Bvunza vanhu zvavanofunga pamusoro pekugara-kumba-madzimai uye muchawana mhinduro dzakasiyana siyana. Vane usimbe. Vari kuita sarudzo yakanakisisa yehupenyu hwavo. Havasi kugovera kune zvemagariro. Vari kuita chibairo chikuru kuti vagare pamba uye vachirera vana vavo zuva nemasikati. Hapana kushayikwa kwemaonero pamusoro pevakadzi vanogara pamba vachirera vana vavo.
Asi tsvakurudzo inoti chii? Musoro wekutsvaga 7 tsvakurudzo yakatsvaga pamusoro pekugara-pamusha amai vanogona kukushamisa iwe.
Vamwe Vakadzi Vari Kugara-Pamusha Mama
Isu hatisi kurarama muKushanda Iyo kuBeverver nyika zvakare, apo 49% yevakadzi muna 1967 vaigara mumusha moms pamwe nemurume anoshanda. Iyo nhamba kubva pfupi yapfuura Pew Research yekudzidza inoratidza kuti nhamba yevakadzi vanove vachigara-pamusha amai vanoenda, asi zvakadaro.
Kunyange zvazvo 71% amai vari kushanda kunze kwemusha, 29% vari kugara kumba. Nhamba iyoyo iri kusvika 6% kubvira muna 1999.
Asi nhamba haifaniri kuva nehanya. Kusiya basa rako kuti uve amai vekugara-kumba-havafaniri kunge vaine mhosva kana kufanana nevamwe. Nepo pane zvikonzero zvakawanda zvekuva amai vekugara-pamusha, kuva mubereki-kumusha kwete munhu wose.
At-Home Vabereki Vanobetsera Vana Vakura, Kwete Vaduku Vose
Ongororo yechangobva kuwanikwa yakawana kuti kubatsirwa kwekuva nemubereki pamba kunowedzera kupfuura makore ekutanga ehupenyu hwemwana.
Muchidzidzo, dzidzo yevadzidzi 68 000 yakaverengwa. Vakawana kuwedzera kwekuchikoro kuchikoro kwose kusvika kuchikoro chepamusoro-vana vakura. Chidzidzo chikuru pane zvidzidzo mukutsvakurudza kwavo zvakawanikwa pavana vane makore 6-7.
Mhuri dzimba dzechikoro dzakawanda dzinewo mubereki wemusha arikudzidzisa.
Kubatanidzwa kweongororo dzakapiwa neNational Home Education Research Institute inoratidza huwandu hwehuwandu hunotsigira kukosha kwemubereki kumba pamusana pezvikonzero zvekudzidzisa. Semuenzaniso, kutsvakurudza kwakawana dzimba dzechikoro dzakawanda dzinotora 15 kusvika ku 30 pcentile mapeji pamusoro pevadzidzi vevadzidzi vehuruzhinji pazvidzidzo zvakaenzana uye ivo vari kuwana pamusoro pevhesi yevadzidzi pachiitiko cheS ACT uye SAT.
Pasinei nokuti uri mubereki wekumba kumba kuchikoro mwana wako kana iwe uripo apo paanenge achibuda bhazi mushure mekuchikoro, zvimwe zvidzidzo zviri kuwana mubereki pamba iri kupa vana ruzivo rwepamusoro kune vezera ravo pasina mubereki kumba. Pasinei nokuti iwe unogara mumusha here kana kuti kushanda, tsvakurudzo yeNational Education Association yakaratidza kuti kubatanidzwa kwevabereki muzvikoro kunoita mutsauko mukudzidzira kwevana kuchikoro uye kuti anogara kwenguva yakareba kuchikoro.
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Nhau dzakanaka dzekugara-kumba-mamama-zvakadzika mumakumbo uye kutsamwa. Zvidzidzo zviviri zvinotaura iwe uri kumba nevana vako panguva iyo yekutanga matanho ari nani kune vana vako kupfuura ivo vari mukuchengeta vana nguva yakazara. Zvidzidzo zveNational Institute of Child Health uye Human Development uye Institute of Child Development yeYunivhesiti yeMinnesota zvakawana kuti vana vanopedza nguva yakawandisa yezuva ravo mukuchengetedza zuva vakawana hutano hwepamusoro nekudzvinyirira kunze kweavo vakagara pamba.
Kutsvakurudza kutsvakurudza makore manomwe mushure mekudzidza kwepakutanga kusimbisa izvo zvakawanikwa zvave zvichiri zvechokwadi.
Izvozvo hazvireve kuti unofanirwa kuchengeta vana vako vakavhara mumba mako kusvikira vagara vakagadzirira kuenda kuchikoro. Kune zvakawanda zvekusarudzwa kwevana vana SAHMs vanogona kushandisa kuti vawane kupumha vasina kuita kune rimwe zuva. Tsvaga Zuva Ramai Amai kana kuti muchida kubatana kuitira kuti vana venyu vatambe vachitamba nevamwe vachikupai nguva yakawanda inoda iwe yoga.
Mhuri Yakawanda Yokugara-Pamusha Mammai Funga Kudzokera Kumabasa
Kana iwe wakambosangana nepfungwa yekudzoka kubasa, iwe hausi woga. Kutsvakurudza zvakasimba Kuwana Vadzidzisi vakagadzira chidzidzo chakawana 57% amai vanofunga nezvekudzokera kubasa rimwe zuva.
