Iwe unofunga kuti wechidiki anotambisana nechisimba haagoni kuitika kumwanakomana wako kana mwanasikana wako here? Funga kuti achiri muduku zvikuru kuti izvozvo zviitike, kana kuti hazvingaitiki nokuti ari mukomana? Nhamba dzehurumende dzinobva kuU.S. Centers for Disease Control nekudzivirira pavechiri kuyaruka zvechisimba zvinotaura nyaya yakasiyana.
Ndezvipi Zvinowanzova Kuyaruka Kudanana Nokushungurudzwa?
Nhamba dzemazuva ano pamusoro pemakore ekuyaruka kwechisimba dzinotaura nyaya inotyisa:
- Mumwe mumasikana gumi nemakore uye mumwe muvakomana vechidiki gumi nemaviri vanobvuma kuva nehutano hwemhirizhonga muhukama hwepamberi mugore rapfuura. Mumwe muvatatu vechidiki vanoti vanoziva mumwe munhu akaroorwa kana kukuvadzwa nemumwe munhu anofambidzana naye.
- Mumwe muvashanu vane makore gumi nemaviri vane makore gumi nematanhatu vakambova muhukama vanoti vanoziva mumwe munhu akabatwa nekutsamwa nemukomana kana musikana.
- Mumwe mumakore mashanu ari kuyaruka anobvuma kuva nechisimba zvekunetseka mugore rapfuura.
- Vane makore gumi nemasere kusvika kumakore gumi nemashanu vave vari muhukama, 62% vanoziva shamwari dzakatotambudzwa nemukomana kana musikana.
- Inenge imwechete muvasikana vashanu vari kuyaruka vave vachinyadziswa mumuviri kana zvepabonde nemumwe wavo.
- 70% yevechidiki vechidiki vakamborwiswa zvepabonde vaiziva varwi vavo. Murwisi wacho aiva shamwari, mukomana kana mukomana.
- Vanopfuura hafu yevasikana vakaongororwa vakataurirana kuwirirana muhukama hwavo - zvinoreva kuti iye nemumwe wake vaine utsinye kune mumwe kune mumwe.
Kunze kwechiitiko chechisimba uye kushungurudzwa
Mukuwedzera kumhirizhonga yemumuviri, vazhinji vechidiki vari kutonga kana kuti kushungurudza hukama hwehukama. Kuvhiringidza uye kutema chiratidzo chimwe chekutarisa, asi zvinokoshawo kuti vabereki vaone zviratidzo zvekuzvidya mwoyo kana kuora mwoyo.
Vakomana vachiri kudanana kushungurudzwa uye chisimba zviri kuitika kwose kwose kune nhamba inotyisa yevechiri kuyaruka.
Zvakakosha kuti vabereki vazive nhamba, zviratidzo izvo mudiwa wako wekuyaruka ndiye anonyomba , izvo zvinetso zvekudzvinyirira muukama hwakaita sei, uye chii chatinofanira kutarisa kana iwe uchifunga kuti mwana wenyu ari kuyaruka ari kushungurudzwa. Vabereki vakadzidza vanogona kubatsira kumisa chirwere ichi chekushungurudzwa muhukama hwevechidiki.
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Teen Dating Violence. National Youth Violence Prevention Resource Center. http://www.safeyouth.org/scripts/faq/dateviolfacts.asp#9
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