Chizvarwa chimwe nechimwe chevabereki chinokura chiratidzo chekurera vana. Kunyange zvazvo pasina tsanangudzo inogona kuvhara mubereki wese, zvechokwadi, maitiro akare anokanganisa maitiro emubereki anosanganisira:
- Makore e1950 : Mhuri yevakuru-centric, iyo vana vaiva chikamu chemhuri, asi kwete chinangwa chemhuri. Vakuru nevana vairarama upenyu hwakafanana, nevabereki vachitaurirana nevana kuti varange uye vadzidze zvidzidzo. Vana vakatumirwa kunotamba ivo pachavo.
- Ma1960 : Kuenderera mberi kwema1950, nekutamira kune zvimwe zvekubvumira uye kugadzirisa. Sezvo nyika yakatanga kukura yakawanda yakajeka, ndizvo zvakaita vabereki.
- 1970s-1980 s: Sezvo kurambana kwakava kwakawanda uye vakadzi vakapinda mubasa, vana vakatanga kutora mamwe mabasa ehupenyu hwavo uye zuva nezuva. Vana veLatchkey vakave vakawanda, uye amai vomukati, nemukaka nemakeke vakamirira chikoro, vakava vashoma.
- 1990s- 2000 : Helicoptering , over-schedule , kutya pamusoro pekuchengeteka - vabereki vakawedzera kupinda muhupenyu hwevana vavo, kubvira mangwanani kusvika panguva yekurara kupfuura kare.
Vabereki vemakore gumi vanoitei zvakasiyana kubva kune avo mumakore apfuura?
Makore Ane Chiuru Akamirira Kubvira Kutanga Mhuri
Nokuda kwezvikonzero zvakawanda, kusanganisira zvipingamupinyi zvemari, zvisarudzo zvebasa, wanderlust nezvimwe, vechidiki vari kumirira nguva refu kuti vave nevana kupfuura chizvarwa chipi nechipi chavari mberi kwavo.
Kuwana kuvimba kwekuvimbika kwakawedzerwa, pamwe nekusarudza kwekuti nguva yekutanga mhuri kwakabatsira sei kukwidza makore emakore ekutanga. Muna 2015, avhareji yemakore mukadzi aiva nemwana wake wekutanga aiva 28, maererano neCDC. Enzanisa izvozvo kusvika muna 1990, apo muvhareji wemakore ekutanga amai vaiva nemakore makumi maviri nemaviri, uye zvakajeka kuti nguva iyo vabereki vanovamba kuri kukwira.
Vabereki Vanogovera A Lot On Social Media
Zvemagariro ezvemagariro chikamu chehupenyu hwevanhu vose, asi zvichida hapana kana vabereki vakawanda vevana vaduku. Kubva kune mwanakomana wokutanga kusvika kuchikoro chesekondari, vabereki vakawanda muna 2010 havana kunyara - kana kupesana-pamusoro pekugovana upenyu hwevana vavo paIndaneti. Vana makumi masere nezana kubva muzana veMillennial vabereki vakagovana zvifananidzo zvevana vavo pamagariro evanhu, vachienzanisa ne 47% yevabereki veBomber Boomers. Kurera vana mabhuku, izvo zvakatanga mumavambo ekutanga kwema2000, zviri iko kwose kwose, zvichifukidza nyaya dzese kubva pakubata-kurara kuenda kumhuri kuenda. Vabereki vanoshandisa shanduro dzevanhu senzira yekukurukura nemhuri, apo zvizvarwa zvekare zvevabereki vaizofonera foni uye kutumira mafoto kune hama dziri kure.
Urongwa hwemhuri Hwakasununguka kune Tsanangudzo
Vabereki vari voga uye vabereki veGLBTQ vari kuchinja pfungwa yekuti mhuri yemararamiro inoratidzika sei mune mireniyumu itsva.
Semuyenzaniso:
Vakaroorana vanotora 68% yevabereki muzana ramakore rechi21, vachienzanisa ne 93% muma1950.
Maererano neCensus.gov , pakati pemamiriyoni maviri uye 3.7 mamiriyoni evana vane makore pasi pemakumi mapfumbamwe nemasere vane mubereki weLGBTQ, uye vanenge 200 000 vavo vari kukurudzirwa nemurume nemudzimai mumwe chete. Vakawanda vevana ava vari kurerwa nemumwe mubereki weBLBBQ kana mumwe murume nemudzimai vakasiyana-siyana apo mumwe mubereki ari murume nemudzimai.
