Nguva Yokusiya Nendere ... zvakare
Vakuru vechidiki uye mireniyari vari kudzokera kumusha kunogara nevabereki vavo munhamba dzenhoroondo. Pane zvikonzero zvizhinji zveizvi, asi maererano nePew Research, chikonzero chakakosha zvikuru chekudzoka kune chikafu chemhuri ndeyekuti vechidiki vari kuparara kubva pane imwe nguva kupfuura kare.
Kusanganazve muna 1880, urongwa hwekugara huri pakati pevechidiki huve huri kurarama nemumwe munhu waunoita rudo, angava mudzimai kana chimwe chinhu chinokosha. Rudzi urwu rwakarongeka kuma1960, apo 62% vezera racho vane makore 18 kusvika ku34 vane makore vanga vachigara nemumwe wako kana mumwe wavo mumba mavo, uye mumwe chete-mu-mashanu chete aigara nevabereki vavo. - Pew Research
Imba Yadzo Yavo?
Imari yeimba ndeimwe chikonzero chinotumira vechidiki vaduku kudzokera kumwana wavo muimba yevabereki kana pasi pedzimba dzevabereki. Pasinei nokuti vari kusarudza kuramba vari dzidzo yavo, havasi kuwana mari yakakwana yekugara vari voga, kana kuti vari kuchengetedza imba yavo pachavo, mari inobatsira zvikuru vechidiki vari kusarudza kugara nevabereki vavo kusvika kune makore makumi maviri uye kunyange dzimwe mamiriro avo makumi matatu. Apo paunotarisana nekugara nevanogara navo uye nekugovana nzvimbo yekugara nevanhu vavasingazivi kana vasingatarisiri zvakawanda, zviuru zvemakore vari kusarudza kunyaradzwa nekuchengeteka kwekugara nevabereki vavo.
Kwete Kufarira Rudo
Mireniyadhi ane hutano hushoma kudarika Gen-Xers kana Boomers. Kusava nehanya kwehukama hwepedyo kunogona kuonekwa kune, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, kumanikidzwa kuti kubudirire mumabasa avo, kutya kuve nekurwadziwa mupfungwa, kuwedzera kwekushandura kwezvinodhaka, izvo zvingakanganisa libido, uye kusagadzikana kusangana pane zvekufambisa.
Panzvimbo pokupedza nguva yavo nesimba vachitsvaka rudo, zviuru zvemakore zvinoremekedza hutano hwavo, mabasa avo, neshamwari dzavo.
Izvozvo Zviri nyore
Kurarama nemhuri kwete panzvimbo yavo pachako kunowedzera nyore kune mazana emireniyoni, ndicho chimwe chikonzero vanogona kusasarudza kubva kune dendere.
Mabasa ezuva nezuva sekutengesa mabhizimisi, kuchenesa imba, kubika uye zvakawanda zvinowanzochengetwa nevabereki nekusafa, kupa vechidiki vakawanda nguva yakawanda yekusununguka uye mari shoma shoma. Kana vadzoka kumba uye vakaona kuti zvakanaka sei kuva chikamu chemhuri, pamwe nekudya uye hove yakachena, zvingave zvakaoma kuenda kunze chero nguva pfupi, chero zvingave zvakaita mari yavo.
Zvingaitwa nevabereki kukurudzira vana vavo vaduku kuti vafambe
Kufunga kuti wechidiki wako ari kurarama zvakanaka uye anogona kuzvitarisira, vabereki vangakurudzira sei-kunyange kuomesa-kuti vana vavo vabuda kunze kwemhuri? Kune vabereki vakadaro, zvirongwa semasters asina chinhu kana kuti vashandirwi vanogona kuiswa pamusana wemoto, kusanganisira kutengesa imba yakawanda kuderedza uye kuenderera muchikamu chinotevera chehupenyu hwavo.
Hapana chikonzero nei vabereki vachifanira kurega kubvunza vana vavo vechidiki kuti vawane nguva uye chirongwa chechipiri chinotevera muupenyu hwavo. Kana vechidiki vachiita sevasingadi kuita kune rimwe zuva kana purogiramu, vabereki vanofanira kuzviita ivo pachavo kuti vataure zvavanotarisira uye zvinoda kuti vana vavo vawane imba yavo pachavo.
- Kana vabereki vari kutora rendi, rega kuishandisa kushandisa mari yekushandisa mari uye kutanga kuiisa muakaunti yekuchengetedza pakarepo. Mari iyi inogona kushandiswa kuita kuti vaduku vavo vakugadzirire muimba itsva kana kuti kubhadhara mari pamusha, zvichienderana nemari.
- Rega kutarisira vechidiki vechidiki. Simbisa kuti vanobika kudya zvishomanana kwevhiki, kuita mhuri yekuchenesa, kuchenesa imba yekugezera kana kuchera mushizha. Panzvimbo payo inonzwa sekusununguka kwepachena, ita kuti zvinyanye kuoma kuti ugare wakaiswa.
- Kana iwe uri kutsvaga kutengesa imba yako nekuderedza, itora iyo yakanyorwa. Hapana chinogona kukurudzira mwana wako wechidiki kupfuura kukuona chiratidzo che "kutengesa" pamberi peimba yako. Tsanangura nounyoro kuti uri kufamba nemweya wako uye inguva yokuti aende mberi naye, zvakare.