Zvinonzi vabereki vanofanira kuziva nezvekudheerera kwekoroji
Vanhu vanowanzotenda kuti kushungurudzwa ibasa rehuduku vana vanozoguma. Ichokwadi, vanhu vakawanda vanofunga kuti vana vavo havazofaniri kutarisana nekudheererwa kana vachingopedza chikoro chesekondari. Asi, kukura nekutsvakurudza kunoratidza kuti vanhu vanodheerera vari kukura uye kupinda muchikoro chekorosi. Kunyange vashandi vanowedzera kudarika chikamu chakanaka chevaruzhinji.
Kutaura zvazviri, kudzvinyirira inhau iyo vanhu vezera rose vanofanira kunge vakagadzirira kubata. Kana iwe uine mudzidzi wekusekondari nezvekupinda kwekoroji, kana wechidiki wechidiki akatova kukoreji, heano zvinhu zvishanu nezvekudheerera kwaunofanira kuziva.
1. Kudheerera hakugoni kuchikoro chesekondari.
Nepo huwandu hwekudheerera huchikwira kuchikoro chepakati uye huchibviswa nechikoro chesekondari, tsvakurudzo itsva inoratidza kuti kudzvinyirira hakugoni kupera zvachose. Kutaura zvazviri, kana vanodzvinyirirwa vasingadzidziswe kutora mhosva yezviito zvavo kana kuti vasina kurangwa nekudzvinyirira vamwe , izvi zvichava muenzaniso wekuita kwavari kunyanya kana zvichivawana migumisiro yavanoda.
Somugumisiro, vabereki vekukoroji vadzidzisi vanoda kukurukura nyaya dzekudheerera nevana vavo kunyange pavanenge vachienda kuchikoroji. Vanofanirawo kuramba vachivaka kuzvikudza , kugutsikana , unyanzvi hwehutano uye unyanzvi hwekutaura kuitira kuti vana vavo vagone kubata zvakanaka nekushungurudza nyaya mukoroji uye gare gare mubasa.
Kuva nechivimbo uye kugutsikana hafu yehondo kana zvasvika pakusimudzira kudzvinyirira .
2. Kuita zvepabonde mukoroji kwave kuwedzera.
Kutsvakurudza kunoratidza kuti kubuda kwepabonde kuri kuwedzera pajijiji. Uye zvakawanda zvekushandura kwekombiyuta kuti vana vekoroji vane ruzivo runotarisana nehukama hwehukama.
Semuenzaniso, kazhinji kurobhuruni inosanganisira makuhwa uye makuhwa , kunyadziswa kwekunyadzisa uye kushungurudza zvepabonde .
Kazhinji vanoremekedzwa vasikana vanozoita semuitiro uyu senzira yekukwira kumadzinza evanhu kana kutyisidzira vamwe vasikana. Vanogonawo kushandisa cyberbullying kudzvinyirira kuda kwavo pamusoro pevakomana vavanoda. Panguva iyi, vakomana vanogona kuvharidzira vamwe vakomana senzira yekuvanyadzisa ivo uye kushandisa simba ravo pachavo. Kana kuti, vanogona kushandisa cyberbullying kuti vatsive mushure mokunge varambwa. Zvechokwadi, kana vadzidzi vachiita sexting izvi izvi zvinovaisa pangozi yakawanda yekutengesa kwepabonde kana slut kunyadzisa kana ukama hwapera.
3. Kuvhota kwekorosi kune zvimwe zvinetso zvakasiyana.
Kusiyana nekudheerera kuchikoro chesekondari uye kuchikoro chesekondari, vadzidzi vakawanda vejijiji vanofanira kutarisana nekudheererwa pasina kubatsirana nemhuri neshamwari dziri pedyo. Vari kurarama pamusasa wemakiromita kubva kumusha. Zvakapfuura, kupukunyuka kwekunyadziswa kwemamiriro okunze kunogona kuva kwakaoma zvikuru mujijiji kunyanya kana munhu anodheerera ari muvakidzani kana dorm mate.
