Utano hwehutano hwemwana wako huri chiratidzo chekuti anoonekwa sei nevezera rake. Vatsvakurudzi vanoshandisa mitemo yezvemagariro evanhu kuti vanzwisise zviri nani maitiro nemigumisiro yevana vane marudzi akasiyana ehukama hwevezera . Nzvimbo yekodzero yakazivikanwawo sehutano hwezera. Migumisiro yemitemo yemwana wenyu wevekuyaruka inogona kukanganisa ramangwana ravo maererano nehutano hwehutano muhukama hwehukama nehukama.
Unhu hwemakemikari hunogonawo kuita kuti mwana wako azvione ivo pachavo.
Nzira yeCometric Status Inoenzaniswa sei
Nheyo dzezvematongerwo enyika dzakagadzirirwa nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana nevatsvakurudzi vakasiyana. Nzira dzakawanda dzinosanganisira kubvunza vana zvavanofunga nezvevamwe vana vari mukirasi yavo. Somuenzaniso, vana vanogona kubvunzwa kuti vasarudze vana vatatu vavanoda ivo vaduku uye vakawanda mukirasi. Kana vana vanogona kubvunzwa kutarisa mwana wese mukirasi maererano nekugona. Vamwe vatsvakurudzi vanonyatsoona kubatana kwevana panzvimbo pokukumbira vana kuti vaone maonero avo. Vamwe vatsvakurudzi vanobvunza vadzidzisi pane vana.
Zvikamu Zvishanu zveZvibvumirano Zvinyorwa
Vatsvakurudzi vakawanda vanoshandisa zvikamu zvishanu zvemaitiro emagariro evanhu. Izvi zvinosanganisira:
- Ramba
- Kusateerera
- Avhareji
- Yakakurumbira
- Kakavhiringidza
Havasi vese vatsvakurudzi vanobvumirana nemapoka aya, zvisinei, uye pane imwe nharo pamusoro pekubatsira kwevanhu vanoita zvematongerwo enyika munzvimbo dzose.
Sociometric Status uye Interpersonal Skills
Kana mwana wenyu achiri kuyaruka akagamuchirwa nevezera rake, zvingava chinhu chakanaka pamakadziro ake evanhu pakukura. Zvisinei, zvikanganiso zvisina kunaka hazvirevi kuti mwana wenyu ari kuyaruka achangotambudza kuumba unyanzvi hwemagariro evanhu. Chinoita sokuti ini chinonyanya kukosha ndeyekuti mwana wenyu anofunga sei nezvehupenyu hwavo hwemagariro evanhu.
Vechidiki vanofambidzana nevanowanakira mune zvekunze vanoita sevari nani pakuvandudza unyanzvi hwakanaka hwevanhu. Chikonzero cheizvi chinogona kunge chiri chekuti mwana wako ari kuyaruka, kana zvaanotarisira pamusoro pekuti achabatwa sei, anoita maitiro ehupenyu uye maitiro.
Mwana Wako Ari Kuyaruka Anofunga Nezvemagariro Evanhu Here?
Kunyange zvazvo hutano hwemagariro evanhu hunoita kuti hurumende ishande, kana mwana wenyu achiri kuyaruka asinganyanyi kukoshesa kugamuchirwa nevezera rake, vanogona kunge vari nani pakugadzirisa maitiro akasiyana-siyana emagariro evanhu, uye pakupedzisira vanofambidzana hukama huri nani pane vechidiki vanoisa kukoshesa mukugamuchirwa kwevanhu. Pane chiito chekuenzanisa pakati pekumutsa mwana wechidiki kuti ave akasununguka mune zvehukama uyewo kuzvibvuma. Kana iwe uchidzidzisa mwana wako achiri kuyaruka kusazvikoshesa kune izvo vamwe vanofunga, iwe uchavashongedza navo nemashandisirwo ekubudirira mune zvehukama kusvika pakukura.
Mamwe mazwi akafanana: avhareji mwana, anokakavadzana vana, vana vanozivikanwa, mwana akarambwa, mwana asina hanya
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