Matare anotora mhaka dzekumanikidzwa mumhuri muchengetedzwa kwevana kumatambudziko zvakanyanya. Kune nguva dzose kunetseka kuti kana dare risingatori chiito chakasimba, mubereki anopomerwa angapedzisira apedza kukuvadza mwana. Nokuda kwechikonzero ichi, matare anowanzotarisirwa kana zvichiuya pakupa kuchengetwa kana kushanyira mushure mokupomerwa mhosva yekudzvinyirirwa . Hezvino izvo zvaunoda kuziva pamusoro pemhirizhonga mudzimba nekuchengetwa kwemwana mhaka:
Chirwere Chechisimba Chemuzinda
Vanenge mamiriyoni matatu vana vanoona mabasa echisimba mumba. Ichokwadi, chisimba chemhuri chava chirwere chikuru muAmerican society. Mhirizhonga mudzimba muhukama inowanzoita kuti mumwe wako aite zvekurambana kana kusiya hukama. Kana pane vana vanobatanidzwa, nyaya yekuchengetwa kwevana inobva yasimuka. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, dare rinofanira kusarudza kuti ndeupi mubereki achapiwa kuchengetwa kwevana mumuviri: anonzi akarova, anonzi akabatwa nechisimba mumba, kana maviri. Pakupedzisira, iyo inotarisirwa nedare rekufunga nezve "zvakanakisisa zvemwana" pamusoro pezviitiko zvechisimba chemhuri mumakumbo ekuchengetwa kwemwana. Izvi zvinoreva kuti vanofanira kutarisa kune zvakakosha kuti hurumende igare zvakanaka uye kuchengeteka.
Uchapupu hwehupfambi hwemumba uye chikwata chevana
Uchapupu hwezvakaitika munguva pfupi yapfuura, uye kunyange kwenguva refu-kubvira-kare, zvechisimba mumba, inowanzotaridzirwa mukuchengetedzwa kwevana.
Dare rinogona kuramba kuchengetedzwa kumubereki uyo akatopomerwa nezvechisimba mumba kana ichitarisa kuti mubereki anoisa dambudziko kumwana kana kune mumwe mubereki wemwana, anenge atorwa.
Zviitiko Zvokufungirwa MuDare
Zvakakosha kuziva kuti matare haangotori shoko remubereki paanenge achifunga kupomerwa kwechisimba mumba uye kuchengetwa kwevana.
Vatongi vanowanzofunga kuti:
- Pasinei nokuti zviitiko zvemhirizhonga mudzimba zvaive nemigumisiro kana kuti zvakatungamirirwa, mwana wacho
- Pasinei nokuti anopomerwa anopfuurira kuisa dambudziko kumwana kana mumwe mubereki
- Kuoma uye kuwandisa kwechisimba chemhuri (iyo mareji angatarisa kuva chiratidzo chakasimba chemuitiro wepamusoro)
- Zvingave zvichiri kutongerwa mhosva kumunhu anopomerwa
- Chero humwe uchapupu hunoonekwa hwekushungurudzwa, kusanganisira mifananidzo
- Mapurisa anoti anonyora zviitiko zvekushungurudzwa
Mhirizhonga Mumisha yekutarisira nekushanyira
Zviitiko zvechisimba mudzimba hazvirevi kungoita kuti mwana agone kuchengetedzwa. Zvinosanganisirawo kana munhu akapomerwa achange aine ruzivo rwekushanyira. Dare rinogona kusarudza ku:
- Dzosa kodzero dzekushanyira mubereki akapomerwa, kwenguva pfupi kana kwenguva refu
- Mutemo wakatarisirwa kushanyira
- Dzokorora kurongeka kwevabereki vanenge vapomerwa kuratidzwa kwekushanyira (somuenzaniso, kuburikidza nekudzoka usiku hwekushanyira)
- Raira makirasi ekurera vana kana makirasi ekutsamwa kwehasha
- Raira mubereki ari kupomerwa kuti atore chikamu mukupa mazano ekukurudzira mhuri
- Inopesana nekudzivisa kurongeka kana kurongedzwa kwekudzivirirwa
Matambudziko Anoshandiswa Nevahedheni
Vamwe vanobatwa nechisimba mumba vanogona kunge vachizeza kusiya hukama hunoshungurudza, kunyanya kana munhu akabatwa ari mutorwa.
Kakawanda mutambudzi anogona kutyisidzira munhu anenge atorwa achidana maUnited States Customs Enforcement mahofisi kana uyo anokanganisa achitsanangura kushungurudzwa. Kana munhu wekune imwe nyika ari kushungurudzwa, vanofanira kubva pakarepo vachibva mumamiriro ezvinhu uye vaudze zviremera. Kune mukanano wakanaka wekuenda kune imwe nyika anokwanisa kugara muhurumende pasi peboka rekuisa visa, asingatyi kudzorerwa kunyika yake.
Yakarongedzwa naJennifer Wolf.