"Tipei naAmbuya nakurukuru kukumbiranai!" Ndiyo mashoko anotaurwa nguva dzose mumisha yemhuri dzakawanda. Asi pane chikonzero chakanaka iwe usingadi kutaurira mwana wako kukumbundira kana kutsvoda chero ani-kusanganisira hama.
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Apo iwe unopa mwana wako mazano , sekuti, "Tora zvidhori," uri kureva kuti pachava nemigumisiro yakaipa kana asingateereri.
Iwe uri kunyanya kuudza mwana wako kuti zvisinei nokuti anonzwa sei, zvakakosha kuita zvaunotaura.
Saka kana iwe uchiti "pfugama uye kutsvoda," iwe unoreva kuti kuchava nemigumisiro yakaipa kana asingaiti zvaunotaura. Zvakafanana nokutaura, "Handina hanya kana iwe uchinakidzwa nazvo kana kwete, kuratidza rudo chero zvakadaro."
Kana mwana akanzwa achimanikidzwa kuratidzira rudo, anowana mharidzo yokuti haasi kutonga muviri wake. Uye iyo ishoko rinotyisa revana kuti vagamuchire.
Vana vanofunga kuti vanoda kubvumirana nevakuru vakukumbira rudo vanowanzoshungurudzwa zvepabonde.
Kana mwana akaudzwa nemhondi kuti aite chimwe chinhu asingasununguri kuita, angave akanzwa achifanira kuita. Asi, mwana uyo akadzidziswa, "Imuviri wako uye iwe unotanga kutaura kuti kwete kune zvinhu zvausingadi kuita," zvinowanzoita kuti ukwanise kurega kwete kana mumwe munhu akamukumbira kuti aite chimwe chinhu asingasununguri kuita .
Tumai Mharidzo Yakapfurikidza NezveMwana Wemwana Wenyu
Apo iwe unodzidzisa mwana ane kodzero yekuzvisarudzira kana achida kuti mumwe munhu amuyeke, kana kuti anoda kuti agare pamubhedha wemumwe munhu, zvinomuratidza kuti anogona kuita izvo zvisarudzo zvichienderana nehutano hwake huno.
Ita mutemo weimba unoti hapana munhu anofanira kutaurirana nemumwe munhu-kusanganisira hama-kana vasingadi.
Ita zvakajeka kumwana wako kuti haafaniri kuratidza rudo rwemuviri kuti afadze mumwe munhu. Nemhaka yokuti mumwe munhu anoedza kupa mhosva mwana pakupa kukumbirisa, hazvirevi kuti anofanira kuzviita.
Saka kana mbuya vanoti, "Ndakupa chipo nhasi uyai ndipei kutsvoda zvakanaka kuti mundiratidze kuti makafarira sei!" kana babamunini vanoti, "Handingakuregi iwe uine cookie kunze kwokuti iwe unondipa musungo wokutanga," pinda mukati uye unyeuchidze mwana wako kuti haafaniri kuzviita.
Dzidzisa mwana wako, "Iwe uri mutariri wemuviri wako uye unohubata." Ndiyo mharidzo iyo inokosha yemharidzo yevana kuti vatakure navo muupenyu hwavo hwose.
Mwana wako achave akachengetedzwa zvakanakisisa kuti arwise zvekuita zvepabonde mushure mehupenyu apo anoramba kubvumira vamwe kumutadzira kuti ave mutano. Hapana chikonzero chekuratidzira rudo nokuti mumwe munhu anomanikidza, "Zvichakuvadza manzwiro angu kana iwe usingaiti," kana kuti "Ndeye tsika dzakanaka kutsvoda vanhu vakuru vanokumbira kutsvoda."
Mapurisa Kukwazisa uye Kupatsanura
Vabereki vakawanda vanonetseka kuti kupa mumwe munhu kukumbirisa kuchaonekwa sekusava nehanya. Nokudaro, vanotaura zvinhu zvakadai, "Asi Amainini Trudy vanongoshanyira kamwe kamwe pagore. Chinhu chiduku chaunogona kuita ndechokumusunungura! "Asi muchokwadi, kazhinji kacho vana vanoona mumwe munhu, hutano hwakanaka kuti vave vashoma vasina rudo.
Edza kutaura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Ungada here kupa Ambuya Billy chikumbaridzo asati abva?" Kana mwana wako achiramba, usamanikidza.
Iwe unogona kubvunza chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Ungada kumupa iye akakwirira mashanu pane nzvimbo here?" Asi ita kuti zvive pachena kuti zvakakodzera kumira.
Kana hama yako ichiti, "Ndipei chikumbaridzo!" Uye mwana wako zvakajeka haafariri, anopindira achiti, "Ungada here kukumbira kana iwe unofarira kungozorora?" Unogona kudikanwa kudzidzisa shamwari dzako, nhengo dzemhuri, uye vamwe vaenzi kuti iwe haumanikidze mwana wako kuti ave nenyama.
Dzidzisai mwana wenyu kuti kusvetana maoko inosarudzo paunosangana nevanhu vatsva.
Taura pamusoro pekuti zvingave zvakafanira sei kuisa maoko paunosangana mudzidzisi mutsva wepayiri kana kana ukakwazisa mutungamiri mutsva.
Tsanangura kuti zvikwiriso zvakakwirira senzira yakakodzera yekubatana nevakokoro kana vadzidzisi zvakare. Asi taura zvakajeka kuti haazomborangarirwi nekusarudza kusava nekutarisana nevamwe.
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