Kuramba kunoramba kwe "Moooom! Ndine shungu! "Zvakakwana kuita kuti mubereki asvinudze maziso uye awedzere kushungurudzika. Zvose zvaunoda kuita ndeyokupedzera kudya kwemanheru kana kuwana pamba pamba purojekiti yakaitwa, uye vana vako vose vanoda kuti iwe uuye nebasa rekuvaraidza.
Iwe uri mubereki akaipa kana iwe uchiita kuti varove kusurukirwa pachavo voga here? Aiwa-chokwadi, iwe hauna kupesana.
Kudzidza kurwisa kusuruvara uye kuwana nzira dzekuwana nguva isingazivikanwi ndeyechokwadi unyanzvi hwehupenyu hunokosha hwevana kuti vazive.
Zvakakosha kuti vana vazive kuti kunyange zvazvo kusuruvara kusinganzwisisiki, hazvizovauraya. Uye kunzwa kusuruvara ichokwadi chehupenyu. Pashure pezvose, vanhu vakuru vanonzwa vachinetseka dzimwe nguva zvakare. Kugara nemitambo yematambo uye zvinyorwa zvekutamba hazvisi nguva dzose zvinonakidza. Asi kudzidza kudzivirira kushushikana nenzira inogamuchirwa nevanhu kunokosha.
Pasina kudzidza kupedzisira kuora mwoyo, vana vachave nenguva yakaoma kuwana chimwe chinhu chinonakidza-uye icho chave chiratidzwa kutungamira kunodhaka zvisina kunaka, tsika dzepabonde risingaiti, zvinetso zvedzidzo, uye kuparadza. Izvozvo zvinonzwika zvakanyanya kudarika sekutya-mongering here?
Zvakanaka, saka funga izvi-vana vasina kupiwa mukana wekuwana nguva isina kusimbiswa vane mikana shoma yokugadzira, kudzidza kugadzirisa matambudziko , nekuvandudza unyanzvi hwekukurudzira.
Iyi nguva isingazivikanwi apo vana vanodzidza kuongorora zvido zvavo, vasingabatsiri kana mazano. Vachawana kana vachida kukumba mubindu kana kutamba-gara-up.
Asi, pane dzimwe nguva apo vana vachangobva kuve vasina kukwanisa kuwana zvivaraidzo ivo pachavo. Sekuedza sezvazvingave, mhinduro yekusuruvara haisi TV kana iPad nguva .
Kana izvi zviri izvo, taura zvishomanana tambo yako sleeve kubvisa kusuruvara pasina iwe kurasa zvamauri kuita kuti ufare vana.
Batsira Mwana Wako Kuti Ateerere Kubata
Dzidzisa mwana wako kuti zvakakosha kunzwa manzwiro asinganzwisisiki uye dzimwe nguva, (s) angave achingofanira kushivirira kunzwa saizvozvo nokuti hazvina kukodzera kuita chimwe chinhu. Paanenge achitenga newe kana kuti iwe uri kutaura nemumwe munhu mukuru, kuora mwoyo kwakanaka.
Tsanangura kuti pane nzira dzakanaka dzekutarisana nemanzwiro ekudada. Kuverenga akanyarara mumusoro wake kana kuumba rwiyo rutsva-chero bedzi achiimba mazwi mumusoro wake-ari akakodzera mumagariro.
Asi kukuvhiringidza iwe paunenge uchitaura nemakaniki ako kana kuputira pairaibhurari pasi apo iye akamirira kuti uwane bhuku harina kunaka. Ita mitemo yakajeka uye uite maererano nemigumisiro kana (s) iye aputsa mitemo iyoyo.
Ipa Mwana Wako Zvishandiso Zvokuzvivaraidza
Usafadza mwana wako nguva dzose nguva yaanosema. Kana zvisina kudaro, iwe uri kutora mutoro wekurapa kusuruvara kwake.
Asi, itai pfungwa dzinogona kumubatsira kana kuti kuzvifadza iye pachake. Pasinei nokuti uri kumirira kudya kwako muresitorendi, kana ari kutambura kuti awane chimwe chinhu chingaita pane zuva remvura, dzidzidzire kuti angagadzirisa sei kusuruvara zvinobudirira.
Vana vaduku vana vanoda maoko mazhinji-kubatsirwa kana zvasvika pakuwana varaidzo. Asi apo mwana wako akura, (a) anofanira kunge asingakwanisi kuvimba newe kuti abatsirwe kubvisa kusuruvara kwake.
Saka, tora mwana wako "Ndaneta!" Mukana wekudzidza. Mpei zvishandiso uye mazano ayo achamubatsira kuwana nzira dzokuzvifadza ivo munguva yemberi.
Gadzira "Ndine Bored" Jar
Uyu muparter maviri: Nenguva yokutanga mwana wako anotaura kuti "Ndine shungu!" Ngaaite kuti agadzire chirongo. Izvi zvinosanganisira kuita zvishoma zvigadzirwa zvekushongedza chirongo uye zvino kuuya nemafungiro okuisa mairi. Nguva inotevera kana iye achinetseka, iye anogona kutora pfungwa kubva muhari.
