5 Mhando dzakasiyana dzekuraira mwana

Dzidza Nezvimwe Zvakasiyana Nefirosofi uye Nyanzvi

Kunyange zvazvo mabhuku matsva ekuberekwa uye nzira dzekuranga vana nguva dzose dziri kuitika, mazhinji 'mazano' ekurera vana ndeechokwadi ari mashoma ezvinyorwa zvishanu zvekuranga. Nyanzvi hadzisi nguva dzose inobvumirana pamusoro pemhando ipi yekuranga iri nani, asi zvakajeka kuti kune zvipo zveumwe neumwe.

Kusarudza kuti ndechipi chirango chakakodzera kuti mhuri yako ive yekusarudza iwe pachako zvichienderana nehutano hwako, unyoro hwemwana wako, uye mhuri yako kuranga mafilosofi. Hakusi rudzi rumwe rwekuranga ruchashandira vana vose kana mhuri dzose uye mumamiriro ezvinhu ose. Zvichida iwe unogona kutora nzira yakashata, uko unoshandisa maitiro mashomanana akasiyana kubva pamhando ipi yekuranga.

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Zvakanaka Kuranga

Kururamisa kwakanaka kunobva pakurumbidzwa nekukurudzirwa. Panzvimbo pokufungisisa kurangwa, vabereki vanoramba vachiita chirango pamusoro pekudzidzisa.

Vabereki vanodzidzisa unyanzvi hwokugadzirisa matambudziko uye vanoshanda nevana vavo kuti vadzidzise mhinduro. Kururamisa kwakanaka kunoshandisa misangano yemhuri uye nzira yakarurama yekugadzirisa matambudziko ehutano.

Muenzaniso: Munhu ane makore matanhatu anoramba kuita basa rake rechikoro.

Mubereki achishandisa chirango chakanaka angagara pasi nemwana ndokuti, "Ndinoziva mudzidzisi wako anoda kuti iwe uwane mapepa ako ematatu anoitwa manheru ano uye iwe hausi kuda kuzviita. Chii chatingaita kuti tiwane pepa iroro kuitira kuti mugokwanisa kuratidzira Mai Smith kuti mune zvose zvamunoita kuchikoro zvakaitwa panguva? "

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Kururamisa Zvinyoro

Kunyoro kuranga kunotarisa mukudzivirira matambudziko. Kusunungurwa kunowanzoshandiswa kurera vana kure nemafambiro akaipa.

Vana vanopiwa mitezo, asi gadziriro yekuranga haisi yekuisa hunyadzisa. Pane kudaro, vabereki vanowanzoshandisa kuseka uye kuvhiringidzika. Chinangwa chekuremekedza chirango ndechokuti vabereki vanogadzirisa manzwiro avo pachavo pavanotaura nezvekusaziva kwemwana.

Muenzaniso: Munhu ane makore matanhatu anoramba kuita basa rake rechikoro.

Mubereki achishandisa chirango chinyoro angapindura nekunakidza achiti, "Ungada here kunyora pepa pejiji maviri kumudzidzisi wako achitsanangura kuti sei iwe usina kuda kuita math yako manheru ano?" Kana mamiriro acho akaparadzana, kupa kuti utarise mapepa emasvomere pamwe chete nemwana kuti ukurukure kuzviita.

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Chikamu-Yakadzidziswa Kurangwa

Boundary-based discipline inotarisa kuisa miganhu uye kuita kuti mitemo ijekese mberi. Vana vanobva vapiwa sarudzo uye kune migumisiro yakajeka yekusateerera kwemitemo, zvakadai semigumisiro inonzwisisika kana migumisiro yemagariro .

Muenzaniso: Munhu ane makore matanhatu anoramba kuita basa rake rechikoro.

Mubereki achishandisa muganhu-based discipline angaronga muganhu uye anoita kuti mugumisiro ujekeswe nokutaura, "Iwe haugoni kushandisa chero yako yehudhiyuta manheru ano kusvikira basa rako rapera."

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Maitiro ekuchinja

Kuchinja maitiro kunotarisa pamigumisiro yakanaka uye yakaipa. Maitiro akanaka anotsigirwa nekurumbidzwa kana mubayiro . Kusava nemafungiro kunoodzwa kuburikidza nekushandiswa kwekuregererwa uye nemigumisiro yakaipa, sekurasikirwa kwekodzero.

Muenzaniso: Munhu ane makore matanhatu anoramba kuita basa rake rechikoro.

Mubereki anoshandisa maitiro ekuchinja anogona kukuyeuchidza mwana wezvipi zvipi zvakarongwa zvakarongwa kare zviripo nekuti, "Yeuka, kana wawana basa rako rechikoro, unozoshandisa kombiyuta kwemaminitsi makumi matatu." Kurumbidzwa kwaizopiwa kana mwana akasarudza kuteerera . Mubereki aisazvidza mhirizhonga ipi neipi.

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Emotion Coaching

Kushungurudzika kudzidzisa ndechirongwa chechishanu chirango chinonyanya kuisa pakudzidzisa vana nezvekunzwa . Apo vana vanonzwisisa manzwiro avo, vanogona kuvavhiringidza ivo pane kuvashandisa. Vana vanodzidziswa kuti manzwiro avo akanaka uye vabereki vanovabatsira kudzidzisa nzira dzakakodzera dzokubata nadzo manzwiro avo.

Muenzaniso: Munhu ane makore matanhatu anoramba kuita basa rake rechikoro.

Mubereki achishandisa manzwiro ekudzidzisa anogona kunge akaedza kubatsira mwana kuziva manzwiro achiti, "Ndinoziva zvinokusuruvarisa kuti haukwanise kutamba usiku hwose nokuti iwe unofanira kuita basa rako rechikoro. Matati anogona kuva akaoma dzimwe nguva zvakare uye anoita kuti uwedzere kushungurudzika kana iwe usingazivi mhinduro kana kuti inotora nguva yakareba chaizvo. Ngatitorei maminitsi mashomanana tora mufananidzo wekuti unonzwa sei kana yava nguva yekuita basa rako rechikoro. "

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