Zvichida uri kudya kumba, kudya, kana kudya kwemanheru neshamwari, tsika dzakanaka dzematafura yevana chikamu chinokosha chekudya kose. Apo iwe unodzidzisa mwana wako zvakanaka tsika dzefurafura, iwe uri kuvapa matanho anokosha ekubatana kwevanhu vanozovabatsira kune hupenyu hwavo hwose. Kunyanya, kuisa hwaro hwehutano hwakanaka patafura yezvokudya kunoreva kuti vana vako vanozove vakava shamwari dzinofadza kudya kwemhuri mumakore anotevera.
Basic Table Manners Kudzidzisa Vana Vako
1. Uyai patafura nemaoko ake uye chiso chichene. Dzidzisai vana venyu nguva dzose kushamba vasati vadya, anodaro Patricia Rossi, munyori we Everyday Etiquette. Izvi hazvisi izvo chete zvinoratidza kuremekedza munhu uyo akagadzirira kudya pamwe nevamwe pavanodya patafura, asiwo unhu hunokosha hwehutano hwehutano .
2. Bvunza nguva dzose kana pane chimwe chinhu chaunogona kuita. Pasinei nemusha kana imba yomumwe munhu, nguva dzose bvunza vakuru kana iwe uchigona kubatsira chero chinhu kuti ugadzirire kudya kwemanheru.
3. Kana ukaronga tafura, yeuka BMW. Vana avo vakwegura zvakakwana kuti vabatsire kugadzika tafura vanogona kuyeuka kuti zvinhu zvinowanikwa sei nemurairo wakajeka: BMW. Chingwa nemukaka zviri kuruboshwe uye mvura kurudyi. Vanogonawo kuyeuka kuti sirivha inofamba nehuwandu hwemashoko mumashoko okuti "kuruboshwe" uye "zvakanaka," anodaro Rossi. Rokupfura rinoenda kuruboshwe uye rine mavara mana. Iko rinopfuurira mberi uye rine tsamba shanu.
4. Tarisa muenzi wacho kuti aone kana iwe uchifanira kuzarura napkin yako. Kana akaisa jira rake pamakumbo ake, ndicho chiratidzo chako kuti uise peputi yako pane yako.
5. Mirira kusvikira munhu wese achishumira asati adya. Udza mwana wako kuti asazotanga kudya kusvikira munhu wose agere uye achishumira.
6. Usambofa, tsvina nemuromo wako yakazaruka. Kucheka nemuromo wako kwakavharwa uye usingatauri kana muromo wako uzere pane makadhi maviri emitemo yemitambo yakanaka yefurafura.
7. Usambopinza muromo wako. Dzidzisa mwana wako kutora zviduku zvishoma uye usambofukura zvokudya zvake.
8. Usapindira kana mumwe munhu ari kutaura. Patafura yezvokudya, ita kuti mwana wako amirire nguva yavo yekutaura kana achitaura nezvezuva ravo kana imwe nyaya. Itai vana muitiro wokutaura nezvemashoko, shamwari dzavo, kuti chikoro chaive chei, nezvimwe zvinhu zvinofadza.
9. Usambosvika kusvika kuwana chimwe chinhu. Yeuchidza mwana wako kuti arege kusvika kumativi ose tafura kuti awane munyu kana chimwe chinhu chaanoda. Mutorei muitiro wokukumbira matafura kuti apfuure chimwe chinhu chaanoda.
10. Isa chivharo pachigaro, kwete tefura. Dzidzisa mwana wako nguva dzose kuti aise chifukidzo pachigaro chake kana achida kushandisa imba yekugara. Hazvifanirwe kuenda pamba yake kana tafura.
11. Gara uchiputira chigaro chake kana wapedza. Apo paanomuka kubva patafura, iye anofanira kusundira chigaro chake kumashure patafura.
12. Gara uchitora ndiro yako uye uti unotenda. Iyi ndiyo tsika inokosha yekuita kuti mwana wako apinde mumba nokuti kana ikava chikamu chekuita kwake, achave achida kuzviita kana ari mueni mune imwe imba yomumwe munhu. Kana iwe uri paresitorendi, dzidzisa mwana wako kuti atarise maziso nemubati wechipfuti ndokuti "ndinokuvongai." "Tinokurudzira vana vedu kurongedza ivo pachavo uye vachiti ndinokutendai," anodaro Rossi.
"Kana vasingakwanisi kuzviita, havawani dessert."
Nzira dzakanaka dzematafura, semitemo yakanaka kwazvo, ichanzwisiswa nevanhu vanoonana nevana venyu. Dzidzisai kuti paanoratidza kuremekedza vamwe, achawana zvinhu zvikuru mukudzoka.