Mwana Wako Angave Ane Muviri Matambudziko Emufananidzo uye Unofanira Kuzivei?
Chimiro chemuviri chidzidzo ndicho chidzidzo chamunonzwa zvakawanda pamusoro penguva yemberi. Kungofanana nehuwandu hwemadzimai emufambiro wemigwagwa yakakonzera kuderera, yega yega Playmirl model yave yakaneta uye yakawanda. Vakomana vari kunzwa kushungurudzika kutarisa semifananidzo yevhidhiyo yavanoona, dzimwe nguva nemigumisiro ine ngozi.
Media Pressures
Chii chakakwana muviri wemurume?
Kana iwe ukatarisa TV kana kuverenga magazini, zvakajeka izvo zvinoonekwa sechimiro chakanakira murume. Muviri wemuviri uye miviri yakawanda inokuita kuti utarise "kutemwa" kana "kubvarurwa" -ndizvo zvinoratidzwa sezvakanaka.Kanda mumakumbo mashoma uye mapepa makuru, kupa muviri muviri weV, uye iwe unofunga murume wenyama.
Vakomana vedu varipi vanowana pfungwa idzi? Kunyange zvazvo pasina huwandu hwekutsvakurudza panyaya iyi, vamwe vatsvakurudzi vari kuongorora mashoko evakomana vedu vari kuwana. Mitumbi yevanhu iri kushandiswa kakawanda kutengesa michina - mishonga kazhinji isingawirirani nemuviri kana kutarisirwa kwevanhu. Vakomana vedu vaduku vari kutotarisana nemifananidzo isinganzwisisiki yekuti muviri we "munhu" unofanirwa kutaridzika sei. Mumakore makumi maviri akapfuura, nhamba dzezviito seGI Joe dzanyanya kuva muscular uye misimba yavo inowedzera kutsanangurwa. Izvi zvakaenderera mberi kusvika pakatarisa apo kana chiito chechiito chaiva munhu chaiye, hazvingakwanisi kuti munhu ave nechiyero chakafanana!
Kana iwe ukatarisa chero magazini, mitezo yechirume inofungidzirwa uye, semitumbi yemadzimai, yakasvibiswa nemhepo uye inoita kuti ione seinofadza sezvinobvira. Kubvira paTV kusvika kumagazini kune mapikicha anodikanwa, zvakaoma kuti vanakomana vedu vadzivirire mifananidzo yezvinofungidzirwa kuva muviri wakakwana.
- Mifananidzo yeMuviri Mifananidzo: Vechiduku neMedia
Geographic uye Mutsika Kusiyana
Ko mhizha nemitambo yedu ndeyechokwadi here? Zvinoratidzika saizvozvo. Imwe nyaya iri muHarvard University Gazette yakatarisa kusiyana kwechimiro chemuviri muvarume kubva kumadokero (United States neEurope) vachienzanisa nevarume vanobva kunyika dzeAsia. Izvo zvakawanikwa kuti varume veTaiwan vakanga vakagutsikana nemitumbi yavo uye vaiva nechepasi kushandisa vanabolic steroid yakaenzaniswa nevarume muWest. Nyaya yacho inoratidza kuti tsika yeTaiwanese inoratidzira varume nokuda kwekuziva kwavo uye tsika yavo, kwete miviri yavo chete. Uyezve, zvakasiyana nemaU.S., kwakanga kusina magazini eTaiwanese ekutongeka kana kuvaka muviri. Zvinonzwisisika kuti kana varume vari kukoshesa zvimwe zvinhu kunze kwekukwezva, uye kuti haasi kuratidzirwa miviri inofungidzirwa iyo inogona kunge isingakwanisi kuwana, kuti inenge ichinyanya kugamuchira maonero emitumbi yavo.
Social Media
Mukuwedzera pane zvidzidzo zvechikoro uye zviratidzo zveTV, huwandu hwemagariro evanhu hwakawedzera nzira itsva yakakwana yokuti vechidiki vaonekwe nechitarisiko chemuviri chaiyo panguva imwechete sevanonyanya kufunga nezvekuonekwa kwavo. Mhinduro isina kunaka pamusoro pemaonero evechiri kuyaruka mukupindura kwekuvandudzwa, somuenzaniso, inogona kuparadza. Chimwe chekuongorora kutarisa kwehuwandu hwemagariro evanhu pamufananidzo wemuviri wakawana kuti nzvimbo dzaive dzakanetseka zvikuru dzaiona uye dzikaisa mifananidzo uye dzichitsvaga mhinduro dzisina kunaka kuburikidza nekushandurwa kwemamiriro ezvinhu evanasikana nevakomana.
