Nyanzvi dzinopa ruzivo rwavo runokosha rwekurera vana
Kune mawebsite akawanda, mabhuku uye zvikwereti zvinopa maonero akasiyana pamusoro pekurangwa izvo zvinogona kunzwa zvakanyanya. Apo uri kuedza kugadzirisa zvinetso zvehutano hwemwana wako, zvakakosha kutsvaka ruzivo rwakakosha runobva pamagadzirirwo akanaka ekurera vana.
Kuti ikubatsire kuwana mhinduro pamusoro pemishonga yekuraira inoshanda zvakanakisisa, nyanzvi gumi dzekubereka vana dzakapa mazano avo anokosha ekurera vana.
Hezvino zvavaifanira kutaura:
1. Zvakanaka Kuti Mwana Wako Ave Madhim Kwauri
"Iva mubereki, kwete shamwari. Izvi zvinoreva kuti iwe haugoni kutya kuti uve munhu akaipa. Mwana wako angave akatsamwa newe dzimwe nguva. Gadzirisana nazvo. Izvo zvinoshandiswa ndezvokuva nemwana akarereka. Regai akundiwe dzimwe nguva. Kana iwe usingaiti, iwe unotarisira sei kuti aongodzidza maitiro ekutarisana nehupenyu hwepamusoro uye pasi? Hapana anobudirira pazvose. Dzimwe nguva, unofanira kutadza kuti ubudirire. "
- Lori Freson, Anorayirwa Imba uye Mhuri Chiremba
2. Tora Mwana Wako Nekuremekedza
"Usatumidza zita kana kudana: Vana vanodzidza kubva kwamuri, vachikutuka kana kurova kungodzidzisa kuti vashandise kukakavadzana nechisimba uye utsinye. Kana iwe uchinzwa wakatsamwa kwazvo panguva iyoyo, tora nguva uye uende, dzoka zvakare uye uve nepurogiramu yekuranga. Kana iwe ukarasa kurasikirwa kwako, tsanangura kuti wakaita uye kujekesa iwe unofunga kuti iwe hauna. Kunyatsotsunga uye kunyange kutsamwa asi kuenzanisa inzwi kunoshanda zvakanyanya pane kuratidza kusadzikama uye kuzvidzora. "
- Dr. Gail Saltz, Psychiatrist, Psychoanalyst, Bestselling Munyori neTerevhizheni Commentator
3. Tarisa Mufananidzo Mukuru
"Kana mwana wako akarova makore evechiri kuyaruka, usarasika mumashoko acho nekuisa pfungwa pazuva nezuva maitiro nemafungiro emwana wako. Panguva ino, kazhinji zviyeuchidze iwe kuti mwana wako ari kuyaruka achakurumidza kubva mumba uye achava nesimba rekusarudza kuti manzwiro akabatana sei iye anoda kuti arambe aine iwe kwehupenyu hwako hwose.
Kana iwe unowedzera kuwedzera pakuvaka hukama hwemhirizhonga munguva yemakore ekuyaruka, kunyanya mwana wako anokurumidza-kuva-akura achada uye anokuonga iwe kwemakore anouya. "
- Seeth Meyers, Nyanzvi yezvePfungwa
4. Ipa Mirayiridzo Inobatsira
"Kana iwe uchifanira kutaurira mwana wako chinhu chakafanana vasati vataura, iwe uri kuvadzidzisa kuti vasazviteerere."
-David Johnson, Chirongwa cheMuchato uye Mhuri Chiremba
5. Shandisa Migumisiro Yemagariro
"Shandisai migumisiro yemagariro kana zvichibvira." Vabereki vangafunga kuti vanotofanira kuranga vana nekuda kwekanganiso kana kusazvibata pane kurega hupenyu chaihwo hutora nguva yavo.Kana mwana wenyu akaramba kudzipfeka jasi, ngaaite kuti atonhora kana akarega kunatsa imba yake , regai matoyi ake arasike.Iri kuedza kugadzira zvimwe zvinetso, sekubvisa mitambo yemavhidhiyo kana nguva yeTV, nokuti hatisi nguva dzose tine chivimbo chokuti mamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo achashanda asi munguva yakareba ivo vane nzira yekuita maitiro. "
- Heidi Smith Luedtke, Munhu Unyanzvi wePfungwa uye Munyori we "Detachment Parenting: 33 Nzira dzekuchengetedza Zuva Rako Kana Vana Vanyorera"
6. Dambudziko-Gadzirisai Pamwechete
" Chinetso chekugadzirisa ndicho chinofanira kutsiva chirango kuitira kukudziridza unhu hwakanaka, hunoremekedza kuvana nevakuru.Kuranga inzira yakamanikidzira inoshandiswa kuita vana kuti vaite zvatinoda.
Haiti chinhu chekudziridza unhu nekunzwira tsitsi. Zvechokwadi ndicho icho chiri chikamu chekusika bhururi. Vana havadzidze kuburikidza nekutya uye kusimba. Unhu hwavo husingagamuchirwi hunoreva kutitaurira kuti vane dambudziko, kwete dambudziko. "
- Bonnie Harris, Parenting Educator uye Mutungamiriri weConnective Parenting
7. Shandisa Kuranga Kudzidzisa, Kwete Kuranga
"Kunzwisisa zvinorehwa neshoko chirango.Zvose pamusoro pekudzidzisa uye dzidzo, kwete kuranga , kutyisidzira, uye kudzidzisa.Zofunge iwe semudzidzisi uye kuratidza mwana wako kuti unovaremekedza nekutsanangura kuti nei muganhu unoda kuiswa.Vabatsire kunzwisisa Ndizvo zvavanoda uye zvakanakira kwavari.
Kuremekedza ndiyo nzira inobatsira mwana wako kubatana! "
- Tom Limbert, Parenting Coach uye Munyori we "Dad's Playbook: Uchenjeri hweVabereki kubva kune Vakakura Zvikoro Zvose Nguva"
8. Ipa Kurumbidzwa Nezvakanaka Maitiro
"Zvinogona kunge zvakaoma kutenda paunenge uchitambudzika nevana vako, asi vana vanoda chaizvo kufadza vabereki vavo Hapana chinoita kuti mwana afare kupfuura kuzvikudza kwavo pavanogamuchira kurumbidzwa kubva kuna amai kana baba. Vabereki vakasimba kwazvo zvokuti zvinosvika pakuva vanhu vakuru. "
-Dana Obleman, Munyori we "Kids: the Manual"
9. Ita Zvinopesana Nokuranga
"Gara uchigadzikana." Kuramba kusingaiti kunogona kusimbisa maitiro asina kunaka nokuti mwana wako acharamba achiedza achivimba kuti panguva ino haazoperi mumatambudziko. "
- Susan Bartell, Nyanzvi yePfungwa uye Munyori we "Top 50 Mibvunzo Inobvunza Vana"
10. Tarisa Maitiro Asingaoneki seChiratidzo Mwana Wako Ane Dambudziko
"Dambudziko remukomana pane chimwe chinhu chaanoda uye chinoda uye haazivi kuti zvimwe zvinogadzirisa sei kunze kwekutadza kuita zvisina kunaka." Mubereki anowanzova nechinetso nemararamiro emwana.Asi zvinonzwisisika kuti mubereki anowanzotanga nekuedza kugadzirisa dambudziko rake uye inotenderedza kugadzirisa dambudziko romwana. "
- Nancy Buck, Developmental Psychologist uye Musiki we Peaceful Parenting Inc.