Vakadzi vakawanda vari kusarudza kuva vabereki vasina vabereki gore negore. Pane imwe chete yevakadzi varombo nevakadzi vashoma, izvi zvinenge zvisingaoneki zvishoma nezvishoma, sezvo kushorwa kwekuva amai vasina kuroorwa kwakatsiviwa nechisarudzo chevakadzi kuti vave nevana pachavo.
Mazita Akasiyana-siyana Ndiwo Norm
Baby Boomers vaida kutumidza vana vavo kuti vazobatana nevamwe vana, zvichiita kuti dzimba dzizere naKarens, Lisas, Michaels, uye Stevens. Mazita akasiyana-siyana akanga asina kufanana kusvikira munguva pfupi yapfuura. Mireniyumu, avo sekutonga kufanana nekuita zvinhu nenzira yavo pachavo, vari kuwana mazita asina kujairika, akasiyana uye akasiyana-siyana evana vavo, vachitungamirira kuna vanasekuru navanasekuru vakadzidza kuchengeta maonero avo pachavo uye vadzidzisi vekirasi avo vanogona kufungidzira pahutano hwemwana zuva rekutanga risati rasvika.
Mazano ekurera vana
Mireniyadhi ane ruzivo rwakakura rwemhando yekutsvaga pamusoro pemazano ekurera, nekuda kwekwenyuta, nhepfenyuro yehupfumi uye kushamwaridzana kwemazuva ekutumira mameseji. Kusiyana nevabereki vavo, avo vakavimba nedzimwe nyanzvi dzakadai saDkt. Spock naT. Berry Brazelton kuti vabatsirwe mazano kupfuura avo vamadzi nababa vavo, Millennials vanogona-uye-kutsvaga nyanzvi munharaunda yese yekurera vana, kuunganidza ruzivo kubva kune zvose zviripo uye vanyatsoziva. Hapana kuguma kwehuwandu hwemazano aripo, asi savvy Millennials vanogona kukonzera izvo zvinoshanda kune vana vavo uye zvisingaiti, uyewo zvinogona kupa mazano kuvabereki vatsva kana nguva inosvika. Nevanhu vakawanda vari kusanganisira mapoka e-Facebook, Instagram hashtag uye nezvimwe, Millennials vane nzira dzakawanda dzekudzidza pamusoro penzira yakanakisisa yokurera vana vavo.
Zvimwe Mhuri Nguva
Izvo zvingasave zvisinganzwisisiki, zvichipiwa kuti 46% yevabereki veMillennial muna 2010 vose vari mubasa rekushanda, vs. 31% muna 1970, asi Millennials inopedza nguva yakawanda kudarika chizvarwa chekare nevana vavo. Vanababa, kunyanya, vari kushandisa nguva yakawanda - maminitsi 59 pazuva - nevana vavo kupfuura vanababa vakapedza nevana vavo muma1960, pavakapedza maminitsi gumi nemaviri masikati pazuva vakashandisa vabereki.
Kuzvipira kune hurongwa hwakarongeka hwekuti zviuru zveMireniyadhi vane mabasa evana vavo zvinoreva kuti vabereki vanowanzova nevana vavo, kubva kuna amai naamai zvidzidzo zvevana vaduku kuchikoro chemashure mushure mechikoro apo maamai nebaba vanozvipira sevadzidzi. Mabasa mazhinji haasi kungova nevana chete asi nezvevabereki, pamwe chete. Kunyange zvazvo kudya kwemhuri kumativi etafura yekudyira hakuna kufanana sezvaimbove, vabereki vari kupedza nguva yakawanda nevana vavo mune dzimwe nzira. Pane chikoro chekuchengetedza, gorojiols kuendesa, uye dzimwe nzira dzakawanda vabereki vanononoka nenguva pamwe chete nemhuri dzavo.
Nevamwe vanhu vari kushanda kubva kumba, vabereki vanowanikwa nyore nyore pamabasa epanguva pfupi, kuzvipira, uye mabasa echikoro. Vabereki veMireniyamu vanonyanya kutarisa vana kupfuura vabereki mumakumi emakumi apfuura, uye ndizvo zvavanofarira.