Madzimai uye Amai Vangafunga Kuti Vanoda Kushwirirana
Munyika yanhasi, pfungwa dzedu pamusoro pebasa rezvemukadzi dzakashandurwa pamisoro yavo. Zvisinei, maitiro akanganisa mufambiro wevanhu kwemazana emakore akawanda achiri mashoma, kunyanya apo nhengo dzezera rekare dzinobatanidzwa. Zvimwe zvemaitiro akare zvinosanganisira ukama pakati paamai navana vavo vakuru. Dzimwe nguva maparamendi anopfuurira kunyange kana vana vakuru vari varume nemadzibaba.
Mudzimai Anopesana neMama Kurwisana
Ukama hwakasimba naamai chiratidzo chemufaro wehupenyu hwakaroorana. Vakadzi vanozivikanwa zvikuru nekukurudzira kunzwisisa kwevana mumwana wavo, uye mwanakomana anoona zvakakwirira mukufunga kwepfungwa zvinogona kunge ari kunyatsonzwisisa mudzimai wake. Murume akadaro anokwanisawo kuramba kurindira maziso.
Kunyange zvazvo achigona kuziva simba raamai, mudzimai anogonawo kupesana pamusoro paamai vamwene vake. Anogona kunge ane godo rukuru rwekuita kweamai mukurarama kwemwanakomana wavo. Nokuda kwechikamu chaamai, paanenge akadzingwa kubva pane zvaanoita semunhu wekutanga mumwanakomana wehupenyu hwake, kukakavadzana nemunhu anonyanya kukanganisa kunopesana kana zvishoma nezvishoma. Murume anonzwa akabatwa mukati anogona kubvuma nekubuda kubva mumunda wehondo, asi kana amai kana mudzimai havabatsiri kana murume uyu ari AWOL. Pamusoro pechinhu ichocho, murume wacho anorasikirwa zvakare.
Apo Amai Vari Voga
Kurwisana kunogona kuwedzera kana vanaamai vakarambana , vafirwa kana vasina kuroorwa.
Dzimwe nguva amai vakanyora mwanakomana wavo murume weimba uye vakavimba naye kune imwe nzira isina kunaka. Uyewo, apo mbuya naambuya vari vaviri vari panzvimbo, vanofarira kuva nemafungiro ekuenzanisa, vachibatsirana kuti vaone kana vari kuyambuka miganhu isingafaniri kuputsika.
Kuramba Uine Kuenzanisa
Zvakanakisisa apo vatori vechikamu vose vanoedza kuchengetedza mararamiro ezvakanaka muhukama hwavo. Ichokwadi kuti mudzimai wemurume anofanira kuuya pakutanga, asi panofanira kuva nenguva uye simba rakasiyiwa nokuda kweamai vake. Uye mudzimai nomukadzi vanofanira kunyatsomira kudzivirira chero mamiriro ezvinhu ayo murume aifanira kusarudza pakati pezviviri. Pamadzimai, izvi zvinoreva:
- Usabvunza mwanakomana wako kuti akuitire zvinhu kana iwe une zvimwe zvinhu kuti uite kuti zviitike - kana, semuenzaniso, unogona kubhadhara mumwe munhu kuti aite.
- Ramba chido chekupa mazano ekugadzirisa zvinetso izvo mwanakomana wako nemudzimai wake vangave nazvo. Vachakura sezvavanosangana nematambudziko pamwechete.
- Edza kubata mwanakomana wako nemudzimai wake zvakaenzana. Taura navo zvose paunodana, kana zvose zviripo. Shandisa zvakaenzana nezvipo zvavo.
- Pachidzidzo chezvipo, nguva dzose unzwisise chero chipo chipi zvacho chaunogamuchira. Usambofa uchingotora chero chinhu kunze kwekunge chiri chekushandura nyore sakaita sehomwe yakasiyana. Kupfeka kana kuratidza zvipo zvaunopiwa.
- Nguva dzose, nguva dzose uzive kuti ndiwe muzukuru uye kwete mubereki wevana vako. Kuteerera mitemo yevabereki uye kuremekedza miganhu yavo.
Vakadzi seKin Keepers
Chirevo chekare chinoti, "Mwanakomana mwanakomana kusvikira awana mudzimai.
Mwanasikana musikana wehupenyu hwake hwose. "Izwi iri rinotsanangura pfungwa yokuti kana vakaroorana vakaroorana, vanowanzochengetedza hukama hwepedyo nechemberi hwemhuri kune imwe, uye kazhinji ndeyemwanasikana. kuti vanasekuru navanamai vanowanzova neukama hwakasimba nevana vakuru uye vazukuru kupfuura vanasekuru vanasekuru vanoita.
Ukama hwepedyo nehanzvadzi naamai vanamai vanogona kuteverwa kune tsika dzevakadzi vanoshumira se "vakachengetedza vakomana." "Muchengeti" wemhuri ndeyemwe munhu anochengetedza ukama nemhuri yemhuri yakakura. Munhu iyeye anowanzova mudzimai kupfuura murume, kunyange munharaunda yanhasi yakasununguka.
Izvozvo zvinoreva kuti mumhuri yemwanakomana, mudzimai anogona kunge ari iye anoronga kadhi yemhuri. Uye nechinangwa kana kuti nenzira isinganzwisisiki, angakundikana kuzivisa vanasekuru nababa vake nezvezviitiko zvemhuri kana, nekungotaura navo nguva shoma, vanozvichengeta kunze kwechikwata. Amai vanogona kutora slack kuburikidza nekutanga kushamwaridzana, asi chinetso chiripo pakuchengetedza musingatauri.
Mirayiro Yokuramba Yakaswedera Pedyo
Kutaurirana nevana vakuru kunoda humwe hutano, asi unyanzvi hunozvidzidzwa. Kazhinji, ramba uchizviyeuchidza iwe uri kutaura nevanhu vakuru. Remekedza ivo sezvamungaita vamwe vechidiki. Yeuka kunyatsoteerera zvavanoda kutaura.
Matafoni ekufonera ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yokuramba ichitaura, asi inofanirwa kunge inofanirwa kunge iri pfupi. Amai havafaniri kudzivisa nguva dzisina kunaka, dzakadai sekudya kwemanheru kana kuti vana vari kurara. Zvechokwadi, haisi pfungwa yakanaka kudana gare gare, apo vabereki vehukama hwepedyo vangangoparadzaniswa! Kana iwe usina mubvunzo pamusoro pokuti inguva yakanaka yekushevedza, edza mharidzo pane. Paunenge uchiridza, zvakanaka kuti ubvunze mibvunzo chaiyo. "Bobby ane mimwe mitambo vhiki ino here?" zviri nani kupfuura "Chii chitsva nevana?"
Kushanyira imwe nzira yekuchengetedza kushamwaridzana, asi inogonawo kuparadza mhuri yakabatana. Amai vanogara pedyo nemhuri yemwanakomana havafanire kushanyira kakawanda, rambai muchishanyira uye musambofa, inodonha. Vanaamai vanogara kure nemwanakomana vanowanzoenda kunoshanyira uye vanotarisira kugara kwenguva yakareba. Kushanyira kwakadaro kunogona kuva kwakanaka kumarudzi ose, asi mutoro uri pamusoro peamai kuti vave muenzi akanaka mumba uye kuchengetedza kushanyira kwakabatana.