Muviri Mufananidzo weVakomana vs. Vasikana
Mhinduro yekuti vakomana kana vasikana havakwanise kugutsikana nemufananidzo wavo wemuviri ndewokuti hakuna munhu ane chokwadi. Zvatinoziva ndezvokuti kune uchapupu hwekuti vakomana nevarume vanotanga kunzwa kuoma kwekuva ne "muviri wakakwana." Chimwe chidzidzo chakaratidza kuti varume vakanga vasina kunyatsogutsikana nemitumbi yavo, vachizviona sevane mafuta akawanda kupfuura zvavakanga vane. Zvinotoshamisa kuti, kunyange zvazvo vaifunga kuti vaiva "fatter" kupfuura zvavakanga vari chaizvo, varume vari muchidzidzo vakazviona sevasimba kupfuura zvavakanga vari.
Chimwe chidzidzo chakawana kuti varume vakanga vasingagutsikana nemutoro wenyama yavo sevakadzi.
Vakadzi vacho vakanga vasingagutsikane nehutoro hwavo nokuti vaifunga kuti vakanga vakaremera. Varume vacho vakanga vakaenzana zvakaparadzana pakati pemisasa miviri. Rimwe boka revarume vakafunga kuti vairema. Rimwe boka revarume raifunga kuti vakanga vari pasi pehutera. Ichi chidzidzo chinoratidza kuti varume vane zvinetso zviviri-kumanikidzika kwekutsamira uye kumanikidza kuvaka masimba makuru.
Hazvisi pachena panguva ino uyo anonyanya kugutsikana nemitumbi yavo kana kana chimiro chemuviri chemuviri chiri kuipa. Tsvakurudzo iri kuratidzira zvose zviri zviviri izvi, kunyanya sezvo migumisiro yechimiro chemuviri mashoma chiri kukura mumarume-kudyidzana kwezvokudya mumarume uye kupesana kwemufananidzo kwevarume.
Migumisiro Yezvitarisira
Varume vari kupedza nguva yakawanda, mari uye simba pavanotarisa "zvakanaka." Vari kushandisa mari yakawanda pamusoro pezvinonhuwira, zvigadzirwa zvemaziso, mishonga yemvere, kushandiswa kwebvudzi, uye kunyange kuvhiyiwa kweplastiki. Kana mwana wako ari kupora zvishoma pamusoro pezvinyorwa zvishoma, zvinogona kuva tsika yekugadzirisa utano. Kana mwana wenyu ari kuyaruka achitaura nezvekudya kwekudya kana liposuction, pangangodaro kune dambudziko rakawanda.
Chimwe chidzidzo chikuru chakatarisa kugutsikana kwevanhu vevanhu uye kuti kwakabatana sei nokuora mwoyo, kudya kunetseka, kushandiswa kwekuita-kusimbisa zvinhu uye kusazvidzivirira . Hazvishamisi kuti varume vakanga vasina kugutsikana nemitumbi yavo vaiva nehuwandu hwekuora mwoyo uye zvinetso zvekudya. Varume vasina kugutsikana vakashandisa zvinhu zvinowedzera-kushanda zvakadai se-over-the-counter supplements kana anabolic steroid uye vaive vasina kuzvikudza. Zvigumisiro zvekudzidza zvinoratidza izvo zvinoratidzika sekunzwisisa. Kana mumwe munhu ane chimiro chemuviri mashoma, angatora matanho ekuchinja muviri wake, kunyange kana zvichireva kurega kudya kune dambudziko rinotyisa kana kutora zvinhu zvinogona kukuvadza.
Nguva Yekutambudzika
Anofungidzirwa 10 muzana yevanhu vanowana rubatsiro rwekudya kwepfungwa ndevarume, asi vamwe vanofunga kuti nhamba iyi yakanyanya kwazvo. Kana mwanakomana wako achiita seanotarisirwa nechitarisiko chake, anodzivisa izvo zvaanodya, anoshandisa zvidimbu, kana kuti anoshandisa zvakanyanya, ndiyo nguva yekukurukurirana mufananidzo wemuviri naye. Kana iwe uchinzwa sokuti mufambiro wake unogona kukuvadza, kurukura zvinetso zvako nevana vako. Anogona kukubatsira kuti utarise nyaya iyi yakaoma, kana kukuudza kune unyanzvi unogona kubatsira.
Dzidza zvinyorwa uye nhamba maererano nevanabolic steroid inoshandiswa mumakore ekuyaruka muUnited States, uye kuti ungaziva sei kana mwanakomana wako angave achishandisa anabolic steroid sezvo vabereki vakawanda vasingazivi kuti vechidiki vavo vari kushandisa zvinhu izvi.
Nzira Yokukurudzira Mumufananidzo Wakanaka
Kunyangwe kana mwanakomana wako asingaiti seanotarisana nechitarisiko chake kana maitiro ekuratidza ane hanya newe, unogona kuva nechokwadi kuti akafunga nezvemuviri wake. Chidzidzo che2016 cheAustralia pamusoro pevana vane makore 12 kusvika ku18 chakawana kuti vanenge 50 muzana yevaduku ava vakabvumirwa kune zvinetseka pamusoro pekuonekwa kwavo. Tarisa mazano aya ekukurudzira nekukurudzira mufananidzo wakanaka mumuviri wako .
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