Tsvaga kana chikamu chevana chinokodzera iwe uye kuti ungagadzirisa sei kubudirira
A Nanny Share apo mhuri mbiri dzinoita urongwa hwekugovana nanny. Zvikomborero ndezvekuchera mari yekuchengeta vana uyewo kupa vana vanokura nguva dzose kutamba navo vasingatauri kune mishonga yakawanda yavanokwanisa kubata kana vakatumirwa kune rimwe zuva rekuchengetedza zuva kana kuti zuva rekuchengeta kumba.
Nepo iwe unowanzobhadhara $ 1 kana $ 2zve paawa kune imwe nanny inotarisira vana vaviri kunze kweiyo imwe chete, iyo inodhura zvikuru kupfuura kana mhuri mbiri dzichibhadhara zvakasiyana.
Vamwe vanhu vanogona kuifunga kuti chikamu chevana kana mhuri yako inoshandisa nanny musi weMuvhuro, Chitatu, neChishanu uye imwe mhuri inomubhadharira Chipiri neChishanu, asi iyo haisi yechokwadi nanny. Chikamu chechokwadi che nanny ndechekuti nanny inotarisa vana vaviri vemhuri panguva imwechete mazuva mashanu pavhiki.
Kana uri kufunga kugovana nanny nemamwe mhuri pano pane mamwe mazano okuva nechokwadi kuti urongwa uhwu hwakakodzera iwe mose.
Iva Nechokwadi Kuti Mhuri Yenyu Yose Inobatana Zvakanaka
Iwe unoda kuva nechokwadi chokuti mhuri yako uye imwe mhuri ndeyekanaka. Mushure mezvose, imwe mhuri inhengo yeanny ichave inoziva zvimwe zvezvinhu zvakanyanya kufanana nezvehupenyu hwako. Vachakuona iwe wakaneta uchikurumidza kunze kwemukova; vanozoziva nezvemazuva aunosiya zvisikwa zvakasviba zvokudya zvekudya mumvura yakadzika zuva rose. Kana mhuri imwe yakasungwa zvakasimba yakasvibiswa zvakanaka uye imwe yacho yakasarudzwa-asi isina hanya, uri kutungamira kurwisana pane imwe nguva.
Chinokosha ndechekuti unofarira vanhu ava vakakwana here kuti vagovere vana vana? Iwe unonzwa wakasununguka kutaura navo nezvekurera vana, kudya, kuranga, mabasa epamberi uye zvirongwa zvako zvekubereka? Vanoratidzika seve mhuri yaunogona kugadzirisa matambudziko chero ipi zvayo nenzira yehurumende uye yakanaka?
Iwe unogona kudiwa kuti uende kuburikidza ne "mama" mazuva akawanda usati wawana zvakakodzera. Hungu, izvi zvinogona kunge zvisinganzwisisiki, asi zviri nani kupindura mibvunzo iyi nokutendeseka ikozvino kupfuura kuguma muhutano hwevana nemhuri yakaoma.
Kunze kwekemikari uye hukama kuno ndiyo iyo mhuri mbiri dzinotanga kushamwaridzana. Kazhinji, madzimai anotarisira anokwidza chikamu chevabereki mumavhiki vasati vazvarwa, nekuwana mumwe amai vane pamuviri vanoronga kudzokera kubasa panguva imwe chete. Iva nechokwadi chokuti iwe uri papeji imwechete pane nguva yekuguma kwekuenda kwekuberekwa uye kuti hapana iwe unogona kusarudza kuva mai-kumba-kumusha.
Uyewo, bvunza nezvemazuva ako emazuva ose uye nguva inotarisirwa, kuitira kuti munhu mumwe chete asaguma kuchengeta nanny nguva uye achisimudza nguva yakawanda apo mumwe munhu anouya kumba panguva. Zvakanaka, iwe uchagara pedyo kune mumwe nemumwe kuitira kuti hakuna iwe unoenda kure kure nekusiya mwana pamangwanani.
Ita Mutemo Wekugadzirisa Kugovana Navo Wako
Kana wawana mhuri yakanaka kugovana nanny, unogona kubvunzurudza nanny pamwe chete. Sezvo urongwa uhwu hunoenderera mberi, iwe unoda kukudziridza mitemo yepamusoro yeiyo chaiyo inosanganisira mugove. Unogona here kushandisa dzimwe dzimba umo nanny ichakugadzirisa?