Vadzidzi vekuchikoro vanofanirawo kutarisana nemukana wekutsvaira, izvo zvichiri kuitika pane mamwe makorojiji. Kunyange zvazvo vanhu vakawanda vachifunga nezvehukama uye hutsinye hunobatanidzwa mukufambisa, chero boka rimwe nerimwe rinogona kunge rinopisa tsika dzinosanganisira mitambo yemitambo uye mamwe mapoka emusasa.
Iva nechokwadi chekutaura nemwana wako nezvehungwaru hwekucheka uye kuti ungapindura sei kumitambo yekucheka.
4. Bhuku rinowedzera kuvhota yekorogi rinowanzonzwa sega uye roga.
Migumisiro yekudheeresa yakakosha kune ani zvake anokanganiswa. Asi kutsvakurudza kunoratidza kuti vadzidzi vekorogi vanogona kunzwa vari voga vari voga uye vanyanya kunyanya kana vari vadzidzisi vepunivhesiti. Mumwe mudzidzi wekoljiji anoda denderedzwa rekutsigirwa, asi kuvhiringidzika kwevadzidzi vekoroji vari mune zvakanyanya kudiwa kwekutsigirwa.
Kana mwana wako ari kunetswa payejiji, tora matanho ekudzikisa manzwiro okusurukirwa uye kuparadzana. Somuenzaniso, shanyira mudzidzi wako kana uchikwanisa.
Mukurudzire kuti aite zvimwe zvinhu zvinogona kuita kuti anzwe achibatana nevamwe vanhu. Uye taura nevadzidzisi vemakambani nezvekuwana mwana wako mutungamiri. Shamwari imwe chete kana vaviri vanogona kufamba nenzira yakareba mukugadzirisa pfungwa yekuzviparadzanisa avo vanovhiringidzika vanogona kuwana.
5. Bullied koji yevadzidzi vanowanzoramba vakanyarara pamusoro pokutambudzwa kwavari kuitika.
Vadzidzi vakawanda vekuyunivhesiti vanodheererwa havambotauri ani zvake zvavari kuitika. Kune zvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana zvinoita kuti vanyarare. Chokutanga, kazhinji kacho kuvhiringidzika kunonyadziswa nezvavari kuwana. Kutaura pamusoro pekudheerera kunoda kuti vagoverewo zvinyorwa zvinonyadzisa zvevamwe vanhu vari kutaura kana kuita.
Uyezve, vadzidzi vekukoroji vanogona kunzwa vachinetseka kudarika chikoro chesekondari kana vadzidzi vekusekondari kuti vapindure kudzvinyirira pachavo. Vanotenda kuti iye zvino zvavari kuva vakuru, vanoda kudzidza kugadzirisa nyaya pachavo. Uye kunyange izvi zvichinyatsoitika kune imwe nzvimbo, kudzvinyirira kwakaoma nyaya inowanzodikanwa kutsigirwa uye kupindira. Vabereki vanogona kupa rubatsiro uye ruzivo kunyanya kana kudzvinyirira ivo vari kutarisana kunosanganisira zviito zvinopesana nemutemo.
Shoko Rinobva Mhuri Yakanyanyisa
Kana iwe uchiri kuyaruka uchienda kuchikoro mukuwa kana mudzidzi atoenda kuchikoroji, iva nechokwadi chokuti uri kutaura nezvekudheerera nguva dzose. Teerera zvinyorwa kuti zvinhu zvingasava zvakanaka uye bvunza mibvunzo yakasununguka. Kuchengetedza hurukuro yakasununguka nemudzidzi wako wekoljiji ndeimwe yenhanho dzokutanga yekuita nekorovhesiti kudzvinyirira.
> "Kuvhiringidzika Kwechisimba Pakati Pevadzidzi veChikoro," US National Library Of Medicine, National Institutes of Health, 2013. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3861792/ (March 2018)