Mibvunzo Inokosha Yaunofanira Kubvunza Pamberi Pemazuva Ekutamba

Chikoro-muzera vana vari kuita shamwari itsva , vachiumba mitsva yevamwe vari voga, uye vari kupedza nguva yakawanda vachibatana mumazuva ekutamba. Uye nokuti havasi vana vaduku kana vekuchikoro zvakare, vachave vachienda kune dzimwe shamwari dzeimba kuti vamboita kakawanda vasina amai, baba, kana mutarisiri kuisa pamwe chete.

Kana mwana wako achida kuenda kune imwe shamwari yekutamba, iva nechokwadi chokuti uwane mamwe mashoko anokosha kubva kune vamwe vabereki kuti ave nechokwadi chokuti mwana wako achachengeteka paanenge achifara.

Heano mimwe mibvunzo inokosha inobvunzwa, uye kuti ungavabvunza sei.

Chikonzero Nei Waifanira Kubvunza Mibvunzo Pasati Tambo Rokutanga (uye Kuti Ringazviita Sei)

Vabereki vakawanda vari kunetseka kuwana ruzivo runodikanwa kubva kune vabereki vanogona kutamba nokuti havadi kuonekwa sevabereki ivavo . Iwe unoziva, pushy, helicoptering mubereki anoedza kudzora zvinhu zvakapoteredza mwana wavo.

Asi chokwadi ndechokuti kuziva zvimwe zvinhu zvinokosha pamusoro peimba yemwana wako asati tambo yekutamba chikamu chinokosha chekuchengeta mwana wako akachengeteka. Heano mamwe mazano anokosha okuchengeta mupfungwa paunenge uchitaura nevabereki vehukama hwemwana wako mwana wako asati aenda kumba kwake kuzotamba:

• Usatya kubvunza. Iwe uri kupa mwana wako uye unoisa kuvimba kwako mune imwe mhuri. Funga nezvazvo nenzira iyi: Iwe haungadonhe mwana wako kubva kuchikoro chekuchengetwa kwevana kana kuchikoro pasina kuchitarisisa zvachose; izvochete zvinoshanda pano.

• Chigadzirire sekutaurirana, kwete kubvunzurudzwa . Ita mibvunzo yako nenzira yakabatana uye ine ruremekedzo, uye iva nechokwadi chekuti vamwe vabereki vazive kuti iwe ungatarisira kuti vazive zvose izvi nezvemhuri yako vasati vauya kumba kwako.
• Usarega zvimwe zvinetso zvaungave nazvo; vimba marara ako. Kana iwe usingafungi zvachose zvakasimbiswa mushure mokutaura kune vabereki vanogara, vimba manzwiro ako. Ipa kuti uwane zuva rekutamba paimba yako pane kuti uite kuti iwe kana muchengeti wako atore vana paki kuti vatambe.

Mibvunzo Yekubvunza Mwana Wenyu Wekuda Date Host

Mimwe yemibvunzo yaunofanira kuibvunza iwe usati warega mwana wako kubva kune rimwe zuva rekusetsa rinosanganisira:

1. Ndiani achange ari kumba uye vana vachachengetedzwa zvakanyanya sei? Mumwe wevabereki angave ari kumba here, kana kuti kune mumwe munhu mukuru wekuchengeta aripo? Ndeipi kupi vana vachabata, uye mubereki kana mutarisiri angave ari pedyo here kana vana vachida chimwe chinhu kana kukakavara kana zvimwe zvinetso zvichiitika?
2. Pane pfuti mumba here? MuUnited States, imwe yemapamba matatu nevana ane gunho, maererano neAmerican Academy of Pediatrics (AAP). Uye anenge anenge mamiriyoni 1,7 anogara mumusha ane bundu rinorema risina kuvharwa zvakachengeteka kure. IAAP neA ASK / Brady Campaign yekudzivirira kuipa kwechipfukukurudzira vabereki kukumbira nezvepfuti mwana asati aenda kune shamwari, hama, kana imba yomuvakidzani kutamba. Yeuka kuti kungotaura nevana pamusoro pengozi dzepfuti hazvina kukwana kubvira, maererano neAAP, kutsvakurudza kunoratidza kuti vana vanogona kunge vachida kuziva uye vachiedzwa kutakura zvombo. Kana kungovanza pfuti zvakakwana sezvo zvingave zvichiri kutsvaga. Nzira yakanakisisa yekuderedza kufa kwechirwere chemaputi uye kukuvadzwa ndeyokuchengetedza pfuti kunze kwemusha, uye kana isingagoni kubviswa, kuve nechokwadi kuti yakavharwa zvakachengeteka kure navana nevechiri kuyaruka, inoti AAP.

