Chii chaunofanira kuita kana kiddo yako inenge yakadzidziswa-yakadzika ichienda kune vanocheka vacheche
Nyaya yacho yakawanda zvikuru. Wakazviita kuburikidza nechibvumirano, asi pakupedzisira kubudirira, vhiki ye mopping up pee uye (pakupedzisira) kupa zvipo apo inonzi pee inozopedzisira yaita muhari. Iwe unogona kuzadzisa iyo yose Target rwendo musingadi kuchinja zvipfeko zvemwana wako. Mwana wako wepamutemo anonyatsogadziriswa nemvura.
Zvino chimwe chinhu chakakura chinoitika: Ambuya nakurukuru vanouya vhiki yekushanyira; mwana wako anorwara; kana amai kana baba purogiramu yebasa inoshanduka.
Nenguva isipi iyi itsva inofadza, urwere, tsika, kana kusava nechokwadi zvinongokonzera kukanganisa mararamiro ezvokudya uye kutumira musoro wako-akasimba mumuputi-kudzidzisa backslide.
Heano mashoko akanaka: Hausi wega. Nyanzvi dzinobvumirana kuti potty kudzidzira kudzidzira hakusi isiri. Chigumbuso chinogona kukonzerwa nekuchinja kwehupenyu hukuru kana kushungurudzika, kana chimwe chinhu chakajeka sekupfekedza, akadaro Whitney Parchman, uyo anotamba chikoro cheJoyful Day Montessori muChicago musha weHistern Park.
"Kana mwana wako aive akapfeka shangu dzakasungirirwa dzakasungirirwa munguva yekushambidzira, zvichida dzakakwanisa kuzvikwidza uye pasi kana zvichidiwa," akadaro Parchman. "Kana vakatanga kupfeka jeans zviri zvakaoma zvikuru kuti mwana abvise bheji ravo munguva. Izvi zvinoguma, zvinowanzoitika kune ngozi."
Parchman's approach to "learning toilet" ndeyekudzidzisa vana kuti "teerera zviratidzo zvemiviri yavo iri kupa."
" Handiti kupa mubayiro vana kuburikidza nekushandisa iyo potty kubudirira - kunze kwekukurudzira kwemashoko - nokuti pfungwa yavo yekuzadzisa inopa mubayiro wakakwana," akadaro.
"Mune mamwe mazwi, chinangwa ndechekuti ivo vanomanikidzwa uye havafambidzwi nekunze kwezvinhu, zvakadai sechigamba chemashizha pose pavanoenda."
Asi kune vabereki vakawanda vanopa mubairo kana kupa chiokomuhomwe wavo mudiki kana mashizha kana mushure mushure mabudiro akabudirira, kuvhara mubhadharo wekugadzirira nokukurumidza kunogona kukonzera backslide, inonzi Ashley Hickey, padzidzisi yekudzidzira muchengeti uye muridzi weKubudirira Potty Training, LLC.
Vamwe vabereki vari kutora mupiro wemugove pane imwe nzvimbo itsva nekukanda mapato - kuzadza nekashongedze yekushambidzika, zvipo, uye keke - kuti vadzidzise vana vavo vaduku kudzokera shure uye muimba yekugezera.
Hickey akati aisagona kutaura pamusoro pekubudirira kwemasangano aya; zvisinei, "kana mwana wacho achikurudzirwa nekambani, saka mubayiro mukuru wokudzidza unyanzvi hutsva."
Saka iwe unofanirwa kusvika sei kuisa mwana wako mucheche uye muhari?
Kubatana ndicho chinhu chinokosha.
"Muchengeti anofanira kunge achienderana nechinangwa kuitira kuti mwana adzokere," akadaro Parchman. "Ndinowanzokurudzira vabereki kuti vatevere mitemo yakafanana yavakaita apo mwana wavo akatanga kutanga kushandisa chimbuzi."
Izvi zvinoreva kuti iwe unofanirwa kurwisa chido chekusvika kune mahara.
"[Kudzokera kumashure] kuchaita kuti purogiramu yacho iitwe zvakare," Hickey akati. "Kana iwe ukatanga uye ukarega kudzidziswa, zvichave zvichivhiringidza mwana uye zvinogumbura kumubereki."
Parchman anobvumirana.
"Vana vanocheka vanonyangadza vanovanza manzwiro ekunyorova uye mwana haakwanisi kunzwa manzwiro ezvisikwa uye asinganzwisisiki okuva nenjodzi," akadaro.
Zvimwe zvinonyanya kukosha, usafananidza nekukwira kamwe kamwe mumatambudziko sechiratidzo chokuti mwana wako akanga asina kugadzirira kuva mudzidzi wakadzidziswa .
Chirwere chinongova chiduku chiduku, "akadaro Parchman." Kana mwana wako akabudirira achishandisa chimbuzi vasati vaigona, uye achazozviita, zvakare. "
Kutora matanho mashomanana kumashure mukudzidzira kunogona kunzwa sokunge kutanga kubva kumativi mana, asi usanetseka. Chengetedza hutano hwako uye pakupedzisira, mwana wako wechidiki achadzoka pamugwagwa.