Mitsara uye maronda zvinogona kuonekwa, asi maronda ekudzvinyirirwa mupfungwa anogona kuva kwenguva refu. Kunyange zvazvo mwana anokanganiswa nemanzwiro angasapedzisira ari muchipatara nemapfupa akavhuniwa kana kugadziriswa, iye achanzwa manzwiro.
Chidzidzo che2008 chakabudiswa mumagazini yeLancet , chakaongorora kuwandisa kwekushungurudzika mupfungwa. Kuongororwa kwevanhu vakuru vanogara muUnited States uye United Kingdom vakaratidza kuti pakati pe8 ne9 muzana yevakadzi uye 4 muzana yevarume vakaratidza kushungurudzika mupfungwa munguva yehuduku.
Paiva nematunhu akakwirira akataurwa muEastern Europe.
Hazvinyatsozivikanwa kuti vangani vana vanoramba vachirwiswa mupfungwa, sezvo zvichida zvichitaurirwa. Kushungurudzika mupfungwa kunogona kuva kwakaoma kuona kune dzimwe nzira dzekushungurudzwa kwevana.
Mienzaniso yekushungurudzika mupfungwa
Kushungurudzwa kwevabereki kunosvika nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana. Zvinogona kusanganisira kunyomba kana kutaura zvinonyadzisa kana zviito kumwana, kana kuti kungave kusakundikana kwakakwana kunokonzera kushaiwa mupfungwa. Dzimwe nguva kushungurudzika mupfungwa kunowanikwa pamwe chete nekugadzikana kwepanyama kana zvepabonde kana kukanganwa .
Kunyange zvazvo kushungurudzika mupfungwa kunowanzoratidza kuburikidza nemashoko, zviito zvevanotarisira zvinogonawo kuita basa. Kushushikana mupfungwa kunoitika kana mubereki kana mutarisiri asingaratidze mwana kuda kana kumuita kuti anzwe achida, akachengeteka, kana akakodzera. Kakawanda, havazoregi rudo kana kubata, izvo zvikamu zvinokosha zvekukura kwepfungwa mumwana.
Kushungurudzwa mupfungwa kunogona kubva kunenge chero munhu mukuru.
Heano mimwe mienzaniso inogona kuitika yekudzvinyirirwa mupfungwa:
- Baba vane dambudziko rekunwa. Anodhakwa manheru oga oga uye anochera uye anotyisa.
- Amai vanopedza nguva yavo yose pakombiyuta uye havabhadhari mwana wavo muduku.
- Mukadzi-nhanho anoti anoda kuti vana vasipo.
- Mudzidzisi anoseka nechecheche nokuti anotambudzika nekuverenga.
- Mwana anotarisana nemhirizhonga mudzimba mumba.
- Mubatidzi anoramba achidanidzira pavana.
- Kutevera kurambana, baba vanokumbira vana vake kuti vanyerere kumutongi pamusoro paamai vavo kuitira kuti awane rusununguko rwakakwana kwavari.
Nzira Yokuziva Nayo Mwana Ari Kunyanya Kushungurudzika
Vakatungamirirwa nevatori venhau vane zvakawanda zvakasungirwa kuti vauye vachifungidzirwa kushungurudzika mupfungwa sezvavanoita zvepanyama kana zvekuita zvepabonde kana kusaregererwa-kunofanira kutorwa sezvakanyanyisa. Kushungurudzika mupfungwa kungave kwakaoma kuziva nokuti zvinowanzotora muimba yemwana.
Maitiro omwana anogona kuratidza kana pane dambudziko kumba. Unhu husina kunaka hunogona kunge husina kufara kana kuti hukuru hwakanyanya kukura kuti mufambiro wevana unogona kuratidza kushatiswa, pamwe nekuchinja kunoshamisa kwekuita. Semuenzaniso, mwana uyo aimbova asina hanya kana kuti asina kutsvaga kutarisa angangoerekana achinamatira kune vanhu vasiri vanhu vanonyadzisa kana kuti vachida kumutsvaka rudo.
