Pashure pokunge agere kuchikoro zuva rose, vana vakawanda vanogona kuwana zvinhu zvakawanda zvavanoda kuita pane kugara pasi uye kuita basa ravo rechikoro. Uye zvino kuti vana vane ruzivo rwemagetsi, hazvishamisi kuti vangave vachitamba mitambo yemavhidhiyo pane kugadzirisa matambudziko matambudziko.
Uye vamwe vana havadi kuita basa ravo rechikoro. Zvinogona kuvhiringidza kumubereki anoedza kugara achiyeuchidza mwana kuti "Ita yako spelling."
Asi, kushungurudza mwana anononoka kuita basa rake hazvibudiriri. Mune nguva refu, zvose zvinotambudza zvinogona kudzoka zvakare.
Chinetso Nekubatana
Chidzidzo che 2017 chakabudiswa mu Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology , chakawana kuti vana vanoita zvakanaka kana vabereki vachivakurudzira kuti vazvimirire nebasa ravo rechikoro. Vatsvakurudzi vakawana kuti vana vaida kuzvimirira kuti vabate zvizere nevadzidzi.
Nagging haina kukurudzira kuzvimiririra. Anogara achiti, "Usakanganwa kuita basa rako rechikoro," uye, "Handisi kuzokuudzazve. Gara pasi uye uite basa rako rechikoro," zvinoreva iwe uri kutora mamwe mabasa kupfuura iwe mwana wako kuti atore basa rechikoro rakaitwa.
Kana iwe uchipedza manheru ako uchigunun'una, uchikumbira, uye uchiedza kukurudzira mwana wako kuti aite basa rake, iwe unenge uchida kuwedzera simba nekutsvaga mubasa rake kupfuura iye.
Kubata kusvikira mwana wako pakupedzisira apinda mukati hakudzidzisi kuzviranga . Pane kudaro, angakwanisa kuita kuti iwe usiye kugadzikana, kwete nokuti anofunga kuti zvakakosha kuita basa rake rechikoro.
Kuwanawo kunoita kuti mwana wako awedzere kuvimba newe. Angave asina hanya nekushandisa nguva yake kana kutevera mabasa ake kana achiziva kuti iwe uchapa zviyeuchidzo zvekare.
Kuwana zvakare kunodzidzisa mwana wako kuti haafaniri kukuteerera iwe kokutanga iwe paunomuudza chimwe chinhu. Kana achiziva kuti iwe uchataura kuti "Ita basa rako rechikoro," kanenge ka10 pane dzimwe nguva, haazokurudzirwa kuita icho chekutanga mapfumbamwe iwe uchitaura.
Bvumira Migumisiro Yemasikirwo
Dzimwe nguva, migumisiro yezvisikwa ndiyo yakanakisisa vadzidzisi. Saka pane kungovhiringidza mwana wako kuti aite basa rake riitike, tora parutivi uone zvinoitika.
Funga nezvezviitiko zvaangatarisana nazvo kuchikoro kana asingakwanisi kuita basa rake rechikoro. Achazofanira kugara mukunonoka here? Mudzidzisi angamuita kuti arambe apedza chikoro here? Achawana zero here? Kune vamwe vana, migumisiro iyi inogona kuva yakabudirira zvikuru.
Zvechokwadi,, maitiro aya haazoshandi kune munhu wose. Kana mwana wako asina hanya nemhando dzemakirasi aanowana kana kuti achiita seasingabatsiri nemigumisiro iyo mudzidzisi anobudisa, haagoni kudzidza chidzidzo chehupenyu kana iwe uchibvumira migumisiro yepanyama.
Asi kune vamwe vana, kungovabvumira kutarisana nemigumisiro yehupenyu hwavo pachavo kunogona kuva chinhu chinokosha kuvabatsira kudzidza.
Ita Kuti Mwana Wako Aite Basa Rake
Mushumo wega wega haukurudziri mwana wose. Vana vakawanda vane hanya zvikuru nezvinoitika nhasi, kwete rudzi rwechikwata chavanowana pamushumo wehupoti mumwedzi mishomanana. Idzi vana vanoda zvimwe zvakagadziriswa zvinobudirira zvinoita kuti vavakurudzire.
Unogona kukurudzira mwana wako kuti aite basa rake kuburikidza nekuisa miganhu nemagetsi. Ita mutemo weimba unoti, "Hakuna magetsi kusvikira basa rechikoro raitwa."
Zvadaro, siyai kuvana venyu kuti vasarudze nguva yekuita basa ravo. Pakutanga vanozviita, nguva yakawanda yavanofanira kuita zvinhu zvavanoda. Kana vakasarudza kusaita basa ravo, vadzivise maropafadzo avo kusvikira vapedzisa mabasa avo.
Iwe unogonawo kupa zvimwe zvinokurudzira nemararamiro epurogiramu . Kana mwana wako achiwana basa rake rechikoro rakaitwa nguva nenguva zuva, kumupa mubairo muduku pamusi wevhiki.
Kana, shandisa chiratidzo chekugadzirisa hupfumi nekumupa nechiratidzo zuva nezuva anowana basa rake rakaitwa. Regai achinjana michina yezvikwereti zvakakodzera mapepa akasiyana-siyana. Itai kuti vabatanidzwe pakusarudza mubairo uye achakurudzirwa kuti vawane.
Dambudziko-Gadzirisai Pamwechete
Kana mwana wako achiedza kuita basa rake, zvinogona kubatsira kunetsa-kugadzirisa pamwechete. Basa racho ringave rakanyanya kuoma kana kuti zvichikanganwa kuti anyore basa rake. Kana iwe ukashanda pamwechete kuti ugadzirise chinetso iwe unogona kuwana zvikonzero zvakajeka zviri nyore zvichamubatsira kuita basa rake oga.
Bvunza mwana wako, "Chii chingakubatsira kuti uite basa rako rakaitwa nenguva?" Unogona kushamisika kunzwa pfungwa dzake. Zvinogona kunge zvakajeka sekumubvumira kuti aite basa rake mushure mekudya, kuitira kuti awane kupumha paanodzoka kumba kubva kuchikoro. Kana kuti, angati anoda rubatsiro rukuru kune imwe nyaya.
Kukoka kupiwa kwevana vako kunogona kumubatsira kuti ave nechido chokuwana mhinduro. Zvadaro, achave achiita basa rake rechikoro, uye nezviyeuchidzo zvishoma kubva kwauri.
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