Kana zvakadaro, kangani? Dzimwe mhuri dzinoparadzanisa rimwe nerimwe zuva, asi vamwe vanogona kutora masvondo kana kutora mazuva chaiwo evhiki kuitira nyore kugadzirisa kana nekuda kwemaawa akasiyana emabasa pazuva rimwe nerimwe. Unogona kurongedza mhuri dzezororo kuitira kuti nanny ane nguva iyoyo zvachose?
Ndezvipi zvaunotarisira kune nzvimbo chaiyo iyo mugove wevana unozoitika? Chii chinonzi nzvimbo yemahara yomwana inoratidzika? Pane mabhirikiti maviri muimba imwe neimwe yeputi, kana kuti nyanzvi ichagadzira chifukidzo chinotakura zuva rega rega here? Imba imwe neimwe yakakura zvakakwana kuti mwana mumwe nomumwe agare mumba make here? Iwe uchaita sei mukaka wakafanirwa mukaka, kana iwe kana mumwe amai (kana vose vari vaviri) vakaronga kunwisa?
Uye iwe uchava nezvigaro zviviri zvepamusoro uye mufambisi wepamusoro paimba imwe neimwe - kana kuvakurira shure nekunze?
Iva nechokwadi chekutaura pamusoro pezvachazogoverwa. Uri kuenda kune mumwe nomumwe kupa mapepa, mafuta, mabhanhire, mabhodhoro uye zvimwe zvinhu zvemazuva apo chikamu chevana chinenge chiri mumba mako here? Kana iwe unofanirwa kuunza nhumbi yako kune imwe mhuri yemhuri here? Chinonyanya kukosha, iwe uchagadzirisa sei kana mumwe mwana ari kurwara? Imwe nyanzvi yekugadzirisa kana mwana mumwe ari kurwara uye ivo vachiri kutariswa neanny wako. Shandisa mavara akasiyana-siyana kuti aone mahara, vana mabhodhoro, uye zvimwe zvinhu zvekuchengetedza kupararira kwemishonga.
Isa Gwaro Rinotonga Mukunyora uye Kuisa Chiratidzo
Kana ukangoshandisa zvose zvese, nyora izvi muchibvumirano chokuti mhuri mbiri uye nanny inopinda. Hazvidi kuti zvibvumirwe zviri pamutemo, asi kana zvinyorwa zvingakubatsira kuronga kusagadzikana kwemazuva anouya kana kusawirirana. Iva nechokwadi chokuti unosanganisira zvaunotarisira mune ramangwana, zvakadai sezvingaitika kana imwe mhuri iine mumwe mwana. Iwe unofanirwa here kuramba uchibhadhara nanny munguva yekuberekwa kwako? Iwe unogona kubhadhara mari yakawanda zvakadai sei nanny kuti utarisire mwana mutsva? (Achifunga kuti anoda kutarisa vatatu.)
Funga kuumba musangano wemhuri pamwe chete kaviri pagore kuti uongorore zvakarongeka urongwa uye kurukura chero purogiramu kana logistics inoshanduka. Kunyangwe iwe uchizoona mumwe nomumwe zuva rega rega, zvinobatsira kuva nehutano hwemusangano wakarongeka kuti uone kuti chero nyaya dzakashata dzinotaurirwa.
Iwe unogona kunge uchitsvaka kambani ye nanny yako zvakare, iyo iwe unogona kuwana kubva kune dzakawanda matematari anowanikwa kana kuzviumba iwe nekubatsirwa komutemo. Izvi zvichatsanangura nguva inotarisirwa nguva yebasa, nguva yekurwara kana yezororo, foni kana kushandisa kombiyuta, kubatsirwa, uye mubhadharo, hongu.
Nhengo yeNano inogona kuva yakanaka kana iwe ukawana mhuri yakarurama kuti uwirirane naye, nanny anonyatsoshanda achishanda nemhuri mbiri, uye chibvumirano chakanyorwa kuitira kuti munhu wese ari papeji. Kunyangwe iwe unogona kunge uri pedyo nemamwe mhuri unyeuka kuti mumoyo mako, uri kupinda muchibvumirano chebhizimisi nevana vako chiri nhamba yekutanga.