Vana Vanorwira Kuzvimiririra Kwavo Kana Kuberekwa Kwatsvaga
Vana vanoratidza chido chekuzvimirira pamatanho maviri - makore vaduku uye achiri kuyaruka, anozivikanwawo sepakati nepakati pemakore ekuyaruka. Dzidza kuti hutongi hunoratidzika sei munguva yegumi nevaviri, uye nei chidzidzo ichi chiri chikamu chine utano hwekufambira mberi pane nguva iyo vabereki vanofanira kutya.
Vana vanodzidza kuva vakazvimirira panguva dzakakodzera muupenyu vanogona kuramba vachiva vanhu vane simba uye vanobudirira.
Kusarudzira Kuzvidzivirira
Kungotaura, kuzvidzivirira kunoreva kuzvibata uye kufunga pasina humwe. Vanhu vanozvigadzirira havatungamirirwi nevamwe vanhu kana kunze kwemasimba. Pane kudaro, ivo vanozvitonga, kana muchida. Vana vanotanga kuzvidzivirira zvishoma nezvishoma pamusoro pekufambira mberi.
Mumakore mashomanana, vanotanga kukudziridza kuzvimirira nekuongorora zvakatipoteredza uye kutanga kuita zvinhu ivo pachavo. Kudzidza kushandisa chikafu, kuzvipa ivo, kutaura, kufamba uye kumhanya zvose unyanzvi hunobatsira vana vemakore maviri kuti vave nekuzvidzivirira. Panguva ino, vana vanozivikanwa kuti vataure vabereki vavo, " Kwete! " Ichi chiratidzo chakanaka chekuda kuzvimiririra.
Vamwe vabereki vanogona kunetseka kuti vaone vana vavo vachibva muchechecheche. Zvinowedzera zvakaoma kuti vabereki vashandise tariro yavo nezviroto kune vaduku, avo vari kuwedzera kukura vavo pachavo uye kurwisana nehurumende. Kuwanda kwekutsamwa kwehasha vabereki vanofanira kutarisana panguva iyi hakubatsiri nyaya.
Kuzvidzivirira muTweens uye Teens
Hondo yakatevera inotevera yekuzvimirira inowanikwa mukati memakore nemakore ekuyaruka. Munguva iyoyo, vana vanorwisana kuti vave vanozvimirira asi panguva imwechete vanonzwa vachidzorerwa vachiri vaduku kuburikidza nekuchiva kwavo uye nemiganhu vabereki nevanogara vanogara pavari.
Kunyange vabereki vevana vaduku vangave vachinetseka kutarisa vana vavo vachizadza vana, vabereki vevechiri kuyaruka uye vechipiri vanofanira kufungidzira nezvokuti kuyaruka kunoratidza chikamu chokupedzisira chehuduku.
Apo vechidiki vanorwira kudzivirirwa kwavo, ndezvekuti vachakurumidza kuva vanhu vakuru nehupenyu hwavo mumaoko avo pachavo panzvimbo pevabereki vavo.
Tweens uye vechidiki vanogona kuratidza kuzvidzivirira kwavo nekubvunzurudza mitemo yavo vabereki vavo vanovapa kana kunyange kuvhoora. Vachazotangawo kuratidza zvido zvakasimba mune zvokupfeka, mimhanzi kana zvichida kunyange mune zvemagariro kana zvematongerwe enyika. Vachatarisira kuwana hutongi hwakawanda, zvakadai sokuwana mvumo yevadzidzi kutyaira uye gare gare chikwata chekutyaira. Rites of passage, zvakadai se bar mitzvahs kana mitambo yechikoro inoratidzawo kuti mwana ari kukura.
Kuzvidzivirira muKubata kweAdolescence
Vechidiki pavanenge vava nemakore, vanozotarisira kukwanisa kuvhota kana kunyorera zviri pamutemo kana kutamba. Mune tsika dzemazuva ano dzeAmerica, vanhu vangave vasingakwanisi kuzvidzivirira zvizere kusvikira pane imwe nguva pavanenge vachiri vaduku (pakati pe18 ne25 yemakore). Nguva yekuzvigadzirisa zvakakwana ingasiyana.
Mumwe wemakore makumi maviri nemaviri ane makore makumi maviri nematanhatu anogona kunge ari akaroora yekoroji akadzidza uye anoshanda nguva yakazara uye achibhadhara mabhiriro ake. Mumwe musikana wemakore makumi maviri nemaviri angave asina kumbove neukama hwakakomba, kurarama pamba nevabereki vake uye kupinda pamba yekoroji.
Zvakanaka, vechidiki vechidiki vanofanira kuva vakazvigadzirira nokukurumidza sezvinobvira, vachivapa kuzvivimba kuti vanogona kuzvitarisira ivo pachavo uye vanoita nzira yavo munyika kunze kwekubatsira kwavabereki vavo.
Vamwe vana vakakurira mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, zvakadai sekuchengetwa kwevabereki kana mumhuri dzine urombo, vangawana rusununguko munguva yekare.