"Mwana akarambwa" mwana akasiyiwa asi asingadi nevezera rake. Vakarambwa vana ndeimwe yemhando shanu dzemagariro evanhu , kana vezera, mitemo, hurongwa hwekugadzirisa mararamiro ehutano hwevana maererano nevezera ravo kune mwana iyeye. Vamwe vezera vanogona kuda mwana akarambwa kusvika pamwero, asi mwana wacho haawanzoiti kana akambotaridzika, anozivikanwa somunhu wese shamwari yakanakisisa .
Kurambidzwa Vana Tendai Kuratidzira Mafambisi Api
Vakarambwa vana vanowanzova nehasha kana kushungurudzika uye kubviswa. Chero zvazvingaitika, vanhu vakuru vanofanira kutora nguva kuti vaone kana maitiro ane chokuita nekuregwa ndiwo chikonzero chekurambwa- kana chikonzero.
Vana vane utsinye vanorambwa vanowanzoshandisa muviri , kutaura, uye / kana kurwisana nevezera ravo. Zvimwe kana kuti zvose zvehutsinye huno hutsinye hunogona kubva kune imwe yekutanga yezera rako rekuramba. Zvinosuruvarisa, kunyange zvakadaro, utsinye pachahwo hunoita kuti hurambe huchienderera mberi uye kuramba kwenguva refu .
Vakarambwa vana vanogonawo kuita basa, vanyarara, uye vasina kufara . Muzviitiko zvizhinji, vana vakadaro havakwanisi kana kuti vanoonekwa se "vakasiyana." Nyaya dzakadaro dzinogona kuva chikonzero chechirwere chekuvandudza. Autism, ADHD, kukanganisa-kukanganisa-kusagadzikana, kushungurudzika kwevanhu, kana kuora mwoyo kunogona kutungamirira kune maitiro asina kunaka kana kuti anokanganisa. Kusiyana kunogonawo kubva pamamiriro ezvinhu epanyama akadai seve matsi, upofu, cerebral palsy, nezvimwewo.
Mukuwedzera, kusiyana kwezviito uye kushandiswa kwemutauro kunogona kungoguma kubva kumwana anobva kune tsika kana rudzi rwakasiyana nerwo rwevakawanda vevana mune imwe chikoro.
Kudzivisa Kurambwa
Vamwe vana vane maonero akasiyana uye asina kudzivirirwa evanhu vane unyanzvi hwakanaka hwemagariro evanhu zvokuti kusiyana kunenge kusina maturo.
Izvi, zvisinei, hazviwanzo zvakadaro. Kana mwana wako aine matambudziko kana matambudziko, kana mutauro kana tsika, iwe unogona kumubatsira kugadzirira kushamwaridzana kwevanhu . Kudzidzisa, vezveshamwari, masangano ekudzidzira hutano, uye dzimwe nzira dzinogona kubatsira mwana wako kugadzirira kushamwaridzana muchikoro.
Shingairira Matambudziko Maitiro
Iwe unogonawo kubatsira mwana wako kuti arege kurambwa nekushanda naye kana pane zvinetso zvinetso zvinogona kukonzera zvinetso. Maitiro akadaro anogona kusanganisira:
- Thumb sucking
- Nose kukanya
- Kubvisa pfungwa kana mhinduro
- Chenjerera-kubata kana kuzvikudza
- Kushungurudza
- Kusarudzwa kwehutano, izvo zvingaguma nekuomerera pakukurukurirana nyaya dzakasiyana-siyana kakawanda; kuchinja nyaya yacho nehurukuro inofadza; kuve wakanyanyisa pedyo nemumwe mwana; kubata vamwe vana kana kuti iwe pachako, nezvimwewo.
Kukunda Kurambwa
Kuti ubatsire mwana wako kukundwa kurambwa, zvinokosha kunzwisisa zvikonzero zvayo. Kana ukangonzwisisa zvizere-kuburikidza nemitemo yemwana wako, misangano yevadzidzisi, nekucherechedza-chii chinokonzera dambudziko, unogona kutanga kutarisa nenzira dzinotevera:
- Batsira mwana wako kuti azive uye aite basa rokudzima zvinetso zvinotyisa.
- Paunoona mwana wako achiratidzira maitiro akanaka evanhu, kumurumbidza kana kutsanangura kuti sei uye nei chiito chacho chakanga chakanaka.
- Dzidzisa mwana wako kuti angabvunza sei uye apindure mibvunzo, igovera pasi, uye uunze nyaya dzinowanzofarira.
- Shanda pamwe nemwana wako kuti aone zvaanokwanisa uye zvaanofarira, uye ozovaka pane izvo simba kuburikidza nekuita mushure mekudzidza kwekuchikoro kana mapurogiramu emunharaunda . Mabasa ekuvaka-kuvimba akaita sartial arts anogona kunyanya kubatsira.
- Taura nemwana wako nezvehukama hwepedyo hwehukama hwakakosha kudarika kuzivikanwa uye kumubatsira kudzidza kusimbisa ushamwari huripo iyeye.
- Teerera kumwana wako apo iye ari kunzwa akanambwa. Kuziva kuti ane rudo rusina mhaka uye kutsigirwa kumba kunogona kufamba nenzira yakareba pakuwedzera kuvimba.
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