1. Ko vana vachabvumirana neIndaneti here? Ko vana vachabvumirana nekombiyuta, uye kana zvakadaro, munhu mukuru angatarisa uye ave muimba nevana here?
2. Ndeapi mafirimu , zviratidzo zveTV, mitambo yemavhidhiyo, nezvimwe zvinobvumirwa mumba mako? Kana iwe usingadi kuti mwana wako atarise chero chinhu chakarongwa zvakakwirira kupfuura PG kana PG-13 kana kuti kutamba mitambo yemavhidhiyo inonzi yakakwirira kupfuura "E", tsanangura zvaunoda. Usafungidzira kuti vabereki vose vanoenda nekunyoresa kwako. Vamwe vabereki vangave vakanaka nekubvumira ane makore masere kutamba Call Of Duty kana kutarisa R-rated flick. Kana iwe usingabvumirani, taura chete kuti hauna kubvumira zvinhu izvi zvakadaro kumwana wako (kunyange iwe uchigona kuona kuti vamwe vabereki vakawanda vanoita, uye chii chinovhundutsa mwana mumwe angasava cheumwe), uye zvinotsanangura kuti iwe usafunga kuti mwana wako akagadzirira zvimwe zvakawanda zvakakura asi zvakadaro.

1. Vana vanozove vachiitei? Vachaenda kunze kunotamba, uye kana zvakadaro, munhu mukuru achaenda navo here? Ko vana vachakwira mabhasikoro uye kana zvakadaro, vachazofanira kupfekedzwa helmets here? Vachaenda kune imwe nzvimbo pedyo nemugwagwa here?
2. Pane pane dziva, trampoline, kana bounce imba, kana zvimwe zviitiko zvinowanzozivikanwa zvinokonzera kukuvara? (Unofanirwawo kuverenga nezvekuchengetedza mazano evana kwezhizha uye rose gore rose.)
3. Ko vana vachabatanidzwa vachidya here? (Izvi zvichava zvakakosha kana mwana wako ane chikafu chekudya kana kusagadzikana; kana zvakadaro, iwe unoda kuve nechokwadi kuti mubereki kana mutarisiri achaziva zvaanofanira kuita kana zvichiitika pane zvakadai sokuti, kutungamirira Epi- Pen.) Munhu mukuru anotarisa achaziva here kuti anofanira kuitei kana achigunzva?
4. Ndezvipi zvipfuwo zvaunazvo mumba mako? Ishamwari yako yakabatana nevana here? Kana mwana wako ane chirwere chipi nechipi kune mhuka dzemhuka, iyi ichava mubvunzo unokosha. Iwe unofanirwawo kuva nechokwadi chekutaura kana mwana wako anotya kana kusagadzikana kune dzimwe mhuka dzepanyama (zvakadai sembwa kana hamsters, somuenzaniso).
5. Muchasiya vana vari voga pane imwe nguva here? Vamwe vabereki vanofunga kuti zvakakodzera kusiya, vanoti, vane makore manomwe chete kwechinguva pavanenge vaenda kuchitoro. Vamwe (kusanganisira iwe) vangasabvumirana. Tsvaga mwana wako asati abviswa kubva kana mwana wako angasara asina kutarisirwa, kunyange kwemaminitsi mashomanana.
6. Iwe unenge uchityaira chero kupi nevana? Kana zvakadaro, ungada kusiya chigaro chako chemotokari kana chigaro chekusimudzira.
7. Pane here mitemo mumba mako mwana wangu anofanirwa kuziva? Somuenzaniso, kana vana vanotarisirwa kubvisa shangu dzavo mukati memba kana kuchengeta pasi ruzha pavanenge vachitamba, zvingave zvichibatsira kuziva izvo zvisati zvaitika.
8. Chii chatinogona kuuya nacho? Uyu mubvunzo vabereki vakawanda vanokanganwa kubvunza apo mhuri inogadzirisa mwana wavo zuva rekutamba. Kutumira pamwe nezvimwe zvekudya zvekudya zvakadzama kana zvigoni zvingava pfungwa yakanaka kana yakagamuchirwa nemhuri yakagamuchirwa.

Pakupedzisira, iva nechokwadi chekuenda kune dzimwe mitemo yekuchengetedza nemwana wako, zvakadai sekukosha kwekusamborega chero munhu achipinda munzvimbo yake yega, kuti aite kuti anzwe asinganzwisisiki, kana kumumanikidza kuchengeta zvakavanzika kubva kuvabereki vake. Yeuka: Kuzvidzivirira kwevana kwevana hakusi nguva dzose pamusoro pengozi yevasingazivi ; iyo inotaurawo nezvevanhu vavanoziva.