Mutevedzeri wechidiki anopedza maawa anenge mapfumbamwe pazuva achishandisa vhidhiyo nekuda kwekunakidzwa kwavo, maererano nemushumo weCommunity Sense Media. Zvinotyisa, ivo vaduku avo vanopedza zvishoma kudarika mavhareji emaminitsi gumi pazuva vachitaura nevabereki vavo.
Zvichida kuti panguva iyoyo maawa mapfumbamwe ekutsvaga kushandiswa kwevechiri kuyaruka inoputirwa nezviuru zvemashoko maererano ne "zvakanaka" muviri.
Izvi zvinoratidzika uye zvisingagoneki zvinoratidzika zvekunaka zvinogona kukanganisa pamuviri wemuviri wako kana iwe usingachenjeri.
Media Messages Vechiduku Vanogamuchira Nekurema
Mafirimu, zvekutengeswa, magazini, uye mawebsite zvinoratidza vanhu vakanaka sekanaka. Underweight models uye photoshopped mifananidzo yehutano iri kwose kwose. Zvokudya zvezvokudya uye zvinhu zvakanakisa zvinotumira shoko kuti kuva rakapfava uye rinokurudzira ndicho chinhu chinoita kuti munhu afare uye abudirire.
Mhedzisiro inogona kuonekwa kuvana vari vaduku. Kutsvakurudza kunoratidza vana vaduku sevanosarudza mitatu yemapuranga inoratidza vanhu vakaderera pane avo vanomiririra. Uye nezera remakore gumi, makumi mapfumbamwe nezana (80%) veMamerica vave vachidya.
Social Media uye Chido Chokutadza
Haisi mhemberero yemasikirwo iyo inoita vechidiki vari pasi pekumanikidzwa kuti vave vakaonda uye vakanaka. Zvemagariro evanhu vanogona kuva nemigumisiro yakanyanya zvikuru pamuviri wemwana wenyu wechidiki.
Vechidiki vazhinji vanochida kuvimbiswa kubva kune vezera ravo uye zvekugarisana nevamwe ndeye nzira yekukurumidza kuti vawane mhinduro.
Pasinei nevechiri kuyaruka pane imwe selfie paIndaneti, kana kuti anoona mifananidzo yevamwe vanozvirumbidza pamusoro pe "chigamba chavo" paTumblr , hukama hwevanhu hunogona kuva nesimba zvikuru.
Vamwe vechidiki vanopedza maawa vachiedza kutora selfie pane imwe nzira yakarurama. Vamwe vanoona maitiro avo zvichienderana nekuti vangani vanofarira mufananidzo wavo wekupedzisira wa Facebook unogamuchira.
Iko nguva pfupi, peer-to-peer mhinduro inogona kuvhiringidza kune avo vanozviremekedza vanobva kune zvido zvehutano hwevanhu.
Zvinosuruvarisa, vazhinji vechidiki vanotsoropodzwa nekutsamwa uye kutaura zvisina kunaka pamagariro evanhu. Kudyidzana kwepabonde kunogona kukuvadza chaizvo mumuviri wechidiki wemuviri.
Migumisiro yeMuviri Mumufananidzo Image
Izvo zvinomanikidzwa kuti zvive zvishoma zvinogona kuva nemigumisiro yakaipa Kutsvakurudza kwakabatanidza kubudiswa kwezvifananidzo zvehutachiona hwemhepo huri pasi-hutsika hwakasvibiswa kuti uwane tsika dzisina kunaka dzekudya nekuderedza kuzvidzora. Muongororo yakaitwa ne Girlguiding, hafu yevasikana vane makore 16 kusvika ku21 vakati vaizovhiyiwa kuti vavandudze miviri yavo.
Muviri wemuviri wakaipa unogona kutungamirira kumigumisiro yakanyanya. Kunyange zvazvo vamwe vechidiki vanoita zvirwere zvekudya, vamwe vanoona kuora mwoyo. Chimwe chekuongorora muna 2009 chakawana kuti vasikana vakanga vasingafari nechitarisiko chavo vakanga vari pangozi yakakura yekuzviuraya.
Vakomana uye Mufananidzo Image
Havasi vasikana chete vanozviisa pasi pezvinhu zvisina kufanira zvenhau zvinoratidzira kunaka. Vakomana vanoputirwa nemifananidzo ye-six pack pack uye mishonga mikuru. Maitiro makuru uye mashizha maitiro anoratidza izvo zvisingaoneki mhando dzemitambo uye anotanga kutumira vakomana misiyo yakaipa pazera remakore.
Kuitevera muviri wakakwana kunotambudza vakomana.
Vakomana vaduku vanogona kuedza muviri wakakwana nekudya kana kuti nekuita zvekuita zvekuita. Vanogonawo kukura dambudziko rekudya kana matambudziko ehutano hwepfungwa zvichibva pamuviri wemuviri usina kunaka.
Nzira Yokurwisa Midhiyabhorosi Migumisiro Inokuvadza
Hazvigone kudzivirira mwana wako kubva pakuputirwa nemifananidzo yakaipa yemifananidzo nguva dzose. Mafoni uye mafoni emagetsi anowedzera zvinoreva mwana wako achaona chinangwa chekunaka kwose kwose. Asi iwe unogona kudzidzisa mwana wako kuti ave mutevedzeri.
- Shandisa mienzaniso chaiye . Tarisa TV pamwe chete uye simira zviratidzo uye zvikwata zvekutengeserana kuti utaure nezvemashoko ari kutumwa. Tarisa pamagazini pamwe chete uye kurukurai mifananidzo isina musoro.
- Taura nezvekutsvaga . Kurukurai maitiro evashambadzi vanoshandisa kutengesa zvigadzirwa. Batsirai mucheche wako wechidiki pasi peshoko pamusoro pekuti chigadzirwa chichaita sei kuti chiwedzere.
- Ita hurukuro pamusoro pemiti isina muviri . Kurukurai zvinhu zvakakomba zvisingakwanisi kutaridzika uye zvinyanyisa-nyeredzi nyeredzi dzinowanikwa. Taura pamusoro pezviito zvinotyisa uye zvisina kunaka vanhu vakawanda vanozvitora kuti vawane miviri yemuviri uyu, pasinei nokuti inotora hutano hwavo.
Ita kuti nyaya idzi dzive chikamu chekukurukurirana kunogara mumba mako. Batsirai mwana wenyu kuti awedzere chimiro chemuviri wakagwinya uye iwe uchaderedza kusakanganiswa kwemasvikiro nemasangano ehupfumi achave.
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