Vana Vaya Vanodheerera Vanotarisana Nengozi Dzokuwedzera Muhupenyu Hwose
Iwe ungangodaro wakanzwa nezvenguva pfupi uye kwenguva yakareba migumisiro yekudzvinyirirwa, asi chii chinokonzerwa nekuva munhu anodheerera? Vana vanovhiringidzika vane ngozi yakawanda yezvakaipa zvakawanda. Vabereki vanofungidzira kuti mwana wavo ari kuita zvekunyadzisa vanogona kuda kupindira kuti vabatsire kudzivirira matambudziko aya muhupenyu hwemwana wavo.
Nzira Dzakashata dzekuva nehasha
Vanhu varipo kana kuti vaiva vanyengeri vanowanzosiya chikoro kupfuura vezera ravo.
Ivo vari pangozi yakawanda yekuwana kuora mwoyo, dambudziko rekuzvidya mwoyo , uye kushungurudzika mupfungwa, kunyanya kana vakatarisana nehukuru hwekunyadzisa kwavo. Vanyengeri vanowanzosvuta fodya, doro, uye mbanje. Izvo zvinowanzoita kupfuura vezera ravo kuti vatange kuita zvepabonde pakutanga.
Kuwedzera Kungozi Kwezvinetso neMutemo weBurlies
Kuvhiringidzika semwana kana kuyaruka kunowedzera matambudziko emangwana-ins ne mutemo. Pakazosvika makore makumi maviri, avo vaimbova vanyengeri vane kukanganisa kwemigwagwa yakawanda uye kanowana kukanganisa kwehupombwe kupfuura vezera ravo risina utsinye. Pakati pemakore matatu, makumi matanhatu kubva muzana yevanhu vakadzvinyirira vamwe vana mumakadhi 6 kusvika ku9 vane kamwechete kutongwa kwemhosva. Vaimbova vanyengeri vanogonawo kutakura zvombo kupfuura vasiri vanyengeri uye vanogona kuwedzera kusagadzikana kwehutano hwevanhu.
Zvinotyisa Zvokutakura Ukama Zvinetso Zvokupinda Muvanhu Vakuru
Kuvhiringidza muhuduku kunoratidzika kunge kunobata hupenyu hwemusha hwemunhu semunhu mukuru.
Vaimbova vanyengeri vanowanzova nezvinetso nehukama hwenguva refu uye vangave vachitambudza ivo vaviri vakaroorana nevana. Vanewo nguva yakaoma yekuwana nekuchengetedza basa kune vanhu vasiri ivo vanodheerera. Vanhu avo vakanga vari vanyengeri vanowanzova nevana vanova vanyengeri ivo pachavo, nokudaro kutanga maitiro ose zvakare.
Kutsvakurudza KuMigumisiro
Kunze kwekutsvakurudza kwakaitwa mumigumisiro yekudheerera kune avo vanotambudzwa kunze kwevanokanganisa. Uyezve, pane nhamba yakawanda yevanyunyuti ivo vanowanzovhiringidzwa nevanyengeri. Zvakawanda zvekuongororwa zvakaitwa muzvidzidzo zvekare. Zvinounza mupfungwa mubvunzo wekuti inonzi cyberbullies ichava nemigumisiro yakafanana yakafanana neyendarama "chaiyo-nyika" inodzvinyirira.
Zviratidzo Zvinoratidza Kuti Mwana Wako Ari Kukuvadza Vamwe
Kuvhiringidza kunogona kuva nemigumisiro yakaipa muhupenyu hwemwana wako. Kana iwe ukatarisa zviratidzo kuti ari kuita izvi, unogona kubatsira mwana wako kurega kudheerera. Heano zviratidzo zvinonyevera:
- Inopinda mukugadzirisa kwenyama uye kwemashoko
- Ive shamwari neshamwari dzinovhiringidza
- Rinoratidza zviratidzo zvekuwedzera kukurwa
- Kazhinji vane matambudziko ekurangwa kuchikoro
- Anoshungurudza vamwe pane kutora mhosva kune zvaanoita
- Inokwikwidzana zvikuru uye inowedzera pakuzivikanwa
Shoko Rinobva Kunyanya
Kuvhiringidza kunogona kuva chiratidzo chokuti mwana wako anoda rubatsiro kukudziridza nzira dzekugadzirisa uye hukama hwakanaka nevamwe. Kana iwe unogona kupindira kuti ugadzirise unhu hunoita kuti ushushikane uye ubatsire mwana wako kukura unyanzvi hwakanaka hwehutano hwevanhu, huchakubatsira mwana wako kwehupenyu hwake hwose.
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