Kana iwe uchida kuti vana vako vave nemafungiro akanaka kuchikoro, unofanirwa kuvaratidza kuti unokoshesa zvakadini dzidzo kumba. Chimwe chezvinhu zvakasimba kupfuura zvose zvaunayo pakuvandudza mafungiro akanaka nekukoshesa dzidzo ndeyomutungamiri wedu semubereki.
Maererano nekuongorora kwemakore mashomanana ekutsvakurudza kwemashoko mu "The Broken Compass" naAngel Harris naKee Keith Robinson, mafungiro evabereki ndeimwe yezvinonyanya kukosha kuchikoro kubudirira.
Heano mazano matatu ayo Harris naRobinson vakawana kuti anobatsira mukugadzira mafungire akanaka kune chikoro.
1) Yagovera Zvaunofunga Nezvako Nekukosha Kwezvidzidzo
Chikonzero chekubudirira mune zvidzidzo kumucheche-pakati-vana-chikamu chinokonzerwa chikamu nokuti vana ava vanogara munharaunda umo vasati vataurirwa kukosha kwedzidzo, vanoona zvakare uye vanozviona panguva yekukurukurirana kwavo nevanhu vakuru sezvavakagumisa nevatsvakurudzi Harris uye Robinson.
Somuenzaniso, kana vana vachiona kana kunzwa vabereki vavo nevamwe vanhu vakuru vachitaurirana nyaya kubva mumakore avo ekugoreji, vana vanowana shoko rokuti dzidzo inokosha uye ichava chikamu chekuda kwehupenyu hwavo hwevanhu vakuru.
Zvinofadza kuti Harris naRobinson vakawanawo izvi zvakanaka pakushanda kune dzimwe mhuri dzinonzi dzakashata. Vatsvakurudzi vakaona kuti mhuri dzakawanda dzeAsia, pasinei nemamiriro ezvinhu emari, dzichange dzichiwana nzira dzekukurukura kukosha kwezvidzidzo kuvana vavo.
Nenzira yakanaka, hauri kurarama mune imwe nzvimbo yakapfuma kana kupedza vhiki dzako dzemavhiki uchirembera kunze navanachiremba uye magweta kuti vana vako vazive kuti dzidzo inogona kuunza mari nemagariro evanhu kumhuri yako.
Nzira Dzokuzviita Ita nemwana wako pamusoro pezvaunoziva kuchikoro. Regai vazive zvakakushandira iwe uye kana chimwe chinhu chisina kushanda, chaungaita nenzira yakasiyana.
Mwana wako achakuziva zviri nani uye anonzwa zvakananga kubva kwauri pamusoro pebasa rekudzidzisa rave richiita muupenyu hwako. Chengetedza hurukuro iri pamusoro pekuti kuita zvakanaka kuchikoro kunounza kubudirira uye mikana yakawedzerwa gare gare muupenyu.
2) Iva Nezvokutarisira Zvikuru zveMwana Wako Kuchikoro
Chimwe chimiro chikuru chekubudirira kuchikoro ndechido chevabereki nezvekuti vana vavo vachaitei kuchikoro. Meta-kuongororwa neHarvard Family Research Project yevadzidzi makumi manomwe nemasere ekuongorora zvidzidzo yakaratidza kuti kutarisira kukuru kwevabereki ndicho chinonyanya kukosha chechikoro kubudirira kuchikoro.
Izvi zvinotsvakurudzwa ndezvekuti vana uye vechidiki vanobudirira kuchikoro nekuti ndizvo izvo vabereki vavo vanotarisira kuti vaite. Vatsvakurudzi vakarondedzera zvakakosha zvevabereki sekutenda kuti vana vanozoenda kunze kwekuwana chikoro chesekondari uye kuenda kuyejiji kana imwe dzidzo yepamusoro-secondary.
Zvaunogona Kuita kuti uve nezvinotarisirwa zvakanyanya kumwana wako kuisa tarisiro yokuti mwana wako anogona kukwanisa kuverenga mashoko ari kuchikoro. Kunyange zvazvo anenge anenge ari oga mwana ari kutambura pane imwe nguva kuchikoro, kutambura kunogona kukundwa kuburikidza nekudzidzira tsika itsva kana kuwana rubatsiro rwepamusoro kana zvichidiwa.
3) Simbisa Kukura Mindset
Kukura kwepfungwa ndeyekuti vanhu vanove vakachenjera uye vanobudirira nekushanda zvakaoma kudzidza.
Kukura kwepfungwa kunofananidzwa nemafungiro akajeka, apo mumwe munhu anotenda kuti vanhu vanozvarwa vane mano uye haigoni kuchinjwa.
Vanhu vane pfungwa yekuwedzera vachaisa nguva nesimba mukudzidza nokuti vanoziva kuti ndizvo zvinofanira kuitwa kuti vadzidze zvitsva. Vanhu vane pfungwa dzakagadzirika vanokwanisa kusiya basa idzva sezvo vanotenda zvishoma zvingaitwa kuti vavandudze.
Zvaunogona Kuita Batsira mwana wako kuti ave nekukura kwepfungwa nekugovana navo kuti tsika yekuita nekuedza nguva dzose zvinotungamirira sei kuwana ruzivo uye unyanzvi. Dzivisa kutaurira mwana wako kuti haasi akanaka pane imwe nyaya, semasvomhu.
Pane kudaro, taura navo pamusoro pezviito zvinotora kuti uvandudze. Yeuka, kukura mupfungwa kune imwe inotarisa kuti kushanda uye zviito ndizvo zvinounza kubudirira.
Mamwe Mafungiro Okupedzisira Mukuratidza Mwana Wenyu Maitiro Aungaita Chikoro Chakanaka Maitiro
Nzira iyo pfungwa dziri pamusoro dzinoita kuti mwana wako aone maonero ako kuburikidza nekutaura kwako kwehutsika. Iyi mitemo inouya kana iwe uchitaura nemwana wako pamusoro pekuchikoro uye iwe unobatanidzwa mune zvedzidzo .
Vabereki vane zviito zvakasiyana-siyana zvavanotora zvinoratidza mafungiro nemaitiro. Pasinei nokuti chiito ichocho chiri kutevera kumusha wekuchikoro kana kuedza kubatsira mwana wako pavanenge vachirwa , mafungiro akanaka, anogona-kuita achabatsira pamusana pemaonero akaipa, kutonga. Izvi zvinoshanda kumatauriro ako kumwana wako, asiwo kuti unotaura sei pamusoro pevadzidzisi vemwana wako pamberi pevana vako.
Kana iwe uchigumburwa nechinhu chipi nechipi chinoitika kuchikoro chemwana wako, tsvaka nzira yakanaka yekugadzirisa nyaya yacho. Vadzidzisi vakabatikana zvikuru, vanowanzotambudza mabasa anoshanda nevana vakasiyana-siyana vane zvido zvakasiyana-siyana. Kunyange vadzidzisi vakanakisisa vanoita zvikanganiso dzimwe nguva. Kana iwe uchifunga kuti zvakakosha kuti chimwe chinhu chiri pachikoro chechecheche chako chichinje, tsvaga nguva yekunyarara kuunza nyaya iyo kumudzidzisi wemwana wako kudzidza zvakawanda uye zvingaitwa.
> Harris, Angel L., naKee Keith Robinson. The Compass Broken: Vabereki Vanobatanidzwa neVana Dzidzo . Np: Harvard U Press, 2014. Print.
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