Dzimwe pfungwa dzinogona kusanganisira:
- Nyora tsamba kuna vanasekuru, vazukuru kana munun'una
- Vaka dzimba nehombodo nemiseve
- Iva nekambambo yekutamba
- Tsvaga magnetti uye wobva waita runyoro rwevanhu vose vari mumba iyo yakagadzirwa magnetized
- Shambai imbwa
- Nyora pasi zvinhu zvishanu zvaunoda pamusoro pemumwe nomumwe mumhuri
- Ita ndege yemapuranga inofamba seri kwemashure
- Dharira kutora mureza
- Vaka imba yakasimba nebhokisi
- Nyora nyaya
- Gadzira zoo yezvipfuwo zvako zvakagadzirwa
- Ita collage nemifananidzo yemagazini
- Gadzira tsamba yemhuri kutumira kune vanun'una
- Ita shiri shiri zvokudya
- Rongai zvipfeko zvavo nemuvara
- Ivai nemhuka yakasungirirwa yepati iyo
Bvisai Zvigadzirwa zveChift
Mishonga yemaitiro inogonawo kuva nzira yakanaka yekuchengeta mwana wako kubva mumatambudziko kana uri kushanda kubva kumba . Chengetedza tswanda yakazadzwa nemagetsi pawakagadzirira, saka iwe unogona kuikwevera kunze apo kusuruvara kunouraya. Muchikwata ichi, chengetedza izvi zvinokosha:
- Markers / crayons
- Pepa rokuvaka / cardstock
- Chigero
- Glue
- Matampu neinki
- Cotton balls, mabhokoni, uye mamwe embellishments
- Magazini ekare
Cherechedza zvinhu zviviri zvakajeka zvisingabviri kubva pane zvakanyorwa: glitter uye pende! Idzi ndidzo mbiri huru-vanoita uye vanogona kuponeswa kwemazuva anokosha ekugadzira newe.
Apo mwana wako muduku achitsvaga kuti ashushike, tambanudza kunze kwedengu uye uise patafura yekicheni. Ipa mwana wako rusununguko kuti ape pende, akacheka kana kudonhedzera kusvika mumoyo make. Kana (a) aine zvishoma zvishoma, kumupa iye basa, sekuti, "Ita Amai vako kadhi," kana kuti "Itai gurufuru mumabhatani."
Rambai paMuchengeti Wokutsvaga
Chinokosha chekushanda ichi ndechekuita mhuka yekuvhima mashizha akagadzirira kare. Paunenge uchirasika, tanga mashoma mashoma ekuvhima mapepa maviri mukati meku (kwemazuva emvura) uye kunze. Kana kusuruvara kuchirova, iwe uchava nebasa rakaoma rinochengetedza vana kubva bvudzi rako kwemaminitsi makumi matatu kana kupfuura!
Kana iwe uine kamera yekare yekamera-kana mwana wako ane chipikisi chemagetsi nekhamera uye chinyamusi chekuvhima chinogona kufara. Ingoita zvinyorwa zvezvinhu zvekuti mwana wako awane, seguruvara, chimwe chinhu chitsvuku, uye dombo rinoratidzika semwoyo.
Verenga bhuku
Rongedza rwendo kuenda kuraibhurari vhiki imwe neimwe, uye mwana wako haazomboti zvakare "haana chaanoita." Itai kuti rudo rwekudzidza ruvepo, uye iye angangodaro achishandura bhuku kana (a) anonzwa achisuwa. Kana iwe ukaitika kuti unzwe mashoko iwayo achibuda mumuromo make, vaudze iye kuti ndiyo nguva yekuverenga uye (iye) ane chisarudzo chebhuku chero ripi zvaro mumba.
Regai Iye Kana Kuti Aibatsire
Kana uine mabasa ekuita, sanganisira muduku wako mubasa racho. Kunyange zvazvo zvingagumisa kuita mabasa epamba achitora kaviri kana kwenguva refu, iwe uri kudzidzisa kiddo yako kuti upfeke zvipfeko, kushambidza mahwindo uye kupisa pasi.
Kana uri kuita chimwe chinhu icho mwana wako asingakwanisi kubatsira nacho, zvakadai sekugadzira kudya kwepamusoro chekutorera, kumupa imwe nzira yakachengeteka, kufanana nekuchenesa kicheni pasi.
Gadzirira Kuita
Kana iwe uine mwana anoda kuve ari pakatarisa, kumubvunza kuti agadzirire kushanda kwako. Vanogona kupinda muimba yavo uye vashande nenziyo, setambo yejokes, kana chiitiko chekudamba.
Rongedzera tarenda kuratidza kweawa, saka une nguva yekupedzisa zvauri kushanda uye (kana) achava nenguva yekuita basa rake. Zvadaro, fungisisa zvose matarenda emwana wako-usakanganwa kuinyora!
Dzimwe nguva, mwana haasi iyeye akaora mwoyo, asi zvinoda kuti iwe unzwe. Kana iwe uchikwanisa kuzvichengetedza, rega zvaunenge uchiita kwemaminitsi mashanu kusvika ku10 kupa mwana wako muduku kunyatsoteerera, kunyangwe kutamba mutambo mutsva kana kungotaura nezvezuva rake. Kunyatsoteerera kungatora nzira yakareba yekubatsira mwana wako kuzvichengeta pachake.
Sources:
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