Makumi mashoma makumi emakore adarika akaunza kuwedzera kunoshamisa kwenhamba yemhuri inotungamirirwa nevana vasina kuroorwa. Kusiyana nemifananidzo yekare yakajeka yevarombo-vakaoma, vasina kudzidza uye vakasiyiwa vaduku vaduku kana vakadzi vakatarisana nevana vechirwere voga, vanowanzobudirira, vakadzidza, vakadzi vakadzi vasina kuroora vanosvika paamai kuburikidza nesarudzo uye kuburikidza nekugamuchirwa.
International Adoption
Vatsigiri vanocherechedza kuti nhamba yevashandi vekudzimba uye yepasi rose yakaramba ichiwedzera. Kuenzaniswa nevakaroorana navo, vakadzi vasina kuroora vanoti kusarudzwa kwekugadziriswa kwenyika yose hakuna nguva refu uye mukana wekugamuchira mwana mudiki mukuru zvikuru. Vakadzi vasati varoora vanowanzoita zvekudzivirirwa kwenyika dzose pamusoro pekugamuchirwa kwenyika. Vanaamai vanozvarwa ndivo vanogona kusarudza vakaroorana pamusoro pezvisingabviri zvevana vavo mumhuri yekurera, uye makore ndeyekukurukurwa kwemasangano akawanda.
Vanoda Kuvandudza
Vakadzi vasina kuroorwa vanowanzotungamira amai kune zvikonzero zvakafanana vakadzi vakaroorana vanoita. Vanotaura nezvechido chimwechete uye vanoda kuda nekurera mwana wavo pachavo. Asi kusiyana nevakadzi vakaroorwa, mukadzi asina kuroorwa anotarisana nematambudziko ekugadzirisa uye mari yekugadziriswa ari oga uye nechokwadi chokuti angaguma achirera mwana wake oga asina baba kana shamwari.
Vanaamai vakawanda vasina kuroorwa vanotora vachaudza pachena pachena kuti havasi ivo vasina kusarudzwa nechisarudzo. Vanotarisira kuguma pakupedzisira mubereki wavo nemumwe wavo. Vamwe havasi ivo vakasununguka nekuva vasina kuroorwa asi vanosarudza kugara vasina kuroora kana vachirera vana kusvika pakuva vanhu vakuru. Nekutarisana nekwangwani kwemaawa, vakadzi vazhinji havana kubudirira kutora intrauterine insemination nevana vanopa uye / kana mazai avo vanozvipa vasati vatsvaga kugamuchirwa semugwagwa unoenda kuvabereki.
Society
Shamwari, mhuri, uye nharaunda inogona kurumbidza murume anobata nemudzimai anonunura kana kutora mwana, asi vanaamai vasina kuroorwa havakwanisi kurumbidzwa nekuda kwezvirongwa zvavo zvekuita vana. Vanotsoropodza nevatsoropodzi vanogona kupa mhosva vana vasina kuroora vanodyire nokuti havagoni kupa mwana nababa uye imba yakasimba. Vamwe vachareva zvisiri izvo nhamba dzinobatanidza kubata vana vari voga kune zvirwere zvakasiyana-siyana zvehutano kuvana vavo. Mukadzi asina kuroorwa angatofanira kutanga kukunda hutsva kuti akunde madhimoni ake emukati uye kuderedza zvaanofunga-izvo zvaaifunga nezvitendero pamusoro pekugamuchirwa.
Kutongwa
Mushure mokutengesa mari yakawanda uye mari yekusagadzikana kana kutenderera munyika yose kupedzisa mitemo yekubvumirwa kune dzimwe nyika, vose vakaroorana nevabereki vasina kubata vari voga vanogona kurwisana nekutarisira kukuru uye kuchinja kugoverana hupenyu hwavo nemwana. Vanaamai vasina kuroora vanokwanisa kunzwa vaine mhosva uye vachinyadziswa pavanoshuva nguva dzekusurukirwa uye kuzvimiririra kwevaimbova vasina kuroora.
Support Systems
Nenzira inonakidza, Indaneti, terevhizheni, uye vhidhiyo zvakasimudzira kuziva nezvemaonero evakadzi vasina kuroorwa vanotarisana nehutano hwekugamuchirwa, pamwe chete nezvinetso zvavanogona kutarisana nazvo mushure mekuiswa.
Iko 24/7 mamiriro eIndaneti uye kuwanika kwehuwandu hwehuwandu hwemashoko uye zvigadziro pahutachiona zvakakonzera kuti vawedzere vana vanoziva uye vanogadzirirwa vagadzirire vanotarisira vanaamai. Amai vasina kubudirira vasina amai vanoziva kuti haisi chiratidzo chekushaya simba kana chiratidzo chekukundikana kana iye achitsvaka kubatsirwa uye kutsigirwa. Kunyangwe achiita saizvozvo kuburikidza neboka rekutsigira mhuri dzinogamuchirwa, mutungamiri wake wega kana nyika ye-cyber, rubatsiro runowanika iye nevana vake vatsva. Sezvo achiita shanduko mumabasa ake matsva saamai, kutungamirirwa uye ruzivo rwakakonzerwa kubva kune vamwe vakatofamba mumugwagwa wega voga vanogona kubatsira pakatarisira uye kutanga kutanga mazivo anozivikanwa uye zvipingamupinyi.
Hazvina musoro kufunga kuti vose vakaroorana vacharamba vakaroorwa, uyewo hazvifaniri kufungidzirwa kuti vakadzi vose vasina kuroora vachagara vasina kusingaperi. Pane kudaro, kutsigira kubvumirwa nevakadzi vasina kuroorwa vanotenda kuti unhu hwemunhu, simba, uye unhu hwekurera vana hunofungidzirwa zviri nani pakupa mwana ane imba inogamuchirwa.
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