Pane imwe nguva yakapoteredza musikana wangu wokutanga wekuberekwa, ndakatanga kutora mwana fever.
Kuuya kubva kumhuri dzakakura isu (vana vana vana mumwe nomumwe), ini nomurume wangu taiziva nguva dzose kuti tinoda kupa vana vedu chipo chekuva nehanzvadzi dzepedyo pedyo nemakore. Uye nokuti ini ndakakurira nehanzvadzi dzangu dzechidiki anenge makore mapfumbamwe kunze kwangu, ndakada muchivande kupa mwanasikana wangu hanzvadzi yepedyo chisungo chandisina kumbobvira ndawana.
(Kugovana zvipfeko? Kurwisana nekugadzira masekondi maviri gare gare? Uya nayo!)
Uye nerufaro, ndakawana chido changu uye mwanasikana wangu wechipiri akaberekwa makore maviri mushure mehanzvadzi yake. Ndinoda kuva nevanasikana vangu vava pedyo nekukwegura uye nokuti "makore maviri" gore rakapera richiita zvakanaka, takaenderera mberi nekuita vana vedu, tichigamuchira vana vaviri mumakore mana anotevera - kuunza huwandu hwakazara vana vana mumakore matanhatu. Vose vevana vedu vanenge makore maviri ari oga, imwe nhamba inoita seyakanaka yakawanda kune dzakawanda dzemhuri. Heano zvikonzero zvishomanana kupera kwemakore maviri kunoratidzika kushanda kwatiri:
Inoshanda nekuyamwisa
Ndinofunga kuti makore maviri emakore akapera anowedzera pfungwa, kunyanya biologically kutaura. Amai vanoyamwisa vanowanzova nemitambo yakanonoka uye apo vacheche vanotanga kuzvisarudzira kumwedzi kwemazera gumi nemaviri, kudonha kweukoti kunoratidza muviri wake kuti yava nguva yokuti avezve nepamuviri!
Muduku mukoma musikana
Nzvimbo inoita seyakasvibirira nzvimbo inoita sevana inoratidzika kushanda - pamakore maviri, vana vaduku vane hupfumi hwakawanda uye vanoita sekutora vana vatsva vakawanda muzvikwata. Hatina kumbova nematambudziko nehanzvadzi yedu yegodo, somuenzaniso. Uye pane zvakasara kwatiri, kuchengetedza vana pedyo nezera rinoreva kuti takagara mu "baby mode". Rega nditaure chete kana iwe wakasiya chikamu chezvikwama zvekucheka uye mazamu emvura uye usina kurara usiku, zvakaoma chaizvo kudzoka shure!
Close sibling bonds
Chimwe chezvikonzero zvangu zvekutsvaga mukomana mukuru pedyo nemakore ndeyekuti ndaitarisira kuti vose vakura pamwe chete uye vave shamwari dzehupenyu. Hapana chinhu chandinonyanya kukoshesa kupfuura hama yangu nehanzvadzi uye ndinoda kuti vana vangu vawane chipo ichocho zvakare.
Hapana hunovimbisa, zvechokwadi, kuti kuva nehanzvadzi yakaswedera pedyo nemakore zvinoreva kuti ivo vachakura vakaswedera pamwechete. Mumwe amai vakataura pamusoro pepa Facebook yangu vakaona kuti akanga ane vana vatanhatu zvakanyanya zvokuti ivo vose vaizokwanira pamwe chete-uye zvino vanogara pasi pose uye vasingatauri mumwe kune mumwe!
Nguva yakawanda yezvimwe zvekuita
Izvi hazvibatsiri munhu wese, asi ndinofanira kubvuma, zvakapfuura pfungwa dzangu nguva kana maviri. Mukuva nevana vangu vose kamwechete, pazera duku, zvingave zvakanaka kufara nguva yakawanda yakawanda mushure mekudzika mumugwagwa kana kuva nenguva yekudzorera muviri wangu. Nenzira dzakawanda, ndakafunga kana tichida boka revana, sei usina kuzviwana kamwechete? Asi zvakare zvakare, chikamu changu chinofunga kuti zvingava zvakanaka chaizvo kuva nekuputsika uye kuparadza zvakakonzerwa nemwana wekupedzisira zvakare.
Ndakanzwa mazano akawanda akasiyana kubva kumama akawanda akasiyana pavanoparadzanisa vana vavo. Vamwe vanopika kuti mhembera yemakore makuru ndiyo nzira yekuenda nayo, nokuti mukoma mukuru anokwanisa kubatsira nemucheche uye ini ndaigona kuona kubatsiro kune iyo zvakare.
Kwatiri, ndinofanira kutaura kuti ndinofara nemakore akasiyana pakati pevana vangu uye kana ndaifanira kuzviita zvakare, handidi kuchinja chinhu.
Unofunga kuti chii chakanaka pakati pevana?