Heano zvimwe zviratidzo zvinogona kunyeverwa zvekunyadziswa mupfungwa:
- Anonyanya kutsvaga rudo rwevamwe vanhu vakuru
- Kuramba kuchikoro kuchikoro
- Kubudirira kwekutarisa (kufanana nekudzikisa kana kuchenesa mushure mekunge uchitarisa chikwata uye kurapa kwemuviri)
- Vanowanzotonyunyutira misoro, stomachache, kana zvimwe zvinokonzera mamiriro ezvinhu asina chikonzero chakazivikanwa
- Kurasikirwa kwechido mumagariro evanhu kana zvimwe zvinodiwa
- Kuderera kwekunetseka mupfungwa
- Kuora mwoyo
- Kuedza kudzivisa mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu, zvakadai sokuenda kune rimwe basa kana imba yomumwe munhu
- Chido chokuzvikuvadza iye pachake kana vamwe vanhu nechinangwa
- Kufunganya
- Kunyanya kuzviremekedza
Kunyangwe iwe unogona kutora mwana ari kushungurudzwa-mune chero ipi zvayo-haazovi kunzwa sechisungo kumubereki; zvisinei, hazvisi nguva dzose. Mwana anogona kuve akavimbika kune mubereki (kana kumutarisiri ari kumubata) nokuti anotya kuti chii chingaitika kana achitsanangura kushungurudzwa.
Mwana anonyadzvinyirirwa anogonawo kufunga kuti kutumidzwa mazita kana kurambwa rudo ndiyo nzira yakararama yehupenyu kuitira kuti arege kuudza ani zvake zviri kuitika.
Zviratidzo zveMutambudzi wekushungurudzika mupfungwa
Iwe unogonawo kuona zvimwe zviratidzo mumunhu mukuru anenge achiita zvisina kunaka, zvakadai seyeiye munhu mukuru anozvidza mwana ari pachena, achibvumira pachena pachena kuti havadi kana kuvenga mwana, achishandisa chirango chakaoma, kuratidza zvisingatarisirwi zvemwana uye kuva nemanzwiro asina hanya.
Vanokanganisa vangave vane nhoroondo yechisimba kana kushungurudza kana kuti vangave vane nyaya dzekushandisa zvinodhaka.
Usafungidzira kuti nguva dzose uri mubereki ari kushungurudza mwana. Kunyangwe vari ivo vanonyanya kuipa kana iwe uchifungidzira kuti chimwe chinhu chiri kuitika, chero chiremera chiremera chinogona kuva chikonzero mumamiriro ezvinhu.
Migumisiro yekushungurudzika mupfungwa uye kubviswa
Sezvokunyadziswa kwepanyama, migumisiro yekushungurudzwa mupfungwa kana kushaiwa kwakanyanya uye inogona kuwanzoita kuva munhu mukuru. Kushungurudzika mupfungwa kunogona kududzirwa nemwana kuti haafariri kana asingadi kana kuti ane mhosva yekudzvinyirirwa.
Zvinogona kuitika zvinosanganisira:
- Dambudziko rekuchengetedza ukama hwakanaka . Kushungurudzika mupfungwa kunogona kupindira kukwanisa kwomwana kuumba zvibatano zvine utano kuvakuru. Zvinyorwa zvinosangana nehutano muhucheche zvave zvakabatanidzwa nekubatanidza kusachengeteka mukukura. Izvozvo zvinogona kutungamirira kune njodzi yakakwirira yekusawirirana nevezera rako, dambudziko nehukama hwepedyo, kuoma nekugadzirisa kusawirirana, uye kushungurudzika kwehukama.
- Kuwedzerwa njodzi yehutano hwepfungwa . Vachiri kuyaruka vane ruzivo rwekushungurudzika mupfungwa vanowanzove vane chirwere chimwe chepfungwa. Kuora mwoyo, kuzvidya mwoyo, kana zvimwe zvirwere zvepfungwa zvinogona kuramba zvichikura. Vanhu vane nhoroondo yekushungurudzika mupfungwa vanogonawo kuedza kuzviuraya.
