Kuva neshamwari dzakanakisisa, kutamba nevamwe vana panzvimbo yekutamba, nekuenda kumapati ekuberekwa uye sleepover ndeyezviito zvekuita zvevana vakawanda. Kutaura zvazviri, American Academy of Pediatrics inotaura kuti "kuumba shamwari ndeimwe yezvinhu zvakakosha zvakasununguka zvehutano hwepakati-unyanzvi hwemagariro evanhu huchagara muupenyu hwavo hwose."
Vamwe vana, zvisinei, vanorwisana nehutano uye vane dambudziko pakuita nekuchengeta shamwari.
Mwana wako haafaniri kunge ari "butterfly" uye anodiwa nemwana wose kuchikoro. Kutaura zvazviri, mwana anonyara kana akanyarara angangova neshamwari imwechete kana mbiri uye anofara zvikuru. Asi zvinogona kuva dambudziko kana mwana wako asina shamwari kana kuti asina kumbokoka kumhanya kuti atambe nevamwe vana-kunyanya kana achiita seanetseka pamusoro pekukundikana kwekubatana nevezera rake.
Vechidiki Vana Kuita Shamwari
Kunyange vaduku vanoita sevari kutamba pamwe chete uye vane shamwari, asi boka rekutamba hazviwanzoshanduka kusvikira makore 3. Kusvikira panguva iyoyo, vana vaduku nevana vaduku vanongotamba vari voga kune mumwe kune mumwe mukuenzanisa .
Mushure mokunge vatanga kutamba pamwechete nguva dzose sevana vekuchikoro, vana vane mikana yekuita shamwari dzegara. Vana vana vako vaduku vanofunga kuti "shamwari" inogona kuchinja kakawanda. Kunyangwe vana vaduku-kuchikoro, kusvikira vava nemakore 10 kusvika ku12, vanogona kuva neshamwari itsva yepamwedzi mwedzi mishoma.
Mwana Wako Ane Shamwari Here?
Zvinowanzoomera vabereki kuti vazive chokwadi kana mwana ane shamwari. Kana iwe usina chokwadi kana mwana wako ane shamwari, taura nevadzidzisi vemwana wako kuti aone kuti anotaurirana sei nevamwe vana kuchikoro. Anogara ari oga mukirasi, pamasikati, kana panguva yekudzoka?
Iwe unogona kungobvunza mwana wako nezvevamwe shamwari uye kana ane shamwari yakanakisisa, kuti awane pfungwa yakanaka yekuti ari kuita sei shamwari, zvakare.
Kubatsira Vana Kuita Shamwari
Kana mwana wako asina shamwari, zvingangova kuti haana kuwana mikana yakakwana yekuita. Kuita mwana wako kubatanidzwa mumabasa akawanda nevana vezera rake uye zvimwe zvinodiwa zvinogona kuva nzira yakanaka yekuwana shamwari kumwana wako.
Mimwe mienzaniso yakanaka yezvimbo iyo mwana wako anogona kuita shamwari inosanganisira:
- Mitambo yevechidiki uye makirasi, kusanganisira mitambo yematambo (soccer, baseball, nezvimwe) uye mitambo yega (tennis, martial arts, nezvimwewo)
- Zvinhu zvisingaitiki, kusanganisira mimhanzi uye zvidzidzo zvemifananidzo, chess club, nezvimwewo.
- Nyaya yepaNhau paibhurari yako kana mabhuku
- Dzimwe makirabhu evana, kusanganisira Boy Scouts uye Girl Scouts
- Paki kana nzvimbo yekutamba
Uya neaini-shandara-yakadai sekiyiki, pfu, kana kudya-kutora-kubatsira kubatsira vamwe vana kumwana wako kana uchienda kupaki kana kune mamwe mabasa kana mwana wako asina kutama.
Vana Vane Matambudziko Kuita Shamwari
Kana mwana wako achiramba achirwa nekutora shamwari, funga kukoka mwana kudarika zuva rekutamba uye nekunyatsocherechedza zvinoitika. Ko mwana wako naiyewo anonyengera, anonamatira, ane utsinye, ane hanya, kana achinyara chete kuvaka ushamwari nemwana?
Anoita chimwe chinhu chinovhiringidza vamwe vana here? Kana zvakadaro, ona kana iwe unogona kutaura nemwana wako uye kumubatsira kuti aite zviri nani nguva inotevera. Basa rokutamba zuva rekutamba, umo iwe unofunga kuti uri shamwari yauya kuzotamba nemwana wako, inogona kuva nzira inobatsira yekudzidzisa mwana wako nzira dzakakosha dzekuita kune dzimwe vana.
Vana vanoramba vachiine matambudziko ekugadzira shamwari vanogona kuva nehutano hwehutano hunoita hukama hwehukama hwavo. Izvi zvirwere zvinogona kusanganisira kukanganisa kutadza kwehutano hwehutano, autism, kuzvidya mwoyo, uye kusarudza mutism (umo vana vasingatauri nevanhu kunze kwemhuri yavo yepedyo).
Kutaura zvazviri, kusakwanisa kuita nekuchengeta shamwari kunogona kuva chinhu chinokosha icho mwana wako anoda rubatsiro kubva kune unyanzvi hwezvokurapa.
Mukuwedzera kune ADHD uye imwe mamiriro ekurapa akarondedzerwa pamusoro apa, kuva nezvinetso neshamwari zvinogonawo kuva nemigumisiro yechiratidzo kana chiratidzo chekuora mwoyo, kuremara kudzidza , kushungurudzika, kana kudzvinyirirwa .
Zvaunoda Kuziva
Chiremba wako wevana, mwana wepfungwa dzepfungwa, kana mupi wezano anogona kuva zvinhu zvakanaka zvekubatsira apo mwana wako achiri kuramba ane zvinetso kuita shamwari . Kukurukurirana ushamwari ihwowo musoro wakanaka wekutarisa mwana wako gore negore kunyatsotarisana nevana vako.
Iva nemaonero pamusoro pezvaunotarisira kumwana wako uye ushamwari hwake. Kana mwana wako ane nyara uye akanyarara, zvino angave akafara zvikuru neshamwari imwe chete kana mbiri dzakanaka uye angasada kana kutoda boka rese rehama.
Muzvizhinji, vana vanowanzova neshamwari dzinenge dzinenge dzakafanana nemakore sezvavari. Zvisinei, vamwe vanosarudza kuva pedyo nevana vaduku kana vaduku. Semuenzaniso, vana vane rudzi rwakanyanya rweAADH vanowanzoguma vachiita shamwari nevana vaduku vaduku, sezvo vana vezera ravo vasingadi kutamba navo.
Vana vane zvipo vanowanzova nezvinetso pakugadzira shamwariwo, vachida kuva vari pedyo nevanhu vakuru panzvimbo yevana vanove vezera ravo. Izvi zvinogona kuva chiratidzo chokuti mwana wako ari kutambura nekuita shamwari.
Usafuridza vana vane nyadzi kuti vaite shamwari kana mumamiriro ezvinhu emagariro evanhu kuti vaite shamwari kana zvinokonzera kushungurudzika kwakanyanya kana kana vasina kugadzirira.
Sources:
> American Academy of Pediatrics. Kutarisira Chikoro Chako-Mudiki: Makore 5 kusvika ku12.