhuri yavo. Ava amai vanozvishamisika nei vana vavo vachiri kuyaruka vasinganzwisisi kuti vari kuvakuvadza sei sezvo vakambotambudzwa nekushungurudzwa kwababa vavo. Zvinodiwa nemadzimai aya ndezvokuti mwana wavo akadzidza maitiro avo kubva kuna baba vavo. Icho chokwadi chinosuruvarisa uye hachisi nyore kugadzirisa, asi iyo ndiyo mhirizhonga.
Kutarisirwa Kwevabereki Vasingakwanisi
Vechidiki vakagamuchira kusarongeka kwakakwana nevabereki vavo kana kuti nhamba dzevabereki vanowanzotarisana nemafambiro ane utsinye kana kuti mhosva yepamutemo nokuti vanoita zvisarudzo zvisina kunaka. Apo vabereki vasingatori basa rakaoma muupenyu hwavo hwevechiri kuyaruka, vechidiki havazogadziriswi. Vanoshamwaridzana nevanhu vakaipa, havaedzi kuita zvose zvavanogona kuchikoro uye vanorega kutarisira ramangwana ravo. Vechidiki vanoda kururamisira uye kwakasimba-ichi ndicho chimwe chezvikonzero nei.
Kufurirwa nevezera rako
Kuda kufanana nevezera rako kunogona kukonzera chisimba chechidiki apo shamwari dzevechiri kuyaruka dzinowanzoita maitiro ane utsinye. Izvi zvinogona kunge zviito zvevechidiki zvinopesana, kutadza kutora mafambiro sekudhakwa doro kana kushandisa zvinodhaka kana kuva chikamu cheboka revanhu kwakange kune hutsinye chikamu chechimiro - kuva chikamu cheboka rebhola raizova muenzaniso weiyo.
Kushandisa Zvinodhaka
Kushandisa zvinodhaka nekudhakwa kunogona kutungamirira kumhirizhonga. Kunyange zvazvo kushandiswa kwezvinodhaka zvinodhaka kunofanirwa kukuita kuti unzwe zvakanaka, kushandiswa kwenguva refu kwemishonga inodhaka kunowanzoita manzwiro ekuora mwoyo, kutsamwa, uye kuora mwoyo. Izvi zvinogona kutungamirira wechidiki kuti aratidze mafambiro okutsamwa nehasha.
Zvakaitika Zviitiko
Kutarisana nezviitiko zvinotyisa zvinogona kukonzera hutano hwevechiri kuyaruka. Somuenzaniso, kana wechidiki akarasikirwa neshamwari mumwengozi yemotokari iyo yaibatanidzwawo mune iyo inogona kutsamwa nekuti ivo ndivo vaigara. Sezvo kutsamwa kunowanzoita shanje yekusuruvara, kusununguka kwechisimba kubva kumwana uyu wechiduku kunoratidzika kunge kwakarurama.
Mental Illness
Chirwere chepfungwa chimwe chikonzero chechisimba pakati pevechiri kuyaruka. Nhau dzehutano hwepfungwa dzakadai seAADH, bipolar, ODD, kutadza kukanganisa kana vazhinji vevamwe vari kuongororwa nhasi, vose vane unhu hutsinye kana manzwiro anotsamwa sezviratidzo zvinozivikanwa.
Chirwere chepfungwa dzimwe nguva chinodzikamisa kune zvimwe zvikonzero zvechidiki zvechisimba. Somuenzaniso, wechidiki ane bipolar disorder angave ari kushandisa zvinodhaka. Kana uyu wechidiki achiita zvechisimba, kushandisa kwemishonga kunogona kuvanza chokwadi chokuti bipolar chirwere chikamu chechikonzero.
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> Mhinduro yeMedia Violence pamusoro pevana neAdolescents: Mikana yekugadziriswa kwechipatara. American Academy of Child Vechiduku Vechidiki Pepychiatry.
> Kurwisana Kwevechiduku: Ngozi uye Zvidziviriro. Nzvimbo dzekudzora nekudzivirira zvirwere 30 Aug 2011.