Bhuku Rinotapurirwa Rinoongorora Zvingakubvunza
Usati wasarudza mubatsiri wemwana wako , tanga wafunga kubvunza chero ani / zvose zveyi mibvunzo inokosha uye inobatsira. Mhinduro dzakapiwa dzinofanira kuita kuti unzwe wakasununguka uye uine chivimbo mukusiya mwana wako wechidiki anokosha mukutarisira mumwe munhu. Kana ukangobvunzurudza usakanganwa nezvekutarisa zvinyorwa zvisati washandiswa kubhadhara mubatsiri wako.
Mibvunzo Yekubvunza Unofanirwa Kubhabhita
- Wakave wabysat kare here? Kana zvakadaro, tapota tsanangura chiitiko chako.
- Wakagamuchira chero ruzivo rwakakosha mukuchengetwa kwevana zvakadai sokutanga rubatsiro / CPR, wakapinda mukana wemubereki, kana kuti wakatora zvidzidzo zvechikoro?
- Iwe unowanzoshanda / kuzvipira nevana here? Kana zvakadaro, ndapota tsanangurai zvakadai sokubatsira nekirasi duku dzekudha, kushanda semubatsiri wemitambo, nezvimwewo.
- Ko majekiseni ako ikozvino here?
- Iwe une hurongwa hwehutano hunogona kukanganisa unyanzvi hwekubata vana here? Semuenzaniso, kana iwe uine makate matatu uye mubati wechirwere unenge uine mararamiro akaipa kune makate, zvino izvi zvinogona kuva dambudziko. Kana, kana uine mumwe munhu asingakwanisi kuwana masitepisi asi mabhedha evana ari padhoro repiri, unofanirwa kuziva kuti usati waita sarudzo.
- Pane mumwe munhu mukuru here kana kuti nhengo yemumhuri iri pedo mumusangano wekukurumidzira waunogona kutaurirana naye? Uyu mubvunzo unoshanda kana uri kufunga nezvekushandisa mwana wechidiki kana munhu asina kutyaira.
- Sei uchifarira kushanda nevana?
- Ndezvipi zvaunoronga nemwana wangu (kana) kana ndaenda? Bvunza mubvunzo uyu kuti uone kana mucheche angakwanisa kuronga mimwe mitambo, mhizha kana mabasa anobatsira vana musipo kwako.
- Ndewepi vana vana iwe unofarira zvikuru? Kushamisira kunakidzwa here? Sei? Ndeipi yezera remakore iwe unonyatsonakidzwa / unoziva nayo?
- Chii chaunonyanya kutarisira vana?
- Unoziva kuti ungashandura sei diaper uye iwe unofara nekuchinja kunyange mhando dzakashata chaizvo?
- Unoziva maitiro ekupa mishonga here? Kana mwana wako ane utonho, somuenzaniso, uye achida mimwe mushonga kana ari pamiromo inorwisa mabhakitiriya, unoda kuve nechokwadi kuti mubatsiri anonyatsogadzikana kwete kungopa kuenzanisa kwakakwana asi kuita saizvozvo zvakachengeteka.
- Chii chauchaita kana vana vasingagari kana kurwisana ? Iwe uchagadzirisa sei kuparadzana kunetseka kana izvi zvingangoita? Bvunza mibvunzo iyi kana mubatsiri anogona kubatsira vana vanopfuura imwechete uye kana "vabereki variko" vangangodaro vaine hanya.
- Chii chauchaita kana mwana wangu asingakucherecheri kana kuratidza unhu hwakaipa sekurira? Uyu mubvunzo unonzwisisika kuti uone kuti mukana wevana vanoita sei mubvunzo uyu uye anokupa iwe nemhinduro. Izvi zvinopawo ruzivo pamusoro pezvirevo zvekuraira.
- Ndeipi mamiriro ezvinhu akaita sei iwe unondiidza? Bvunza izvi kuti uone kuti mukana wevana vanogona sei kutaridzira "chido" kana kuti kukurumidza.
- Wakanyarara here uri mumba mangu usiku kana kwenguva yakareba? Vamwe vanhu vanovhunduka pamusoro pokuva mune imwe imba yomumwe munhu mushure mesiku, somuenzaniso.
- Unoziva kugadzirira kudya nyore here?
- Unoziva nzira yekudyisa kacheche here? A childhood? Unoziva here kuti unofanira kuitei kana mwana achitsvaga? (Iwe unoda kunzwa zvinhu zvakadai semutambi achiziva nezvekusamboputira bhodhoro kana kupisa mumhepo inonzi microwave, kana kufudza mwana wechidiki asina mazambiringa, somuenzaniso.)
- Chii chaunowana maawa ako ega rebhadharo?
- Ndeapi maawa nemazuva evhiki iwe unowanikwa kushanda? Bvunza kana pane dzimwe nguva / mazuva anokwanisa kugadzirisa asingakwanisi kushanda.
- Ndeupi rudzi rwekuzvipira iwe wandichapa kwandiri kuti iwe uchakudza chibvumirano chedu kune vana uye kwete kuregera? (Mubvunzo uyu unonyanya kukosha kana uri kukwereta sitter nekuda kwemazororo makuru kana nguva dzakabatikana dzakadai seSvondo Rutsva.
- Ndezvipi unhu hukuru hwaunofanirwa kuita hunofanirwa kuita kuti ndinoda kukuhaya iwe? Mubereki akanaka anogona kutaura pamusoro pemabasa emwana kana maitiro emapurani akatogadzirirwa, kufara nemitambo, pfungwa yakasimba yokuseka, nezvimwewo)
- Chii chaive chiitiko chako chakaipa zvikuru, uye nei? Ona kuti munhu uyu akashanda sei nedambudziko racho.
- Une mazita ezvinyorwa here? Kana usina kutombotaura nemumwe munhu pamusoro pemubereki wekutanga, iva nechokwadi chokuti iwe unoshevedza uye unotaura nemafungiro asati aita kuti munhu atarisire mwana wako.
- Chii chandingaita semubereki kuti ndibatsire kuita kuti vana vako vekubata nevana vangu vabudirire?