- Matambudziko emagariro evanhu . Kushungurudzika kwepfungwa kwakabatanidzwa mukudengenyeka uye kushungurudzwa kwevechiri kuyaruka.
- Dambudziko guru rekudzokorora kudengenyeka . Pasina kupindira kwakakodzera, vana vakamanikidzwa vanowanzoshatisa vana vavo pachavo pavanokura.
Haasi munhu wose ane nhoroondo yekushungurudzika mupfungwa inosangana nemarwadzo ehupenyu hwose, zvisinei. Nguva, kusuruvara, uye nguva yekutanga vose vanoita basa.
Vakomana vanotambudzwa vasati vava nemakore gumi nemaviri vane mikana yekuratidzira matambudziko emitemo, somuenzaniso. Vanonyanya kusungwa kana kuratidzira kukanganisa kwakakomba kana kushungurudzwa kwakatanga padiki.
Kuva neukama hwakanaka nemunhu mukuru, zvisinei, kunogona kudzivirira. Mubereki ane rudo, anokurera, sekurukuru, kana mumwe munhu, somuenzaniso, anogona kubatsira kubvisa zvimwe zvinokonzera kushungurudzika mupfungwa.
Kushungurudzika mupfungwa kunowedzerawo sangano sevanhu vose. Inoisa mutoro pamusoro pehutano hwehutano uye hutano hwevanhu, uye inodhura maererano nehuwandu hwekukundikana kwezvidzidzo, kuparwa kwemhosva, uye kudiwa kwehutano hwepfungwa.
Kurapa Kwekushungurudzika Kwemwoyo
Kana mwana ari kushungurudzika mupfungwa, danho rokutanga rekuita nderekuchengetedza kuchengeteka kwemwana. Zvadaro, kurapa kwakakodzera kunotanga.
Munhu anoita zvakaipa angada kurapwa, kunyanya kana ari mubereki. Mishonga inogona kusanganisira kurapa mumwe munhu, makirasi ekurera vana, kana mamwe mabasa.
Vanoshungurudzika mupfungwa vanogona kubatsirwa nehurukuro yekutaura nemumwe mudzidzisi wehutano hwepfungwa. Mukuwedzera pakugadzirisa kushungurudzwa, vana vakamboshungurudzwa mupfungwa vanogona kubatsirwa nekudzidza unyanzvi hutsva, hwakadai senzira dzakanaka dzekutarisana nemanzwiro uye unyanzvi hwemagariro evanhu anovabatsira kugadzirisa kusawirirana murugare.
Shoko Rinobva Kunyanya
Kana iwe uchifungidzira kuti mwana anoteererwa nekushungurudzika mupfungwa, ugozviudza kumabasa ekudzivirira vana. Iko kuongorora kunogona kuva kuitira kubatsira mwana ari kushungurudzwa.
Kana iwe uchifunga kuti mwana wako ari kushungurudzwa mupfungwa nemumwe munhu-mudzidzisi, mufudzi, kana mudzidzisi somuenzaniso-zvakakosha kupindira. Tora matanho ekuchengetedza mwana wako kuchengeteka uye kutsvaka rubatsiro rwezvenyanzvi kana zvichidiwa.
Kana iwe uchitambudza mwana wako mupfungwa, zvakakosha kutsvaga rubatsiro rwezvemhizha kune iwe nemwana wako. Taura nachiremba wako kana kuti taura nehutano hwehutano hwepfungwa.
Kana mumwe wako achinyanya kushungurudza mwana wako, zvakakosha kutsvaka rubatsiro zvakare. Kana mumwe wako asina kufarira rubatsiro, tora rubatsiro iwe pachako nemwana wako. Kana zvichibvumirwa kuramba uye zvisiyiwa zvisina kutenderwa, zvinogona kuva nemigumisiro yeupenyu hwose kumwana wako.
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