Kana iwe uchifunga nezvekudzoka kubasa zvakare, unogona kutora matanho ikozvino kugadzirira. Iwe unogona kuvhara basa rako rebasa, kutora zvidzidzo zvinogona kubatsira chero mukadzi upi zvake kuti afambe mberi munyika inoshanda, shandisa imwe yezvikwereti kana zviiti zvingaita kuti iwe uwedzere zvakare kana kubvuma chimwe chezvinhu zvakanakisisa zvenguva-nguva yekugara kumusha mamas .
Zvadaro pane avo vanamai vanoda kuwana mari asi havagoni kufungidzira kufungidzira zvakare kubatana kwekambani yebasa rinowanzoitwa 9-5. Kune mikana yakawanda yepamusoro-bhizinesi yemabhizimisi amai vanogona kutanga pamwe nebasa rekuita-kumusha rinoita kuti vakadzi vagare kumba uye vawane mari zvakare.
Gara-pa-Mama Maro Nyaya Kuwedzera Kuora Mwoyo, Kusuruvara uye Hasha
Imwe nyanzvi yeGallup yakabudiswa yakaratidza kuti vamwe vanogara-kumba-moms vanorondedzera kusuruvara kana kutsamwa mumazuva avo kupfuura vakadzi vanoshanda kunze kwemusha. Pakati pevakadzi 60 000 vakaongororwa, sarudzo yacho yaisanganisira vakadzi vasina vana, vanoita vanaamai uye vanogara-kumba-mamama avo kana kuti vasingatsvaki basa "kusiyanisa pakati pevaya vangave vasisashandisi nekuda kwemamiriro ezvinhu panzvimbo yekusarudza. "
Zvakakosha kucherechedza kuti, nepo nhamba dzekugara-pamusha amai dzinotsigira zvakawanikwa naGallup, musiyano muhuwandu hwehuwandu hwayo hausi mukana mukuru. Semuenzaniso, nhamba yevakadzi vanogara-pamusha vanofunga kuti vari kutambura 42%, vachienzaniswa ne36% evashandi vanamai. Uye uwandu hwemadzimai aigara pamusha aishevedzera kana kuseka zvakanyanya zuva rakapera raiva 81%, zvichienzanisa na 86% yevashandi vemamai. Chizhinji cheSAHMs, 50% kuva yakarurama, yakashushikana kudzvinyirira mumazuva avo akare uye 26% yakasuruvara.
Vose vanogara-pamusha amai vanofanira kuvaka musangano wekutsigira, kusanganisira kugara nguva dzose pamwe chete naamai vako shamwari kuti vawane kuparara kwakanyanya uye kudzivirira amai kupisa.
Amai Vanopedza Nguva Yakawanda Nevana Vavo
Ongororo ichangobva kuwanikwa yakawana kuti moms vari kupedza nguva yakawandisa nevana vavo. Amai Vars zvinetso zvinoita kuti amai vanogara-kumba-vanzwe sevasati vari nhengo yakakodzera yevanhu kana vachiita vana vanoshanda vanofunga sekuti havasi kushandisa nguva yakakwana nevana vavo. Kunyange zvazvo chidzidzo chiri pamusoro apa chichiti amai vanopedza nguva yakawandisa nevana vavo vasina kupesana kwesayenzi mumagumisiro avo, kuongororwa kweHolhland Spring kwemamiriyoni 10 000 vabereki vakaratidza vabereki vanongopedza maminitsi 34 asingabvhirwi pazuva nevana vavo nekuda kwezvinetso zvehupenyu hwezuva nezuva .
Ndosaka zvakakosha kuti mamama vawane hutano hwakanaka mumhuri yavo uye hupenyu hwezuva nezuva. Hapana chakakanganisika nekuita zvakanyanya nguva yemhuri yako, kusanganisira kugadzira gadget-isina nzvimbo uye kuve nechokwadi kuti vana vako havagoni kukupa mhosva yekuvhiringidzika. Asi iwewo unofanirwa kutarisira iwe pachako hukama hwakanaka uye rega vana vako vapedze nguva yakareba kubva kwauri. Pasinei neusiku husiku newawakaroorana naye kana kuronga husiku humwe kuitira kuti uwane nguva imwe chete, iwe hausi kuzokuvadza mwana wako nokuti hauna kupedza 24/7/365 naye.
Vanhu veAmerica Vanotaura Kuti Mubereki Pamba Wakaisvonaka
Imwe yevanhu veAmerica 60% vanoti mwana ari nani pamwe nemumwe mubereki mumwe chete kumba, maererano nePew Research Center's Social and Demographic Trends. Imwe 35% yakati vana vari pamwe chete nevabereki vose vari kushanda kunze kwemusha.
Pasinei nokuti iwe unoshanda kana kugara mumba, rega kunzwa sokuti uri kukanganisa semubereki. Zvinokonzerwa nemakwikwi anoita kuti amai vachinzwe sekuti havagoni kukunda kana vachitakura bhegi rekopa zuva rose uye havagoni kukunda kana vachitakura bhegi rimwe zuva rose.
Kana ichiuya kune iyo, tsvakurudzo inotsvakurudza uye chete izvo zvakakosha iwe neyemhuri yako nyaya. Ichokwadi, kwete munhu wose ane unhu hwakanaka hwokusarudza pakati pokugara kumba kana kushanda asi kutsvakurudza hakugone kukuudza chaizvoizvo zviri kuitika mumhuri yako. Ita chisarudzo chakanaka kwauri uye usashushikana pamusoro pezvinhu zvausingazivi, muvakidzani wako kana amai vamwene vako vanofunga.