Munyika yanhasi, iwe unogona kunge uchinzwa vana vakawanda vachiti, "Ndipe icho icho!" uye "Ndinoda ikozvino!" kakawanda kupfuura iwe uchanzwa ivo vachiti, "ndapota," uye "ndinokutendai." Zvinosuruvarisa, dzimwe nguva inonzwa sokunge vazhinji venyika vakakanganwa kudzidzisa vana tsika dzakakosha.
Asi, nekuda kwekuti vana vazhinji havana hutsika, izvo hazvirevi kuti haufaniri kudzidzisa mwana wako tsika yepamusoro.
Mwana akanaka anonyatsokwanisa kuonekwa nevadzidzisi nevamwe vabereki nokuda kwezvikonzero zvose zvakanaka. Batsira mwana wako kuti ave netsika dzakanaka nemishonga iyi yekuranga:
1. Rumbidzai Kushandisa Kwemwana Wako Kwenzira
Ipa mhinduro dzakanaka pose paunobata mwana wako achishandisa tsika dzakanaka. Kune vana vaduku, izvi zvinogona kureva kuti, "Basa guru rinoyeuka kutaura kuti 'Ndatenda.'" Kwevechiri kuyaruka, mhinduro yakanaka inogona kusanganisira kurumbidzwa kwekuisa foni kure pavanenge vachidya patafura kana kugumbatira maoko kana mukakwazisa munhu mutsva.
Kana iwe uine mwana muduku, itai kurumbidzwa pakarepo. Iti, "Iwe wakaita basa rakanaka ruchionga mbuya nokuda kwechipo ichocho." Usanyadzisa mwana achiri kuyaruka nokurumbidza pamberi pevamwe vanhu. Pane kudaro, iva nehurukuro yaunofunga pamusoro pekuti unofarira sei kuti akazvibata zvine chiremerera kune vashanyi pamhuri kuungana kana kumupa mhinduro yakanaka pamusoro pokuti akabata sei kusangana nemunyanzvi wezvitoro.
2. Muenzaniso wePolite Behavior
Nzira yakanakisisa yokudzidzisa unyanzvi hutsva ndeyekuti uve muenzaniso wakanaka. Apo mwana wako achikuona iwe uchitaura zvinyararire kune vamwe uye uchishandisa tsika dzako, iye achatora pane izvozvo. Ngwarira kuti iwe unobata sei nemumwe wako kana kuti vomumhuri medu nokuti pane dzimwe nguva zviri nyore kukanganwa kushandisa tsika apo tinonzwa takasununguka nevanhu.
Tumira kukuvongai manotsi, zviite zvine chiremerera kune vanhu vari mumhizha yebasa, uye shandisa tsika dzako paunenge uri kutaura pafoni nokuti vana vanogara vachiterera uye vachitarisa.
Uye chenjerera nezvekubata kwako mamiriro ezvinhu kana iwe uchigumburwa. Kana iwe ukatsamwira mumwe munhu, unowanzosimudza inzwi rako here? Unoshandisa mazwi anorwadza here paunofunga kuti mumwe munhu akakuitira zvisina kururama? Mharidzo yako pamusoro pekukosha kwekushandisa tsika haizonzwiki kana usingaenzanisi nzira yekuzvibata nekuremekedza nekuremekedza.
3. Mharadzano Mamiriro Ezvinhu Akajeka
Kubata basa kunobatsira vana vanoita unyanzvi hutsva. Kuita basa kunogona kuva chinhu chinobatsira zvikuru kana uri kupinda mamiriro matsva. Kana wako ane makore mashanu akakoka shamwari kumutambo wake wekuzvarwa, mutambo wekushandisa nzira yekushandisa tsika paunenge uzarura zvipo. Mubatsire kuita tsika yekuonga vanhu nekuda kwechipo chake uye nzira yekuita kana akazarura chipo chaasingadi.
Gara pasi nemwana wako uchiti, "Ungaitei kana ..." uye wozoona zvaanotaura. Ita sewe shamwari kana mumwe munhu mukuru uye ona kuti mwana wako anopindura sei mumamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo. Zvadaro, ipai mhinduro uye mubatsire mwana wenyu kuti aone kuti angazvibata sei nekuremekedza uye nekuremekedza mumamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana-siyana.
4. Ipa Tsanangudzo Pfupfupi
Vana vane mikana yekuyeuka tsika dzavo uye mitemo yakananga kana iwe uchipa tsanangudzo pfupi pamusoro pokuti nei chimwe chiito chinonzi chisingabatsiri kana chisina kunaka. Dzivisa kunyorera kana kuudza nyaya dzakareba. Pane kudaro, taura chete chikonzero nei imwe chiito chisingafadzi.
Kana mwana wako ari kudzora nemuromo wake akazaruka, iti, "Vanhu havadi kuona zvokudya mumuromo mako apo vari kuedza kudya." Kana iwe ukaita hurukuro yakawanda pamusoro pacho, unogona kukurudzira nenzira isingaiti mufambiro kuti uenderere mberi. Asi, kana iwe unogona kungotaura chikonzero chacho chikadzikama uye chinonyanya kukosha, chinogona kushanda sechiyeuchidzo kumwana wako pamusoro pekuti vamwe vanhu vangave vasina kukoshesa zvaari kuita.
5. Ita Zvaunotarisira Nguva Yakakodzera
Iva nechokwadi chokuti zvaunotarisira zvakakodzera kusvika kumakore emwana wako uye nhanho yekubatsira. Kana iwe uine mwana muduku, tanga kushanda pane zvinyorwa zvekuti "chinyorwa," "ndinokutendai," uye "urombo." Panguva iyo mwana wako achiri kuyaruka, iwe unofanirwa kunge uchitarisa kune unyanzvi hukuru hwakadai semhando yefoni uye yakaoma zvikuru mano ekukurukurirana.
Dzimwe nguva zvinobatsira kunyatsotarisa pane imwe nzvimbo pane imwe nguva - semitemo yepamusoro-tafura - tisati taenda kune dzimwe hutano. Kana iwe ukapa mwana wako zvakanyanya kuti adzidze panguva imwechete angangodedera. Zvakajairikawo kune unyanzvi hwekare kuti udzokorwe nguva nenguva kuti uone kuti mwana wako ari kuyeuka kuti avashandise.