Vana vaduku vanofunga vamwe vachiona uye vachitonga
Izvo "vateereri vanofungidzira" inyore yevechidiki 'uye yekare yekutenda' yekuti boka revateveri variko vanogara vachiona uye vachitonga zvose zvavo. Kutenda kunokonzerwa nepfungwa huru yekuyaruka kwevechiri kuyaruka , iyo vechidiki vanofunga kuti nyika inosangana navo uye kuti wese ari kutarisa maonero avanoita uye zvavanoita. Ichi chikamu chenguva dzose yehutano hwehupfumi mumajaya.
The Imaginary Audience is Watching and Judging
Muitiro wekupedzisira wevechiri kuyaruka anotenda kuti kwose kwaanoenda, munhu wese anenge akapoteredza iye anofarira kwaari sezvaanozviita. Anotendawo kuti vateereri vake vanoramba vachitaura nezvezviito zvake uye maitiro ake. Zvakafanana nokuve munhu akakurumbira-kunze kwekuti hapana ari kutarisa. Izvozvo zvinogona kuita sezvinonzi paranoia, asi inowanzoita chikamu chekukura nekudzidza kushanda munzanga.
Mafungiro evateereri anosiyana nemanzwiro ekuyaruka. Kana iyo iri pakati pemakore kana kuyaruka inonzwa ichizvitsoropodza, anofunga kuti vamwe vachava nekutonga kwakanyanya kwehupenyu hwavo uye maitiro. Kana ari mukunakidza, anofunga kuti vamwe vachave vakafukidzwa zvakafanana nekunaka, nyasha uye maginiti.
Kutenda kwevechiri kuyaruka muvanenge vachifungidzira vanotsanangura zvimwe zvekunakidza kwavo. Kunyange pachedu nguva dzinonzwa uchitaura kwavari. Ichi ndicho chikonzero vechidiki nevakuru gumi nevaviri vanowanzonyadziswa nezviitiko zviduku.
Somuenzaniso, kana baba vachiita jekisa risina chekuita muresitorendi, hazvibatsiri kumwana wechidiki kuti hakuna munhu akavapoteredza aiita seanoteerera, munhu wose acharamba (mune imwe nzira) achiziva.
The Imaginary Audience Chikamu Chinodiwa Chokura
Kuyaruka kwevechiri kuyaruka ndeye chikamu chechigarire chekusimbiswa, kwete chiratidzo chokuti mwana wako achava nhoroondo kana kuti ane paranoia somunhu mukuru.
Vatsvakurudzi vari kuisunga kuti uropi hunozvigadzirisa sei mukati mepakati nepakati pemakore ekuyaruka kuti uve munhu wakakura huropi huropi. Kunzwisisika kune hutano hwevanhu kune chikamu chehuropi uye hutano hunobudirira.
Zvinogona kukuvadza mubereki kuona vechidiki vavo vachichinja shati yake mairi katatu vasati vadzokera kuchikoro, uye zvizhinji zvezvisarudzo zvinenge zvakafanana zvakafanana. Asi izvi ndizvo zvinoitwa nevechiri kuyaruka.
Dzidziso pamusoro peZvirevo Zvevateereri
Izwi rokuti vanofungidzirwa vateereri rakapiwa naDavid Elkind mune pepa muna 1967. Akave neAimaginary Audience Scale. Iko pfungwa yakapinda zvikuru kushandiswa nevepfungwa dzepfungwa. Iko kunobatanidzwa nekunetseka kwevanhu, manzwiro ega uye unhu asi kwete nemaonero chaiwo. Kunyange zvazvo nyanzvi yezvepfungwa dzekuSwitzerland Jean Piaget akafunga kuti vateereri vevanhu vakanga vari muhuhu hwehuduku, zvidzidzo izvi zvakawana kuti yakaramba ichienda kuchikoro chekoroji.
Mafungiro pamusoro pehupenyu hwevechiri kuyaruka anoramba achikura. Munguva yehutano hwemagariro evanhu, vechidiki vanonyanya kuratidzirwa pamigumisiro yega uye yehupenyu hwezvavanoita uye maonero avanoita. Vateereri vepakati vanogona kusimbiswa nevateereri vakawanda vanowedzera iye zvino vanogona kuwana.
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