Nzira yekubata nayo kushushikana nekuzvidya mwoyo muvana
Kunyanya kushungurudzika chikamu chehupenyu hwevanhu vakuru nhasi, zvinoreva, marwadzo, uyewo kuwedzera kuva chikamu chehupenyu hwevana, pamwe chete, izvo zvinoreva kushungurudzwa kwevana ndechidzidzo chinokosha kuti vabereki vanzwisise. Kushungurudzika kwevana, kufanana nekudzvinyirira kwevanhu vakuru, kunobva kune zvimwe zvinhu uye zvinogona kutaridzirwa zvakanakisisa nekudzidza nezvechinetso chacho, chii chingave chichikonzera, uye zvadaro kutora matanho ekubatsira mwana kunzwa zviri nani uye akasununguka.
Nei Vana Vakamanikidzwa Nhasi?
Funga pamusoro pezvinhu zvose zvinonetsa zvinogona kukonzera kushushikana nezuva revanhu vakuru: Mhere. magetsi ekufambisa kubva kuterevhizheni, makombiyuta, foni, uye mamwe mazano anogadziriswa-emitting devices. Traffic. Kurongedza basa redu, mabasa, uye mhuri mumabatiro edu, 24-7 sangano.
Kune vana, avo vanowanzowedzera kuve nenzwi nekupopota, zuva nezuva kune zvinokonzera kushungurudza zvinogona kukurudzirwa, zvichiita kuti zvidikanwe zvekuzorora kwenguva yakanyanya kunyanya kukosha. Wedzera kuchikoro ichocho uye shure kwekuchikoro, kumanikidzwa kwekubudirira (ingave kunobva kunze kana kubva mukati mavo), kuchinja kwemhuri kana kukakavadzana, uye zvimwe zvinhu zvakawanda zvinogona kutungamirira mukuzvidya mwoyo uye iwe une kereke yakakwana yevana kushungurudzika.
Zviratidzo zvepfungwa muvana
Kazhinji, vana - zvikurukuru vana vaduku-havagoni kunyatsotaura manzwiro avo ekudzvinyirira uye kuzvidya mwoyo. Kutaura zvazviri, zviratidzo zvekushungurudzika muvana zvinogona kunge zvisina kunyatsooneka, zvakadai sepamuva kurwadziwa, musoro, kana kuchinja maitiro.
Iwe unogona kuonawo mafungiro ehupenyu uye matambudziko ekurara pamwe nekuoma kunetseka kuchikoro.
Kana pakave nekushanduka kwakakura muupenyu hwemwana hwakafanana nekufamba kana mwana wemunin'ina, vabereki vanofanira kubhadhara zvakanyanya nekutsvaga zviratidzo zvinogona kuitwa zvekushungurudzika kwevana. Kunyange kana iwe usingakwanise kutaura chimwe chinhu chinonetsa, mwana wako angatora dambudziko kubva pane chimwe chikoro kuchikoro kana zvimwe zvinhu zvausingazivi.
Chengetedza maitiro ake nemaitiro, uye tarisa chero zviratidzo zvezvinetso. Bvunza mudzidzisi wake nezvekuita kwaanoita kuchikoro uye kuona kuti anoshanda sei neshamwari nemhuri.
Zvakakoshawo kutaurirana nemwana wako nezvekuti angave akanzwa sei, kunyange zvazvo angave asina kukwanisa kutaura muchirevo che "kukura" mazwi. Funga kumibvunzo pamusoro pezvaangave achizvidya mwoyo pamusoro pezvinhu kana zvimwe zvingasaita kuti afare. Kazhinji, vana vaduku havanzwisisi zvakakwana pfungwa yemashoko akadai sokudzvinyirira uye kuzvidya mwoyo.
Zvinogona Kuitwa Nevabereki Nezvekutambudzika Kwemwana
- Regai vana vazive kuti vanogona kutaura newe.
Kurudzirai mwana wenyu kuti ataure newe pamusoro pematambudziko aanove nawo, uye kutaura nezvekunzwa kwake pachena uye nokutendeseka. Imwe yenzira dzinonyanya kukosha uye dzinobatsira vanhu vanogona kugadzirisa kushungurudzika ndekutaura kune mumwe munhu nezvechinetso chavo. Kunyange kana mwana wako asingakwanisi kutaura zvakananga izvo zvaakatsamwiswa nazvo, kungokumbira iwe uye kumukurudzira kutaura kunogona kuita mutsauko. - Iva nechokwadi chekuteerera mwana wako asati ataura mazano.
Kunyangwe iwe unogona kunge uchida kupinda mukati uye kubatsira kupa zvinogadziriswa, mubvumira nguva kuti aratidze zvizere pfungwa dzake nemanzwiro asati aita mhinduro kana kutaura maonero ako.
- Funga kuita chimwe chinhu paunenge uchitaura.
Vamwe vana vanogona kunzwa vakasununguka vachitaura nezvezvinetso zvavo pavanoita mune rimwe basa nemubereki. Ita chimwe chinhu chaunofarira zvose, zvakadai sokufamba-famba, kugadzira makiki, kana kutamba mudengu we basketball mumugwagwa usati wabvunza mwana wako kuti ataure dambudziko raanove naro. (Tsvakurudzo yakaratidza kuti vakomana, kunyanya, vanonyatsosununguka kugovana manzwiro avo kana vari kuita basa rekuita asi vachitaura.) - Itai vana kuti vaite zvimwe zvakadzika kufema maitiro.
Kurudzirai mwana wenyu kufema mumhepo "yakanaka" nekubudisa "mhepo" yakaipa, uye inofungidzira iyo inotakura zvinetso zvose kubva mumuviri wake.
- Ita imwe yoga inobata nevana vako.
Yoga inoratidzika yakaita senzombe yakadzika, cobra, uye muti zvakanakisisa kune vana. Kunyangwe iwe uchiita izvi kwemaminetsi mashomanana - taura, mangwanani mangwanani kusati kwasara kana manheru manheru asati asara-kuva nekanguva kaduku runyararo newe unogona kuita musiyano mukuru mumazuva emwana. - Edzai zvimwe zvinokurumidza-kunetseka pfungwa dzevana.
Izvi zvinogona kusanganisira zvinhu zvinonakidza zvaunogona kufara pamwechete pamwe chete sekutamba pamwe nebhuku, kuisa muviri, kana kutamba mutambo unofarira.