Kubva pakubvunzurudzwa kwakaitwa naDkt. John Demartini:
I "Technology Technology": Pane imwe pfungwa apo teknolojia yakawanda inogadzirisa mwana ane ruzivo rwekudzidza uye inobva pakubatsira kubatsira mwana here?
Teknolojia haisi yakanaka kana yakaipa. Hazvisi zvematongerwe enyika uye zvigumisiro zvayo zvinoenderana nekuti zvinoshandiswa sei uye zvinonzwisisika. Teknolojia yakauya kuzotibatsira nekuzadzika kwatinokoshesa, "kuguma kwedu mupfungwa," kana "telos" yedu.
Kodhiyanje yedu yakauya kuzotibatsira kuti tizadzise tereology yedu. Yakava nzira yekuguma uye hukuru hwedu hwepamusoro kana telos yakava kuguma kwedu mupfungwa. Kana tikaona kuti teknolojia yepamusoro inotsigira zvakakosha zvikuru, tinozviti yakanaka. Kana tikaona kuti teknolojia yepamusoro inoshungurudza zvatinonyanya kukoshesa, tinozviti yakaipa. Dzimwe mishonga inobvumira vana vedu kuti varege kuisa pfungwa pazvinhu zvishoma zvakakosha kuitira kuti vagone kuramba vachigadzira uye vanogona kupa zvakakosha. Dzimwe mishonga inogona kuvhiringidza vana vedu kubva pakuziva hupenyu hwavo. Asi izvi zvisarudzo zvinokoshawo zvakagadzirirwa uye munhu mumwe nomumwe achava nemaonero akasiyana zvakasiyana nezvehuwandu uye hutano hwekombiyuta imwe neimwe. Saka, pakupedzisira magetsi haasi akanaka kana akaipa kusvikira tasarudza kuzviita saizvozvo.
Mumwe amai vakatonga mwanakomana wavo nokuda kwekupedza nguva yake pa "firimu yemakombiyuta nemavhidhiyo zuva rese" apo ane makore 16. Zvisinei, makore manomwe gare gare paakanga ari mushandi weBIM IT wakabhadharwa achiita mari yakawanda kupfuura iye, akadzorera kutonga kwake uye akawedzeredza maonero ake ekukosha kwezvaakamborambidza uye aikoshesa kushanda nesimba kwemwanakomana wake.
Kuchenjera kuisa maitiro edu zuva rega rega kuti tiwedzere kuzvidzora kwedu uye kuti tibudirire kuzadzisa zvatinotarisira. Teknolojia iri pano kuti igare. Icho chakanaka kwatiri isu tose tichiziva chinangwa chayo uye tinoshandisa zvakaenzana nekuchenjera.
Kurarama humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe hunodiwa nevanhu vose, asi hunova basa rakaoma kune vabereki vakawanda vanokura vana vane zvinodiwa zvakasiyana. Vabereki vanowanzoshungurudzika nekuchengetedza kwezuva nezuva kwevana vane hurema uye vanopa zvakawanda zvekufunga kwavo nesimba pamusoro pevana vavo, pavanotarisana nehupenyu hwavo hwakanaka. Ndeapi mazano aungapa kuvabereki avo vari kutambura kuwana hutano muhupenyu hwavo nehupenyu hwavo pachavo, vachitarisira zvinodiwa nemwana wavo?
