Chokwadi: Moms Vanova Nemhosva Yekusabhadharwa Kwevana Vasingabhadharwi, Too
Mutsara wokuti "kufa baba" inowanzozivikanwa, asi zvakadaro inowanzoshandiswa zvisina kunaka. Kunyange zvazvo shoko rokuti "kufa" rinowanzoonekwa mune dzimwe nheyo dzinoti "mitemo yekutsigira vana, kwete vabereki vose vakawira shure mushure mekubhadhara vana kubhadhara vachida kutsigira vana vavo mune zvemari. Uyezve, kubhadhara vana vasina kubhadhara kunogonawo kuonekwa kune vakadzi. Chii chinonyanya kukosha kudarika mazita ari kutarisana nekonzi chaiyo.
Hezvino chaunofanira kuita kana iwe wakanzi "baba vakafa" kana iwe uri kuedza kubvisa vana vasina kubhadharwa kutsigirwa nekuda kwevana vako.
Chii Chinonzi "Kuuraya Baba" kana kuti "Kuuraya Amai"?
Kana mubereki akarayirwa nedare kuti abhadhara kutsigira mwana nguva dzose, asi asingakwanisi kudaro kakawanda, iye kazhinji anonzi "mhondi mubereki." Iri izwi rechirevo rinoshandiswa rinoshandiswa mutemo chaiwo weimwe nyika, uye inowanzosanzwisiswa. Vabereki vanowira kumashure pamubatsiro wevana nekuda kwekurasikirwa kwebasa kana mamiriro asingatarisirwi havasi "zvifeve". Izwi rokuti vakafabeat rinowanzochengetwa kune avo vane nzira yekubhadhara asi vakasarudza kusaita. Vabereki vanoda kutsigira vana vavo, asi vane kodzero yekubhadhara vanogona kukodzera kugadziriswa kwevana.
Zvinyorwa
"Kuuraya vabereki" uye "vana vekufa" havana kufanana. Haasi vese vabereki vanoponda vanababa, uye havasi vose vasina kuchengetedza vanababa vanonyatsorega kubatsirana nevana.
Kutaura zvazviri, pane vakadzi vakawanda vakanzi varayire rubatsiro rwevana asi vanokundikana kuita saizvozvo nguva dzose sezvaunogona kuona kubva kumitemo iyo inobudisa mazita evanonyanya kuda kufa vabereki.
Asi, nhamba, ndeyechokwadi kuti nhamba huru dzevarume dzinorayirwa kubhadhara rubatsiro rwevana kupfuura vakadzi.
Saka zvinonzwisisika kuti, nhamba yepamusoro, mamwe madzitateguru aizowirawo shure pamitero yekutsigira vana kupfuura vanaamai. Zvisinei, munhu haagoni kuongorora nyaya yekusabhadharwa kwevana vasina kubhadhara pasina kuziva kuti kune varume nevakadzi vakasiya vana kutsigira kuenda vasina kubhadhara. Nokudaro nepo mazita aya anowanzotaurwa kuti madzitateguru, hazvisi zvevarume chete.
Migumisiro
Mukuedza kuedza kukanganisa kusabhadharwa kwevana vasingabhadharwi, inotaurira kuisa migumisiro yakawanda pamusoro pevabereki vanowira shure pamari yekutsigira vana, kusanganisira:
- Garnishing pay
- Kuramba kubvumira mubereki kuti awane pasipoti yepamutemo
- Kurega kubhadharwa kwemabasa
- Kurasikirwa nehurumende uye / kana hurumende yekubhadhara mutero
- Kusungiridza musungwa nguva
Tora Gadziriro Apo Child Support Checks Inosvika Kuuya
Kana yako yekare ikozvino inokweretesa vana vako kudzorera kubhadhara mari yekutsigira vana, taura neAngland Child Enforcement Office yako uye upe ruzivo. Iva wakagadzirira kupa tsanangudzo pamusoro pemari yekushayikwa, kusanganisira mazuva nemadhora emari, uyewo chero ruzivo rwaunayo pamusoro pekodzero yako yekupedzisira yekuzivikanwa.
Rubatsiro Kune Vabereki Vasingakwanisi Kubhadhara
Vamwe vabereki vanozviwana vari mukutora chete havana mari yekubhadhara mari yekutsigira vana. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, kubhadhara kunogona kudikanwa kugadziriswa kuratidza huwandu huripo huripo huripo.
Mune zvimwe zviitiko, mubereki ane chikwereti chikuru chekusimbisa vana kuti mari haingambofi yakabhadharwa zvakakwana. Kuti kugadzirise kushushikana uku, dzimwe nyika dzatanga kupa vana kutsigira zvirongwa zvekuregererwa kwevanhu apo inowanikwa mari inosanganiswa nevana vasingabhadharwi kutsigirwa inogona kuderedzwa apo mubereki anotanga kudzorera kumashure.
Nyevero Pamusoro peKutsigirwa Kwevana nekushanyirwa
Vabereki vakawanda vanovhiringidzika uye vanotanga kushamisika kana vachifanira kuramba kushanyira kuitira kuti vaite pfungwa. Zvisinei, kumatare, kubatsirwa kwevana uye kuchengetwa kwemwana zvinhu zviviri zvakasiyana. Mumeso emurairo, mubereki ane chikwereti chebhasiro rekutsigira vana achiri nekodzero yekushanyirana nemwana.
Saka, chero mubereki ari kushungurudzika pamusana pekushayikwa kwemari yekutsigira vana anofanira kutora matanho anotsanangurwa pamusoro apa pane kubvisa kushanyira. Kuramba kubvumira mwana wako kuti ashanyire nemubereki wako wekuda nokuti ane rubatsiro rwemwana asina kubhadhara angakanganisa kumira kwako kwakanaka nematare.