Vana vedu vanogona kutaurira patakaviga manzwiro uye kuvhiringidzika kana patinenge tichizvipira isu toga tatanga kuzvishuva. Zvakakosha kuita rondedzero yezvose zvatinoita nokuda kwezvatinoda mwana uye tive nechokwadi chokuti tiri kunyatsoita zvinonyanya kukosha, zvinobudirira uye munguva yakareba kutarisira. Kunyatsogadzirirwa mumabasa epasi pekutanga kana mabasa anotarisana nevana vedu hazvina kuchenjera. Kuvadzidzisa nzira yekuisa hupenyu hwavo hukuru kuburikidza nekuva muenzaniso wehupenyu hwakanaka huchenjeri. Kugovera izvo zvinogona kugoverwa uye kubata vana vedu nekuzvidavirira zvakanyanya sezvinobvira kutarisira kwenguva refu. Kana iwe uchikwanisa kubereka zvakawanda nekushanda, kupfuura mari yekuita zvinhu zvishoma pasi pekuita kumba, zvino zvakakosha kushanda uye kupa mvumo yezviito izvi. Izvi zvinobvumira nguva yakanakisisa yevabereki nevana. Kubata mwana wako zvakanakisisa pazvinhu uye kupa mubayiro kukura kwevhiki nevhiki kunogona kusimbisa kukurumidza kwekuzvidzivirira kwavo. Hazvina kuchenjera kumwana wekwanisi uye kubudirira kwavanogona. Kupisa kunze kwekuita zviito zvekutanga kunoshanda kune vabereki nevese. Kuvimbika semubereki ane tarisiro kunogona kudzivisa kupisa uye kutsamwa kana kuzvidemba.
Ndeapi mazano aungapa kune vana vane ruzivo rwekudzidza vanorwisana nechikoro uye vanorasikirwa nechinangwa chokubudirira? Vaizogona sei kuchinja maitiro avo / maonero pamusoro pavo uye kuzadzika kuzadzika muupenyu hwavo hwose?
Chero chipi zvacho icho vana vasingakwanisi kuona vachivabatsira kuti vazadzise mararamiro avo akakwirira ivo vachadziviswa kubva (ADD). Asi chero chavanoona se "vari munzira" uye kwete "munzira" ivo vachagumburwa uye vanodzidza nomwoyo wose (ASO). Nokubatanidza chero zvipi zvese vana vanofanira kudzidza kumatatu avo akakwirira zvikuru isu tinogona kumutsa kusabatanidzwa kwavo. Itai kuti vazvibvunze, "Kunyatsodzidza sei nyaya iyi, kirasi kana chimwe chinhu chinovabatsira kuti vazadzise hutatu hwavo hwepamusoro-soro kana chero chipi zvacho chinokosha zvikuru." Kuwanda kwemashoko kana hutano hunoonekwa uye hwakanyorwa, hukuru hwekubatana uye kubatanidzwa mukudzidza kana mukirasi.
Kunyanya nenyaya ipi neipi yakabatanidzwa zvakakwana nechepamusoro-soro yemwana wedu, kunyanya ivo vachawana, kuchengeta nekushandisa izvo zvavakadzidza.
Vana vanobatanidzwa zvizere mukudzidza izvo zvinokosha zvikuru kwavari. Vanoda kutarisana nemutambo wemuchina unotevera wakaoma kana ukasvika pamusika pavanoda mitambo yemavhidhiyo. Saka, taurirana zvinhu zvose zvavanoda kuti vadzidze kune zvavanokoshesa zvikuru uye tarisa maitiro avo evanhu vanobva vabuda. Mimwe yemitemo yevana vedu iri kuchinja kuburikidza nenguva. Makumi gumi nemakumi emamwe emitemo yevana vedu zvishoma nezvishoma zvinoshanduka. Iyo yakawanda inobatsira yatinosangana nayo kana kuvhara maererano neimwe yemafungiro avo chaiwo, yakakwirira iyo inomuka pahukuru hwavo hwehutsika. Zvimwe zvipingamupinyi zvatinoshamwaridzana nazvo kana kuvhara maererano nezvimwe zvehutano hwavo, hwezasi huchawa pahukuru hwavo hwehutsika. Nokubvunza mibvunzo pamusoro pezvibatsiro kana kukanganisa kwechimwe chinhu chinokosha chatinogona kuitarisa pahurumende yavo yehutsika. Kuchenjera kana kuita zvatinoda kuburikidza nekupa zviito zvakaderera mberi kana kuda zvatinoshandisa nekubatanidza nekushandura mararamiro ekufananidza zvatinoda kuita, kana kudzidza.
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